60 Grandma's Pain
A light snow adds a bit of peace to the New Year, and people are immersed in the joy of bidding farewell to the old and welcoming the new.
My father suddenly received a call, and I heard my father's tone begin to strengthen. From my father's words, I already understood what happened. The call just now was called by my cousin Hao, who stayed in his hometown to celebrate the New Year with his grandmother.
My father said furiously, your grandma threw her arm while cleaning the snow. Why do you want to go out to sweep the snow during the New Year?
My father and I rushed to my grandma's house. My grandma's face was covered in sweat. She said to her cousin, "Take it for me!" I'm going to pull it for me! I'm going to pull it for me! What grandma means is Hao pulling her arm quickly. Grandma thinks that her hand has been off.
Hao looked at me in embarrassment and said to my grandma, Grandma! You can't pull it now. If you break it, the worse the more you pull it, the worse the situation will be. My father angrily blamed Grandma for this and that's not right. Later, he simply stepped forward and grabbed Grandma's arm to pull it. I hurried forward to stop it. My father then gave up the idea of pulling his arm. My cousin Hao was also worried about his impulse and stood up to stop it with me.
"Don't blame me! I feel very painful now." Grandma sat on the chair at the door and said to us. Seeing grandma's pain, it hurts her body and in my heart.
Grandma was actually worried that going to the hospital would cause trouble for us younger generations. Although the pain was unbearable, she still reluctantly thought that she had just lost her stagnation. It was not until an old man from the same village came to do ideological work for grandma. Grandma's emotions stabilized!
If such a situation happened in a city family, the old lady would probably not be panicked at all. At worst, she would cry for a while and then go to the hospital by taking a taxi. And where did grandma's panic come from?
Although grandma didn't say it, we all understood. She was worried that it would cause trouble for us and that her children would spend money. She had never been to the hospital in her life. At this age, she naturally didn't want to cause trouble for her children anymore! It was precisely because of this self-blame that grandma endured the pain and sighed.
I really feel that when people get old, they feel pitiful! Not many people feel sorry for them. The care and eyes of their children gradually turn to their children, but gradually ignore the suffering and joy of their parents.
At first, my grandma didn't go to the hospital for examination, and she was stubborn like her young grandma! We were all very helpless. No words moved my grandma! My cousin Hao said to me helplessly, Brother, look at grandma! What should I do?
Later, after being persuaded by the elderly in the same village, my grandmother finally agreed to go to the hospital for examination. My father rode a motorcycle and came to the town hospital for examination. Looking at the backs of my grandmother and her father, my heart was mixed. Only then did Hao smile appear on his face.
In the following months, my grandma was wearing plaster. Hao went to school in another place, and I returned to work. Whenever I remembered my grandma's painful expression and her arms in plaster, I felt very uncomfortable!
People often say that raising children is to prevent old age. As a son, I wonder, when my parents are old, can I still ride a motorcycle to see my parents like my father?
It seems that the distance is actually within reach. My father is over fifty years old this year, and I am nearly thirty years old in the blink of an eye. What I can do may be to try to make the pain of my loved ones purer, without mixing factors and worries other than pain.
Brother Hao was able to take time to stay with his grandmother during the holidays and did not disappoint the love of those elderly people. At least it showed that Brother Hao was grateful in his heart, and he did not forget the fun and care of his childhood.
Chapter completed!