50 Youth never ends
The college class teacher once said something like this to us after getting drunk. He said that he didn't want these classmates to go to the same company, even if everyone was from all over the world, this was a good thing. When he said these words, Teacher Li was already drunk. I agreed in my heart, but there was no evidence to support this approval. However, we had more than a dozen classmates and then came to work in the same company. Gradually, I seemed to find the so-called "evidence".
A Peng and I were lucky among our classmates. We have always been inseparable from university to work. There have been some changes in the middle, but we are always in the same unit. However, this year, A Peng resigned and we ended our six-year relationship with colleagues. His resignation touched me a lot. After all, I still really treat him as a friend and friend in my heart.
A Peng is an ambitious person. He has his own style in how to communicate. In contrast, I am just a ignorant person. I cannot bow my head in front of people I don’t like, nor can I hold up a trembling wine glass. This reason always makes me have a gap between me and A Peng in the unit, so I naturally become a weak person. A Peng was already the class monitor of six people when he first entered the factory. Although I also had the opportunity to be the class monitor, I was a class member because of many inexplicable little things.
Later, A Peng became the district chief through his own efforts. In this way, he became my direct leader and I was also a class member. When he became the district chief, I was happy for him from the bottom of my heart and felt that it was a good thing for my buddy to become the leader. However, our relationship seemed to have changed.
Since Apeng became my leader, I have strict requirements on myself in all aspects because I understand that other colleagues are staring at me with a sharp look. After work, Apeng and I have a relationship with each other like friends, but I try not to talk to him about work. In this extremely careful interaction, I still took a lot of blame. For a period of time, I felt like I had become a public enemy of people, and everyone regarded me as a traitor.
Just a traitor! The most important thing in life is to be upright and upright. In fact, I have a clear conscience on this point and have been trying to be a responsible and upright person. As for how others oppose me, I think the person who should oppose will never stand on my side, so I face it calmly.
I found that even A Peng changed a little later. I often comforted myself. Maybe it was because his position was difficult! Changing was also a normal thing. But I began to have some dissatisfaction. This dissatisfaction comes from many aspects. I think that good relationships cannot be a victim of surgery, and there is no need to sacrifice friendship for work, right?
Once, A Peng and I had a conflict. That day, I was in a bad mood and had an argument with A Peng in a very distorted state. He used the perspective of the leader to maintain the dignity that the leader should have, and I fought with my long-term confusion. At that time, we were quarreling very hard. I saw A Peng holding A4 paper trembling in his hands. Facing that long-term quarrel, I had to continue to make mistakes even if I was wrong. Because if it weren't for this method, our friendship might have been ruined. Blushing can actually make us wake up temporarily. In short, work is work, friendship is friendship, and it should not be a pool.
A Peng's resignation surprised me at that time. Many people asked me if A Peng was going to resign. A Peng didn't seem to mention the resignation in front of me. After he took a family leave, he quit in a hurry. His resignation made me feel sad that a comrade-in-arms fell down. If he wanted to leave, there would naturally be a reason to leave. Maybe when he went out, his life would be better.
After A Peng resigned, I suddenly felt sad. It seemed that we would never have a dispute over our common cause, nor would anyone force the traitor's hat on my head. Teacher Li's words back then felt more and more reasonable. Yes, we might have broken up each other because we knew each other too much and ended up parting in an unhappy way.
Growth comes at a price. Along the way, we have to constantly measure the priorities of things, and have to use blood and tears to confirm each and every iron truth. We are all working hard for our ideals in life and struggling for the trivialities of life. Those comrades who were once in the trenches, although we are from all over the world, the most valuable thing is that we are still deeply in love.
Chapter completed!