1206. The history of being changed(1/2)
"Of course, my words were successful."
"Otherwise, I won't come out."
Lu Yuan spread his hands and told him frankly. At the same time, he sat down without a trace, took out a small teacup from his storage spirit tool, took the teapot from the little Yixian's hand, poured himself a cup of tea, and then placed the teapot on the original real flame platform to warm it.
in other words.
Things like the real flame station are similar to induction cookers.
Place the teapot on top.
The tea can be kept at a constant temperature.
It can be easily lifted and poured when drinking.
Even though the source of this thing, or who invented it first, is no longer a matter of fact, this thing is indeed a standard item for all tea-loving people in the world. Although it is related to the world of Daqian.
There are only two types of mainstream drinks in the world.
Tea, wine.
The rest is gone.
In other words, even if there is, it is still a path.
For example, juice.
For example, coffee.
For example, some other blended drinks.
But in the eyes of practitioners.
Those are junk food.
No good for the body.
Like the most harmless juice.
There are tens of millions of tea varieties, among which the top one is the Enlightenment Tea, which allows people to see life and enter the state of Enlightenment. Even the five ancient tribes do not have much Enlightenment Tea. Although they don’t have much Enlightenment Tea in their eyes, they still have the amount of indulgence tea in daily life, and the amount of Enlightenment Tea produced in a year is only a few taels of Enlightenment Tea, but the five ancient tribes have existed for many years. Over the years, there are still hundreds of kilograms of reserves. After all, the guests do not come every year, let alone not every guest needs to entertain them with Enlightenment Tea.
certainly.
Look at it from another perspective.
Even the five ancient tribes of this level.
The reserved Wudao tea is only a few hundred kilograms.
This is enough to show how precious this kind of tea is.
Therefore, there is an upper limit.
Good enlightenment tea can be used as a cultivation resource and exchanged with others.
As for the lower limit of tea.
It is quite people-friendly.
Even ordinary people who have not entered the ranks of cultivation.
If you want to drink tea, you can still drink it.
In addition, from the beginning, tea was given a characteristic, that is, one of the drinks to make friends. Although this characteristic is also wine, it is used to entertain guests, but there is no alcohol.
Therefore, any family that pays attention to the point.
They will prepare some good tea at home.
The same goes for the patriarch of this family.
Even if he doesn't like drinking, he will use it to receive guests on the spot. After all, if you bring a cup of boiled water to the guests, it is not only a sign that you don't appreciate these guests, but also a great disrespect, which will leave a bad impression on the guests. For example, your family is so poor that you can't even afford a cup of tea?
Things like this that involve family face.
No matter how cautious it is.
It's not an exaggeration.
Ultimately, this is a world where the strong prey on the weak.
For the family.
At least for the people in power in a family.
He must understand one truth.
No matter whether you are really weak or fake, you cannot be weak on the surface, at least on the surface, just like a tiger. Assuming that there are several small tiger cubs under this tiger, then even if the tiger is old, you must hold on to it and shock the various wild beasts in the forest and make those wild wolves and hyenas give up the idea of attacking themselves and their children. On the contrary, if you can't hold on the surface, you will inevitably be attacked by groups. Even if you pretend to show that the enemy is weak, there are many people who can't stand it. Once you make a mistake in the estimation, you will definitely die without a place to bury them. After all, no one in the plan will take the blame.
Therefore, even if this family has declined.
It is even said that the difference between the blue and yellow is extremely obvious.
It also needs to be a swollen face and fat man.
At least, the momentum cannot be weakened on the surface.
For example, weddings and funerals.
For example, business competition.
Even if you kill eight hundred enemies, you will lose one thousand of them.
I also have to pretend that I am very strong.
In order to avoid being hurt by other families.
Therefore, no matter whether it is a distinguished guest or an ordinary guest, even if it is an obvious villain, a normal family will act like it is not short of money and go to tea for negotiations according to regular standards.
As for why I have to find something to drink...
If you don’t drink tea or other drinks, can’t you talk about it?
Strictly speaking, it is not necessarily the case.
Drinking tea is just an ideal configuration.
The role of drinks in conversation is also very important.
For ordinary people.
A serious negotiation must be kept clear.
Just like all business negotiations.
What is always tested at the wine table is the bottom line.
When you really sign a contract, it will always be formal.
I have never heard of signing a contract at a wine table.
In other words, although all the promises at the table are recognized, they are only oral contracts, and they do not have legal effects. All contract documents that truly have legal effects are formulated under the supervision of professional lawyers. It can be said that everyone is extremely sober.
So, in this case.
A sober negotiation is bound to be troublesome.
In order to avoid interruption of ideas and to avoid wasting time on useless things, prepare a cup of relatively high-end tea in advance to moisten the lips and facilitate better negotiations in the future. This is one of the core reasons why tea has become a necessary drink for negotiations.
Another core reason lies in the excuses at critical moments.
For example, if one party talks about a topic that the other party is unwilling to mention, or it is difficult to answer, and cannot find a proper speech in a short time. In this special situation, the party who cannot answer can pick up the tea cup and drink tea slowly. It is best to have an elegant movement. On the one hand, adjust its psychological defense line, and on the other hand, think about speech. Don’t look at the process of drinking tea for only four or five seconds. These four or five seconds are enough for the silent party to think and give an answer.
As for what, if both sides can't answer.
You say one, I say one.
It's a rush to talk, and it's a dead end.
The main negotiators of both sides will maintain the same tacit understanding and raise a glass to drink tea.
Then, hand over the problem to the people below.
Let's see what the people below say.
The rough situation is equivalent to the upper layer being frozen.
No one is willing to give in.
in this case.
Whoever can break the deadlock will naturally fall into the hands of someone else, which will then form suppression and even directly promote negotiations.
This is the process of negotiation.
It can also be said to be the process of hospitality.
At least it must be done on the surface.
Although in theory, coffee can also replace the function of tea, when everyone is drinking tea, you suddenly have a coffee, not to mention whether it is appropriate or not, just talking about the innate discrimination chain, which can suppress you or even deny this kind of drink.
in other words.
People who are not sociable are destined to be isolated.
certainly.
If you are not afraid of isolation at all, it doesn't matter.
To be continued...