Temple of rocks.

Many people have this concept...

They feel that setbacks and blows are the driving force behind human growth...

However, in fact, this is not the case...

Such a conclusion itself is actually biased...

Just like the so-called failure is the mother of success...

From the perspective of successful people, it is naturally an extremely correct conclusion...

However, from the perspective of the loser, the situation is completely different...

Compared with successful people, the number of losers is far more than that of successful people, and is even completely disproportionate...

Educating the vast majority of people with the principle that only exists in a few is a wrong behavior...

In fact, when you fail, you should retreat even in a rapid manner and stop the loss in time. This is the truth that most ordinary people should understand most...

Between negative and positive emotions, they can certainly be transformed...

However, if you want to turn negative emotions into positive emotions...

But it's not a very, very easy thing...

And to do this, there are two most basic elements!

The first element is that one needs to have strong emotional regulation ability and strong reversal quotient. In fact, most people have things like emotional intelligence and IQ, but the concept of emotional intelligence is actually reflected in most of the time, in good times and normal environments...

In a smooth and peaceful environment and mentality, most people's IQ and EQ will not be too low. Just like when playing games, in a good situation, basically every player can play their true level, and can even play a game level that is far beyond their own or even their level...

After all, it is simply because the situation is smooth and people's mood will be relaxed. Without worries, people's thinking and judgment ability will be improved to a certain extent. After all, without the burden on the ideological level, they can often better exert their strength...

And if it is in a situation where the most powerful players are often able to play their normal game level and achieve a natural victory or a natural failure...

Only in the face-wind game, the player's level is the most difficult to play. The huge disadvantage of the situation makes any originally correct choice eventually get the wrong result. Poor communication between teammates or insults will greatly affect the mood of most ordinary players, making it even more difficult for a player to exert his strength when he is not strong enough...

In the face of the wind, what really determines the player's performance is actually not about the player's game level, but the player's spiritual will!

Yes, spiritual will!

Just like that famous wooden barrel theory...

The fundamental reason for determining the capacity of a wooden barrel is to build the shortest short board of a wooden barrel!

In a smooth battle situation, the player's spirit will not be under pressure, and will naturally not affect the player's game level. However, once the game enters the rhythm of the headwind, the player's spiritual will will become the shortcomings of many players' game level. Those who have a hot temper, like to insult teammates, or those who cannot tolerate teammates will collapse quickly in the headwind...

The so-called counter-quotient is actually a level of wisdom that people have when facing difficulties and adversity!

Compared with the so-called IQ and EQ in good times, emotional intelligence and IQ in bad times are often more important!

When ordinary people face difficulties, they will more or less affect their own judgment and rationality...

Especially when facing negative emotions such as terror and despair, many people will even completely lose their rationality. Such people may be successful when they have a successful career and a happy family, but once they enter adversity, they may lose their most basic thinking ability and completely lack the ability to deal with it!

Some people, when facing slight adversity and difficulties, will have completely opposite mental conditions. They will feel a little excited because of difficulties and adversity. These excitements will make them more wise and rational in adversity. In this case, they can make more wise judgments and decisions, so that they can escape from adversity and difficulties...

This group of people are actually typical people with adversity emotional intelligence and adversity IQ. Such people may be just an ordinary person in good times, but once they encounter adversity and desperate situations, they may often burst out with more outstanding talents than usual!

In fact, in reality, most successful people have different levels of rebel quotient...

The reason is very simple. There are almost no successful people in this world. If you want to experience success, you will inevitably experience all kinds of troubles and difficulties, and even in a desperate situation of life and death. It is not impossible for these successful people!

Those who can overcome these difficulties and finally succeed must have a strong enough emotional intelligence and IQ in adversity to truly do this!

In fact, this is also the biggest difference between professional-level gamers and ordinary players. When ordinary players face adversity, they often easily show a polarized attitude. One is the type of people who are extremely pessimistic. They feel that as long as the battle situation falls into a situation that is unfavorable to their side, they will basically have no choice but to play next. They always want to encourage their teammates to give up the game, or play the game with an extremely negative game attitude...

Another type of person is extremely optimistic. No matter how bad the battle situation is, they will try to pursue the so-called theoretical possibility of winning. Sometimes, when the battle situation is already clear that there is no chance of winning, they will also blame those teammates who rationally give up fighting, thinking that it is an act of disrespect for the game. In the end, they will work hard or lose, and are exhausted...

After all, it's nothing more than going from one extreme to another...

The biggest advantage of professional players is that they have extremely high ability to withstand pressure when facing adversity. No matter how unfavorable the battle situation is, it will hardly affect their game level. Even when the battle situation is unfavorable, the level of their performance will be improved...

In addition, their professional game level can often help them clearly judge the situation. They will know clearly whether there is a theoretical turnaround in the current situation, whether the opponent's advantage is a real advantage or a fake advantage, and how much is the chance of winning? They will not blindly launch an unnecessary team leader at a disadvantage, but when they need to take a gamble, even if they do a group start that is almost like a death-death team, they will not hesitate at all!

However, although most successful people have certain rebellious quotients, among this group of successful people, there are only a very small number of people who can be regarded as outstanding rebellious quotients in the true sense!

In fact, not to mention being successful people, even if they are just ordinary people, they will have more or less certain reversals. They can always deal with some troubles that are not big or small...

And things like rebel quotient are limited after all!

The higher the quotient of the reverse quotient, the more you can maintain a high level of rationality and thinking ability in the deeper the adversity...

In fact, adversity itself is the best training for a person!

The premise is that this person can maintain his or her quotient in adversity!

Compared to a peaceful and comfortable life, people in adversity can often achieve faster growth...

It’s like a young man living in a modern society and having a wealthy family. If he lives in the city, it may take a long time to be truly independent, but if he throws this young man into the army, basically, a year will be enough for this young man to be reborn...

The life of the army is actually a kind of adversity for young people living in modern cities!

The saying that the army is a melting pot is not a fictional reputation after all...

After all, the so-called growth in adversity is essentially like humans fighting viruses...

The most fundamental factor in whether you can grow in adversity is that the negative emotions brought by adversity must be based on the ability to be converted or endured by the reverse quotient!

If a person has a strong ability to withstand adversity and can resist the negative emotions brought by adversity and transform this emotion into a positive emotion, then adversity can quickly bring growth to people...

By the same token, viruses and antibodies are essentially the same. Through the invasion of a small number of viruses, the body produces antibodies to expel the virus. In the end, because the body itself has antibodies, no matter how large the number of viruses is, it will not be able to threaten the human body, thus producing the effect of being completely immune to the virus. In the final analysis, it is actually a way to use the power of adversity to hone oneself!

From a virus to an antibody, from a harmful to a beneficial one...

In a sense, this process is a transformation from adversity to good times...

It is a natural ability of the human body to fight against natural viruses...

However, this ability is not inherently unlimited...

If the virus is strong enough to break the human immune ability at one time, or if the antibodies produced by the human body are insufficient in strength and quantity, which is not enough to expel the virus, the virus will cause humans to get sick or even die in a very short time...

Whether negative environmental training can be transformed into positive effects depends on multiple factors...

Simply speaking, failure is the mother of success, which is itself a biased approach!

Just like sports can make humans healthy...

However, if a patient is born with asthma or severe heart disease, he will definitely not be able to become healthy through physical exercise, because it will only make their already bad body worse, that's all!

By the same token, the training of special forces can make soldiers strong and elite...

However, if the training of special forces is used on ordinary otaku, it only takes a few days, which is enough to make an otaku die on the training ground!

The same is true for "You Yue"!
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