Qi Feng, 35 years old, businessman.

Chu Sisi had previously told Mu Chun during the case discussion that the patient did not come alone. He came to the hospital with his wife for treatment, saying that his wife felt agitated. Qi Feng saw a patient in a variety show

The guest said that if he had any unpleasant problems, he could go to the mental and physical department, so he accompanied his wife Li to the hospital.

Muchun was not in the hospital at that time, and Chu Sisi told Qi Feng that she was just an intern, and if they didn't mind, they could sit down and have a chat.

"Qi Feng is a decent-looking man. He is well-dressed but not deliberately dressed. He seems to be a well-educated person. According to what he said, he also graduated from a prestigious university with a major in architecture. He has been engaged in the building materials business. His family's conditions are

It’s getting better and better.

Both husband and wife spoke very well. Although they knew that Chu Sisi was an intern, they decided to sit down and chat for a while after discussion. This was the first treatment.

Li did seem a little irritable at that time. She spoke very quickly, but from time to time she would deny her own statement and say something like, 'It's probably my problem.'

At this time, Qi Feng patted his wife on the shoulder and said lovingly, "It's okay. Let's communicate slowly and everything will be fine. You just have too high demands on yourself." In Chu Sisi's view, Qi Feng was a bit

Like Chen Weiwei, he has a successful career and is patient with his wife."

When Muchun asked who suggested coming to the hospital for a visit, Chu Sisi told Muchun that it was Qi Feng who suggested it.

The main issue discussed was that his wife Li often felt lonely.

"When we got married, I was still taking exams. I haven't graduated yet, but I want to go to graduate school, but I'm already working. I only met Qi Feng because of work."

When Li spoke, her eyes revealed her admiration for her husband. Seeing this, Chu Sisi felt that men like Qi Feng were indeed the kind of people who are easier to admire.

"Then, I was busy studying, and my husband was busy with business, but he always found time to be with me. I mean the kind of very considerate company, such as driving me to school. The place where I go to school is quite far from home.

The drive usually takes 45 minutes, and my husband always takes time to take me to school and prepare lunch for me, saying that if I don’t want to have lunch with my classmates, I can just eat the bento he prepared for me.”

He sounds like he takes good care of people.

"When I finished class, he would appear at the school gate on time to pick me up, which made many classmates at the time very envious."

When Li said this, Qi Feng showed a very doting look towards her, "No, these are all what I should do."

Then Li suddenly became unhappy, and said in frustration and anger: "But then something happened. I mean now, he is very busy now, very busy. Although he still takes good care of me, I don't know.

The statement may be a bit exaggerated, I really don’t know, so”

"Speak slowly, everyone will have some unavoidable emotions. It's okay. It might be better if we just let it go." Chu Sisi comforted her. She found that Li looked very unhappy indeed, and her tears

It was spinning in my eyes, wanting to fall down at any moment.

"But maybe these are all my reasons. I have too high demands on him. I also understand that we have been married for four or five years, and I can't ask him to treat me like he did when we first fell in love and got married.

.”

"My wife has a bit of a princess temper. Please forgive me for this," Qi Feng said very politely.

"My princess temper? Do you think it's a temper?"

Li turned sideways and looked at Qi Feng. Qi Feng waved his hands quickly like a child who had done something wrong, "No, no, I mean, you are a princess to begin with, and you will always be the princess in my heart."

"When I got married, I didn't think this was false at all, but now it sounds a little untrue."

Qi Feng shrugged helplessly. Chu Sisi felt as if Chen Weiwei was coaxing Zhang Mei. Her mother often couldn't help but lose her temper because the case at hand was a headache. At this time, Chen Weiwei

My father stayed with my mother very patiently and always encouraged her, saying, "It's okay, just take your time and I'll help you figure out how to solve it."

In Chu Sisi's view, this is necessary communication between husband and wife. This kind of temper tantrum and doting complement each other and are just a way for both parties to get along.

Li bit her lip and said to Chu Sisi: "Doctor, I think there is a little problem between us, maybe it is related to the child."

"Don't talk nonsense." Qi Feng suddenly grabbed Li's hand, and Li pulled her hand out, as if determined to tell Chu Sisi her grievances.

"Maybe because I don't want to have children, my husband is a little cold towards me."

Chu Sisi felt that maybe she should ask some questions about marital life at this time, but she didn't know how to ask, for fear that everyone would be embarrassed.

"There is no such thing. Why do you have to attribute everything to the children? I have told you many times that it has nothing to do with the children. It is because you are under too much pressure. If you plan to go to Europe

Work there, I said I support you, don’t think that just because you are hesitant and unable to make up your mind about work issues, we are often unhappy because of our children.”

"Why can you tell lies with such open eyes? Aren't your parents always urging us to have a child? But I'm still young, and I don't think this is something we should have to face right now."

"So this is your princess temper. I always think that what you think is right. Okay, okay, let's talk. There is a doctor here today. We can explain the problem clearly. I'll say it first, I swear

, I did not ask my wife to have children, I like you, whether you want to have children or not, this matter will not affect my feelings for you."

Li didn't know whether to laugh or cry, and said: "Did you really swear?"

Qi Feng raised his hand seriously, "I can say the same thing to anyone."

"Even in front of your parents?"

Li still couldn't believe it.

"Of course, I don't think my parents are the kind of people who are unreasonable and make troubles in this regard. My wife and my marriage are my business, why do you care so much about what they think, besides, I don't care about them.

I don’t know why they are urging us to have children, or am I losing my memory?”

The two of them sounded like they were arguing, but Qi Feng always gave way to his wife.

"I think your loneliness is because you have too high demands on yourself. Why can't you just be a wife? You can live like a princess, go out every morning to drink a cup of coffee, then go shopping, and buy whatever you want.

It’s okay. Although the family’s money is not considered rich, you don’t need to be careful when spending money every day. I’ve given you the credit card and I will pay it back for you every month. In the afternoon, you can find a best friend to drink with like other girls.

For afternoon tea, there are so many good places around the sea, with delicious food from all over the place, or you can go on a trip, wherever you want to go.”

"When I talk about travel, I get a headache and feel unhappy." Li looked at Chu Sisi and said, "Really, when I talk about travel, I feel even more uncomfortable, but you know what? I don't think I can do this.

I can't complain, because most of the family's income is earned by Qi Feng, and I can't complain that he doesn't accompany me on trips. In short, I feel that all my worries, my inability to eat, and my inability to sleep are all because of him.

No time for me."

"I have been with you as much as possible."

"No, you don't. Ever since you started to open branches in other cities, I have often thought that my husband is a workaholic. I used to think that you were a man with very good time management, but now, I think you are

If you manage your time by reducing the time you spend with me, I will be the unimportant person who is shrunk and shrunk."

"It's not what you said at all. If I really don't care about you and don't want to be by your side, why would I suggest that we go to the hospital to talk to the doctor? Why do I care so much about your feelings? You have to know that you

When it comes to loneliness, it’s basically a kind of harm to me, okay?”

"sorry."

Li suddenly cried, as if she had really hurt Qi Feng.

At this time, Qi Feng reached out to hold his wife, and put his wife's hand between his own. The two of them showed "love" in front of Chu Sisi.

Chu Sisi really didn't think there was any problem between the two.

According to her knowledge, couples therapy is a type of family therapy, usually to deal with problems originating in the family system, such as emotional communication difficulties between the two parties, or one party believing that the other party has a personality disorder, etc.

Generally speaking, people are quite resistant to couples therapy. If one party wants to seek help, it is often not easy for them to ask the other party for help. It is still taboo for people to ask to talk to a doctor about such matters.

For thousands of years, the culture formed by the people on this land has always been to keep family scandals under wraps.

No matter what happens at home, most people outside will always say that their home is very nice, their husband treats them well, and their wife is very gentle. In fact, there may have been a cold war between the two of them for several years.

Chu Si thought about Zhang Mei and Chu Xiaofeng. In the eyes of outsiders, Professor Chu's reputation in the academic world was getting higher and higher. He was a doctor and a university professor. Such a husband was already considered very good.

Zhang Mei loves the profession of lawyer very much and is very conscientious. The family's wealth accumulation is also very good. Neither of them spends money carelessly. Problems that ordinary people can think of have never occurred in this family.

No one would have thought that Chu Xiaofeng and Zhang Mei would divorce in the end.

Chu Sisi still doesn't know the reason. She once wondered if it was because of her that her parents gradually became indifferent to each other.

Or maybe it was because of work. When she was young, Chu Sisi even thought about it, if neither of them had to work, if there was no "work" in the world, would the relationship between mom and dad be like those happy families on TV?

Woolen cloth?

The whole family dines out together every week, and goes on family trips every month or every holiday. However, Chu Sisi's childhood did not have these. Her parents respected each other, but their relationship was very cold, and they almost lived their own lives.

.

If Professor Chu hadn't said it, Chu Sisi hadn't said it, and Zhang Mei hadn't said it, no one would have doubted that this family was one of the thousands of happy families in the world, but in fact they were unhappy.

It wasn't until her parents separated that Chu Sisi saw Zhang Mei's happiness and her father Chu Xiaofeng's relaxed expression. For a long time, she still didn't understand what was going on. She even thought that it might be because

There is no need to take care of this daughter together.

Under normal circumstances, outsiders will not be involved in this kind of conflict between families.

Qi Feng took the initiative to bring his wife to the hospital, which made Chu Sisi feel that he cared about Li very much, because his father, Chu Xiaofeng, had never tried to understand his mother's mood, at least he had not considered using some methods to reunite the two.

The feelings became harmonious.

Li seemed to feel that she was being unreasonable, but her loneliness was real.

"I think it all probably started when you started doing business outside." Li's focus changed from her parents urging them to have children to Qi Feng doing business outside.

"When you met me, I was in the building materials business. In recent years, the demand for building materials in Haihai is not as good as in previous years. This is caused by market changes, but the demand for building materials in the surrounding area is indeed growing day by day. Why don't I look at the opportunities to make money?

Work hard, is this going to make it harder and harder to do business year after year waiting around the sea?"

"But your peers, I mean, your friends don't go out to do business so often." Li raised her hand to wipe her tears. Chu Sisi was about to hand her a piece of paper, but Qi Feng was already wiping his wife's tears.

Tears.

"Don't cry. You know, I'm working so hard for you. For this family, if I make a little more money, you can live a more comfortable life. This is my promise to you, isn't it?"
To be continued...