Chapter 438 If unconditional acceptance(1/2)
No, it’s He Ping’s fault. A man like him actually said something about me and said I was sorry for him. Did he ever think that my piano career might be over and my life might have ended a few days ago?
It's over. So I don't really care that he doesn't love me anymore, you know? I don't care. What I'm sad about is that my life seems to have no direction. Suddenly, when I saw the piano just now, I suddenly felt that I don't care anymore.
I am not qualified to touch it anymore. What I lost was not my husband and a man who once loved me. What I lost was my piano.
And I started to lose the piano as early as when I was with him. Because I gradually moved away from it, I so hoped that He Ping would always be by my side. I would be so lonely when he was not around me. I was so lonely that I couldn’t even play the piano.
I didn't want to touch it, so I listened to music, went to bars, and let myself go. Because I was uncomfortable, I no longer had the life that I was proud to embrace, and I pinned it on a man's feelings.
Isn’t this a big joke?”
Bai Lu wanted to play Chopin's ballade for Mu Chun, and Mu Chun readily agreed.
"Okay, I'm happy to listen to you play. I have always admired Teacher Bai Lu. Also, Gong Hai always told me that Teacher Bai Lu's performance is the best in the school, especially the teacher's performance of Bach's "Twelve Averages"
"Laws" is simply a textbook."
Mu Chun's praise of Bai Lu gave Bai Lu a lot of confidence and encouragement. Although Bai Lu should have been accustomed to the encouragement from Mu Chun, people are very strange, and hearing encouragement all the time does not change their habit and numbness. Human beings are just like this
A species that likes to be encouraged and praised. Of course, those meaningful encouragements come more from kind people and people who are considered friendly.
It is difficult for false feelings to become true. This is also a very mysterious point in psychosomatic treatment. It is called "empathy" in books. Literally, it means feeling the same emotions as the other person.
This is easy to say and not complicated to do. What is the difficulty?
The difficulty lies in how to show it to the other person and let him or her know that you are sincerely praising him and truly feeling the pain he feels.
This kind of empathy requires accumulation and practice. Only in empathy can we accumulate empathy experience, but Mu Chun believes that the skills of this process are not as important as the original intention.
Sometimes, you just have to accept someone with a kind and unbiased heart.
Therefore, [empathy] combined with [unconditional acceptance] is often more meaningful.
Bai Lu smiled at Muchun, a little shy, then she turned around and walked towards the piano.
Starting from a melody that doesn't begin, it gradually enters quietness and becomes more agile. Bailu becomes more and more relaxed and her state becomes better and better.
After the performance, Muchun applauded with all his strength, as if he was now in the auditorium of the Yaohai Music Center, watching the outstanding pianist perform Chopin's ballade perfectly.
Bai Lu also seemed to be completely immersed in the performance scene. Although she was wearing a sweater and a dress, she looked dazzling.
On the other side, Liu Tiantian did not return directly to the nurse's desk in the outpatient hall after leaving Muchun. Instead, she went to Chu Sisi's clinic opposite. After she told Chu Sisi everything that Mu Chun had told her, Chu Sisi
I immediately contacted Liu Yiming.
Liu Yiming happened to also have a headache about He Ping's matter. Obviously he also felt that something was wrong, but he couldn't tell what was wrong. He was discussing with Zhang Hai whether he should go through the next steps step by step, or wait and see.
Look, as a person like Zhang Hai, it is better to do less than to do more, but he also has a lot of opinions on this matter. After all, he and Liu Yiwen ran to Xu Dan's house for nothing at that time, and he was still at Xu Dan's house.
Some unknown blood stains were found at home.
Do you want one more thing? Zhang Hai hasn't thought it through yet. This case seems very clear. Xu Dan accused He Pingqiang and violently injured her many times. Such accusations are very clear, and Xu Dan also committed suicide for love.
Such a big drama.
The media are all on her side, and now she has become a famous person. The number of fans on Weibo is almost close to that of a popular star. She has been on the hot search for three days in a row. The funniest thing is that He Ping just pleaded guilty. A few minutes later this
This incident became the hottest news on Weibo.
Zhang Hai was very concerned about this matter, and Liu Yiming also said that it was too fast. This should be the time when Xu Dan just walked out of the police station. How come the whole world already knew about it?
It's like when the Olympic Games are still in the finals of each competition, the big media start to prepare manuscripts. While preparing for one side to win, they are also preparing for the other side to win. When the results come out, they take out the pre-written manuscripts and immediately
send.
Everyone knows that time is traffic at this time, whether it is an official account or Weibo, the first time you send it, it will gain a lot of popularity, and the further you go down, the less it will be.
The self-media operates in this way, so occasionally funny incidents occur, such as a track and field competition, a certain team won the championship, but the result was changed half an hour later. The organizing committee said that a player of a certain team committed a flagrant foul, and the first place was cancelled.
results, the second place becomes the champion.
But by this time, there were already countless articles on the Internet congratulating a certain team on winning the championship.
This kind of thing often happens during major events, and readers are usually not surprised by it. They thought it was funny the first few times, but now they know that two manuscripts were prepared in advance.
Of course, the police station was aware of such a routine, so after the news that He Ping left the police station and then left the police station became a hot topic on the Internet, Zhang Hai felt more and more strange about this matter.
After Liu Yiming received Chu Sisi's call, he explained the reason to Zhang Hai. When Zhang Hai heard that Dr. Mu from Huayuanqiao Hospital was also having problems, he immediately patted Liu Yiming on the back and said, "We went together at that time.
Dr. Muchun and Dr. Chu Sisi from Xu Dan’s family!"
Liu Yiming reported truthfully, "Yes, Brother Zhang, it was Dr. Muchun who asked me to assist in investigating some matters. I am in a hurry and I am afraid that I may delay things if I am late. Can you leave for a while?"
Zhang Hai immediately agreed, saying that it would be fine as long as he was here, and it would not matter if he came back after lunch. Zhang Hai also paid special attention to Liu Yiming, "Don't be anxious when you encounter problems, don't be impulsive, listen more to Dr. Muchun's ideas, this young man
Doctors are really very capable, and their ability to understand people's hearts and events is as good as ours, and they are simply not like normal people in terms of understanding people's hearts."
Liu Yiming also has great trust and admiration for Muchun after recent events. However, due to the busy schedule of the police station, he cannot study with Muchun like Chu Sisi. However, he now reads the books published by Professor Chu Xiaofeng whenever he has time.
And translated books, if there are many things that I don’t understand clearly, I will write them down and ask Chu Sisi for advice or discuss them with Chu Sisi.
Liu Yiming drove to the parking lot of Huayuanqiao Hospital. Chu Sisi was already waiting for Liu Yiming at the entrance of the parking lot.
"Have you been waiting for a long time? It's raining heavily outside and it's cold. Are you stupid? I won't call you. Do you have any brains?" Liu Yiming sputtered, and Chu Sisi looked at it blankly.
He then complained, "When did you become as enthusiastic as old lady Wu Fangmei?"
Old Granny Wu Fangmei? Speaking of this old granny, Liu Yiming will probably never forget her in his lifetime. She came here more than a dozen times a month, and she said the same thing every time. She was one of the most patient old ladies he had ever come into contact with.
Liu Yiming was a little impatient at first, but later he felt that this old lady was actually quite interesting, and she came again recently, which really made Zhang Hai dumbfounded.
"Why are you laughing? Come on, hurry up. Why didn't that Mr. Hawking who was wandering around the sea take so long to figure out these things this time? I thought he would be able to grasp all the information as quickly as before." Chu.
Sisi asked.
"I think there was some delay on my part because things were relatively busy. Another reason was that I had no reason to continue to pursue this matter. When He Ping denied it at first, he needed to find a lawyer according to the procedure, but he did nothing.
Merely denying is useless. To get rid of suspicion, evidence is important, right? He just said that he didn't do it, but Xu Dan refused to say that he did it. In this kind of sexual assault case, it is difficult for He Ping to avoid suspicion when a girl accuses him like this.
"." Liu Yiming explained to Chu Sisi.
The winter rain around the sea is heartbreaking.
Although Liu Yiming was anxious, he could not speed up the car. Chu Sisi was anxious and a little restless.
Liu Yiming then told Chu Sisi about Wu Fangmei, saying that after Liu Hua's case was solved, Wu Fangmei came to the police station once and told how he knew that sisters Liu Yue and Liu Hua had problems very early on, and because
After her repeated reminders, Dr. Muchun discovered that Liu Yue's sister Liu Hua was related to the old man's death case. She also said that she and Liu Yue had a quarrel, which made Liu Yue so angry that she admitted in the hospital that the old man's death was the result of
She deserves it, they are all innocent. She also said that this is proof that she is the murderer.
"Is there such a thing?" Chu Sisi had never heard anyone mention it in the hospital, so she felt very strange after hearing it.
"Yes, Mrs. Wu meant to award her a good citizen award or something, because she helped the police solve a major case."
Chu Sisi laughed out loud, thinking that Wu Fangmei looked really unexpected. Could she have come up with such a cute idea?
In order to relieve the tension and anxiety in her heart, Chu Sisi thought it would be better to chat with Liu Yiming about Wu Fangmei's old lady, so she asked: "Then what kind of good citizen award is it? Is it a medal worn on the body or a hanging
The pennant at home?"
Liu Yiming did not laugh, but suddenly became serious, and said in a calm voice: "However, I don't think this is a bad thing. How should I put it? You see, Grandma Wu was dissatisfied with many things at the beginning. She was dissatisfied with many administrative matters."
There are many, many dissatisfactions from some departments. They say they don't do anything, they say they are delaying time, they say they are kicking her from here to there. She always wants to complain to some departments, so, really, it is the case that Luo Hai
I visited all the courts, procuratorates and police stations in various districts and counties. During the last meeting, I heard Ma Lu mention that he once met such a mother-in-law when he was working in the Innovation Park. It was really a roundabout way.
The most energetic mother-in-law in the sea."
"I think it's the old lady Duoduo who complained first in the sea, but Dr. Muchun didn't know what method he used to treat her. Now she rarely complains about pain here and there." Chu Sisi finished.
Looking out the window, the heavy rain soaked the entire Haihai area, making people feel lifeless.
"Doctor Muchun is really good at it. I never thought that Granny Wu Fangmei would listen to someone else," Liu Yiming said with emotion.
"It seems like this is true. She also cares a lot about Teacher Muchun, and always wants to introduce patients to Teacher Muchun. Also, maybe this is where the teacher is so good. I don't even know how to do it.
Fortunately, I still work on the fifth floor of Huayuan Bridge every day." Chu Sisi was a little depressed, probably because of the rain. Every time she saw the gap between herself and her teacher, she would wonder if this gap would never be narrowed.
, and the teacher should still continue to learn and make progress.
"I think the most valuable thing is the change in concept of mother-in-law Wu Fangmei." Liu Yiming said.
Chu Sisi didn't understand the meaning of this sentence, so she looked at Liu Yiming doubtfully.
"Mother-in-law Wu Fangmei had many opinions and dissatisfaction with our administrative department in the past, but what about her now? She actually came to us to propose giving herself a reward for being a good citizen. What does this mean?" Liu Yiming looked at it.
He looked at Chu Sisi and then looked at the reflector on the right side.
The car had already driven into the parking garage of Jiang Feng's home. Since Jiang Feng had not been contacted, but the matter was urgent, Liu Yiming did not wait for Jiang Feng's reply. He thought of picking up Chu Sisi from the hospital first, and then drove to Jiang Feng's home.
I was just waiting for news. Unexpectedly, I went downstairs to Jiang Feng's community and couldn't contact him.
"It's strange, something like this rarely happens." Liu Yiming shook his head and looked at his phone again, "That's right, there was indeed no reply to the message or call. It's strange, isn't he at home?"
Seeing Liu Yiming holding his phone and looking confused, Chu Sisi could only ask, "What's wrong? Did something happen?"
Liu Yiming immediately shook his head, "It's okay, let's go up by ourselves. That guy will definitely tell me if he goes out. Since he didn't tell me that he would go out, he must be in the attic."
Chu Sisi hesitated for a moment and nodded. After all, it was raining heavily and there was no heating in the corridor on the first floor. It was really cold.
When Liu Yiming saw Chu Sisileng's lips turning purple, he felt even more distressed and said, "Let's go up when the elevator comes, and try the previous password first."
With this idea, Chu Sisi nodded sensibly. Liu Yiming took off his scarf and put it around Chu Sisi. Chu Sisi said don't bother, it's too inappropriate to wear two scarves.
To be continued...