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Chapter 428 If everyone is working hard(1/2)

Xie Chunping understood this and nodded repeatedly, "Yes, that's right. There is nothing wrong with the child. It's just that he has some bad behavior after the first grade."

Mu Chun shook his hand, "No, no, why is his behavior bad? Maybe it's because his eyelashes are too long, maybe someone hit him, right? Maybe there's nothing wrong with him, it's just that someone hit him, and he couldn't help it.

He fought back, and later the story was told by other parents and classmates that Xie Xiaofei hit someone and that Xie Xiaofei had bad conduct."

"No, there is no bad conduct. At most, there are some bad behaviors." Although it is inevitable to get into trouble with the wording, Xie Chunping just feels that it is inappropriate to say that the conduct is bad. At most, it is just bad behavior. In contrast, it is obvious that the behavior is bad.

It should be lighter to stand up.

"Well, it sounds like there is nothing wrong with the child and there is no need for medical visits, right?" Mu Chun said cheerfully.

Xie Chunping thought for a while and drank the delicious coffee. "There is still something wrong. We took him to see an ophthalmologist. The doctor said that his eyes were dry and that a little eye drop would make it better. Later, Xiaofei developed myopia again.

Problems, in short, the problems are one after another. From the beginning of the second semester of the big class to now, it should be said that there are more and more problems."

Although Xie Chunping told Mu Chun most of the things truthfully, the main thing was that Xiaofei's kindergarten teacher said what Xiaofei was doing, and the elementary school teacher said that Xiaofei hit people, couldn't answer questions accurately in class, failed in dictation, and Xiaofei was there

Things like fights with boys in school.

As for Xiao Fei making a sound like a dog barking, Xie Chunping avoided telling Mu Chun from the beginning. He didn't know why, but he always felt reluctant to say it.

When he heard Muchun say happily, "Then there is nothing wrong with the child and there is no need to see a doctor," Xie Chunping felt something was wrong again.

It seemed that this was not correct, and Xie Chunping suddenly felt why it had become like this.

It was because Xie Xiaofei must have something wrong with him, so he did his homework last night and researched where he should go to see a doctor to ask about his son's problem. How come he was told by this doctor that there was nothing wrong with him in just a few words?

The funny thing is that in the past few minutes, Xie Chunping also had the idea that maybe Xie Xiaofei had no problem.

"If there's no problem, don't worry about it. Nowadays, children are under a lot of pressure to study. Just relax and relax." Mu Chun said relaxedly again.

It didn't matter that the doctor didn't say that. The more Mu Chun said it was okay, the more Xie Chunping felt that it was impossible to be okay.

"If no one in the family has tantrums or other weird phenomena related to blinking, the child should be fine, don't worry." Mu Chun said cheerfully again.

No, no, that's not the case.

Xie Chunping shouted tangledly in his heart, really, really it's not like this.

When Muchun mentioned his family again, Xie Chunping couldn't help but think of the village where he grew up when he was a child, the way his grandma shook her head when she spoke, and the frightened and desperate expression of her cousin locked in the room.

Should I tell the doctor about this? If I really tell him, wouldn't Xiaofei's problem really become his cause?

Is there a flaw in their family?

Xie Chunping didn't dare to say, but also wanted to know if it was related.

So he asked Muchun in a roundabout way, "Doctor, I just want to know if bad temper or the inability to concentrate are hereditary, and if blinking is also hereditary?

Although my wife and I don't have these conditions, it doesn't mean that other people in the family don't have it, right? Nowadays, we don't visit relatives and friends very much. Besides, I don't know the situation of my wife's family. At most, we can only visit each other once every few years.

Parents, if there are any problems from the grandparents’ generation, is it possible that they can be passed on to the children?”

Mu Chun held her chin in thought for a moment and then said slowly: "You are right, of course there is a part of the reason for inheritance, and sometimes there are no symptoms in the son, but there are symptoms in the daughter, and sometimes there are symptoms in the uncle.

My niece doesn’t have it, and sometimes it shows up as a generational trait, such as grandfather’s problem, which appears again in my grandson.”

The more Xie Chunping listened, the more nervous he became. Speaking of this, is it really possible that it is hereditary in our family?

"How do I know if my child's problem is hereditary? Or is it?" Xie Chunping didn't know how to ask.

For a person who is not good at lying, it is not easy to talk in roundabout ways.

Muchun stood up and patted Xie Chunping on the shoulder, and said: "What's the relationship between heredity and nurture? If you have symptoms, you have symptoms now. Should you focus on the present or hold your family members accountable?"

Xie Chunping seemed to understand, but he felt that the meaning of this statement should be that there was no need to inherit it too much.

"By the way, your community will have a new year's community class at the end of the month. Our Director Jiang will also go to neighboring communities to give lectures. The courses are all about pregnancy health care, early childhood feeding and behavioral guidance for children before and after school age.

If it is not convenient for you to bring your children to my place, you can go to the neighborhood committee to check the class schedule in January. There should be one or two new course preview events before the New Year. Although it is not a formal course, experts will go to the site.

There will be on-site consultation hours, so you can take your child to see Dr. Jiang Hong at that time."

Mu Chun's suggestion immediately made Xie Chunping feel at ease. When he heard that it was Dr. Jiang Hong, Xie Chunping was even more fond of Mu Chun's suggestion, "Really? That's great. Dr. Jiang Hong is a great obstetrician and gynecologist."

Doctor."

Muchun smiled and nodded, "Yes, sign up early. Free community courses like these will be filled up in no time."

Xie Chunping stood up, stretched out his hand to hold Muchun, and thanked him repeatedly, "That's great, you really helped me a lot."

Muchun was a little embarrassed, "Eh? Okay, thank you, thank you! Remember to sign up, sign up."

Xie Chunping thanked the doctor and left the clinic, almost forgetting his medical insurance card on the table.

After Xie Chunping left Huayuanqiao Community Hospital, she felt much better. She didn't feel the biting cold wind while walking on the road, but felt particularly warm in her heart.

In fact, no problem has been solved after thinking about it, but it seems that Xie Xiaofei has already received help, or his problems are not as serious as before Xie Chunping came to the hospital.

Xie Chunping originally wanted to talk to Li Xiaoyun about his visit to the hospital today when he got home, but he thought that Li Xiaoyun might scold him for taking the initiative to find a psychotherapist. It would be better to do less than to do more, so he had better take the time to go to the neighborhood committee to deal with it first.

We’ll wait until you sign up for the course.

"Children's behavioral disorder?" After Xie Chunping left, Mu Chun took out the notebook stored in the drawer.

Muchun noticed several important information from Xie Chunping's description.

First: blink.

Second: Behaving badly in the eyes of the teacher and fighting with classmates.

Third: bad temper

Fourth: Lack of concentration

Among the tens of thousands of students who cannot complete their homework on time, more than 60% have attention deficit or hyperactivity disorder.

Mu Chun recorded these key points in his notebook, and carefully wrote down the summary of Xie Xiaofei's case with reference to the previous records about [hyperactivity disorder], [attention deficit], etc. written in the notebook.

There is no way to understand the real reasons behind Xie Xiaofei's situation just from Xie Chunping's dictation.

But Xie Chunping was obviously unwilling to tell the doctor completely and in real time. Muchun fully understood this. The first treatment required complete trust and complete details of symptoms, which was not an easy task.

Unless there are emergencies and those patients are able to describe their condition clearly, in general, the first treatment can only collect information, partial assessment and appropriate suggestions.

Xie Xiaofei's situation is a more complicated one.

Mu Chun frowned. First of all, it was his father Xie Chunping. It was only his father who went to the hospital to inquire about the child's condition. It was very difficult for the doctor to treat me. Mu Chun had nothing to do with the matter.

Why are you unwilling to bring your child to the hospital? Muchun also recorded this problem in Xie Xiaofei's case.

Muchun understood Xie Chunping's reluctance to bring her children to the hospital. In fact, many parents have a similar psychological state.

Some people consider that if a child comes to the hospital, he or she will use a medical insurance card. If the child has some mental problems, won't he have to carry it with him for the rest of his life?

People still have a lot of prejudice against people with mental problems, and even some form of discrimination still exists in many fields.

For example, Hu Peng is a very clear example.

He is a very good teacher. Just because of some personal reasons, in fact, it does not affect the teaching. But in the eyes of parents, if they can not choose such a teacher, they will not choose such a teacher.

Because their most important possessions, the most important person in their lives, and even their honors and disgrace, success and shame, are all in that school, in that class, on the chair behind a certain desk.

As long as parents can think of it and can do it in one jump, they will try their best to protect their children and maximize the protection measures as much as possible.

That's why Hu Peng had so much trouble before, and he was able to find new strength in this trouble.

This trouble is objective and unchangeable, but after all, he is an excellent teacher who is familiar with the school and parents. He understands this feeling and decides to turn these worries and troubles into urging him to do more useful things in the field of education.

Motivation for things.

This is a sublimation of professionalism.

Shen Fan's situation is somewhat similar. Although he never showed up at the Garden Bridge Community Health Center after it was discovered that there were a large amount of stolen items in the storage cabinet, everyone did not forget him because of his absence.

Everyone talked about him, whispered behind his back, and even talked about people related to Shen Fan's theft, such as Liu Tiantian.

This is part of the reality of people's hearts. Many people can distinguish between right and wrong, justice and kindness, and appropriateness and inappropriateness when it has nothing to do with them.

But when you become an insider, you become confused by those in authority.

This is true even among colleagues, let alone between blood relatives.

Xie Chunping was unwilling to tell the truth, so Muchun could only try his best to provide him with opportunities for his children to get more help. However, these things cannot be forced on a parent. Sometimes, patients need guidance rather than guidance and forced acceptance.

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Everyone understands that everything is for your own good, but the relationship between people cannot be simply measured with such a stainless steel ruler.

After Muchun completed all the records, he flipped through his notes for a while.

This red notebook contains more than two thousand items about "Children's Neurodevelopmental Disorders". Mu Chun remembered some of the cases and notes very clearly, but for some, Mu Chun was a little confused.

When he flipped through more than 20 pages, he found a case record, which mentioned a term [Tourette's syndrome].

Muchun had no impression of this case, but judging from the case analysis, it was indeed the text recorded in his notes.

Tourette syndrome is an inability to suppress the urge to blink, make faces, shake the head, move in other ways, or make sounds, but this behavior is not voluntary.

It usually occurs before the age of 18, and some symptoms usually appear at the age of 5 or 6. The frequency of tics may be strong or weak, and the first tic lasts for more than one year.

This tic disorder cannot be attributed to the physiological effects of a substance or to other medical conditions, such as Huntington's disease and postviral encephalitis.

The case recorded a boy who was only 19 years old at the time, and at the end of the case, Mu Chun saw another line of text, "Tracing"
To be continued...
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