Obviously Dai Lan didn't expect Zhou Tong to say such a thing. She always thought that Zhou Tong knew that he was drunk and had failed his family. Therefore, Dai Lan also felt that the new life she chose was understandable. Zhou Tong was embarrassed to tell his story in front of relatives and friends.

She said it, but she didn't expect that Zhou Tong would actually embarrass her in front of the doctor today.

Dai Lan stood there with the flesh on his face trembling.

Suddenly, as if she had made a decision, she rushed out of the door.

"You are just a woman, go and serve those stinky men, shameless, shameless!" Zhou Tong lay on the sofa and cursed at the top of his lungs, as if he had vented all his grievances.

After scolding him, he cried like a fool again.

The moment Dai Lan opened the door, his face turned from red to pale. Zhou Ming stood outside the door, covering his stomach with his hands.

Zhou Ming, who had not yet changed out of his patient uniform, looked at his angry mother with confusion. In Zhou Ming's mind, his mother had always been a gentle, generous, and educated woman.

His mother would never be cruel to him. She is a big brown bear, she is Xiao Neng, and he is also her mother's Xiao Neng.

"Mom, what's wrong with you?" Zhou Ming asked innocently.

"You, why are you here?" Dai Lan's tears couldn't stop flowing down.

"Mom, when are you going to see me again?" Zhou Ming didn't know anything. He came here just because he didn't see his mother after waiting on the hospital bed for a long time. Later, the nurse told him that his mother was talking to the doctor in the office.

Zhou Ming, who missed his mother so much, walked to the office door without putting on his sweater and coat in his slippers.

I heard a commotion inside, but before I could figure out what was going on, I saw my mother opening the door and walking out.

Zhou Ming really wanted to let his mother hug him right away. He thought about seeing his mother every day of the week.

"Zhou Ming, tell me, what did you eat? Tell mom, tell mom, what did dad give you?" Dai Lan grabbed Zhou Ming's shoulders like crazy and shook him again and again.

Zhou Ming stood there blankly, not knowing what his mother was talking about.

Perhaps in order to win back a victory, perhaps because he was unconvinced by being scolded by Zhou Tong just now, Dai Lan grabbed Zhou Ming's shoulders with great force and pulled him into the office, shouting, "Tell me, what will your father do to you?"

What did you eat? Tell me. Tell me."

Zhou Ming looked at his mother and then his father. Most of the time he just stood there in a daze, his lips trembling, and finally they started to twitch.

Dai Lan has entered a certain state of madness, a crazy state in which people's rationality is completely taken away by emotions.

There is a very appropriate word in English called insane, which is a state of mental disorder and madness that is more terrifying than crazy and mad.

At this time, Dai Lan was in this state of unconscious control.

Zhou Ming had no idea how his mother could be like this. He couldn't say a word. There were tears in his two black eyes, and he didn't know how to shed the tears.

"Let Zhou Ming go first, the child is scared." Mu Chun said calmly from the side.

Dai Lan suddenly let go of Zhou Ming and looked at Muchun in panic.

"Well, you sit down first, and Zhou Ming will come and sit down as well." Muchun said again.

Zhou Ming was a little scared and sat down beside Dai Lan tremblingly. On the other end of the sofa, Zhou Tong sat drowsily.

It seems that Zhou Tong no longer remembers what he just said.

"Doctor Fang Ming has already told me about Zhou Ming's condition. What's in Zhou Ming's stomach is..." Mu Chun was interrupted by Zhou Ming before he could finish.

"Don't say it, don't say it." Zhou Ming cried.

"Okay, I won't say, but I want my mother to tell Zhou Ming how soon she will go to see Zhou Ming, okay? Every Saturday at ten o'clock? Or every Sunday at eight o'clock? Zhou Ming, do you want your mother to tell you when she will go?

Where will I pick you up at home?"

Zhou Ming nodded repeatedly, "I think, mom, tell me when you will come to me. I know you are busy with work, and I know you don't want to live with dad and me anymore, but you just need to come to me."

, I just want my mother to come to me often. Really, I don’t want to buy anything. I don’t have to eat. I just want my mother to come to me. I will study hard. I just want my mother to come to me. I don’t have to go to school.

I won't fail in a fight. As long as my mother comes to me, I can do everything well. I will do everything adults and mothers want me to do well.

Mom, when will you come to see me?"

"I" Dai Lan choked up.

"Mom, will you come every week? Next week is the open day. I want you to participate in the school's open day activities. I want other students to know that I have a mother. I have a mother, mother."

Zhou Ming took Dai Lan's hand and held it tightly.

"Me? I don't" Dai Lan didn't know how to return.

"I'll just go. What do you want your mother to do? The smell on her body is disgusting." Zhou Tong burped and began to scold Dai Lan again.

"Doctor, you said there is magic, magic." Zhou Ming whispered to Muchun for help.

Mu Chun nodded, focus, focus, magic, magic, Mu Chun thought in his heart.

"Saturday from 10 am to 7 pm, or Sunday from 10 am to 7 pm, can you choose one?"

Muchun knew that if Dai Lan was asked to tell the time at this time, she might not be able to make a decision at all. When it is not easy for the patient to make a choice, limited options allow the patient to choose an outcome.

The purpose of questioning during treatment is to elicit answers, and the information contained in the answers can also be further analyzed by the doctor. In the early stages of psychosomatic treatment, that is, the [diagnostic interview] stage, choosing appropriate questions and questioning methods is the key to collecting information.

common methods of information.

Commonly used questions are divided into [open questions] and [closed questions].

[Open-ended questions] Usually use words such as "why", "how", "can", "what", "will you like", etc. to ask questions, allowing the respondent to give detailed explanations on the relevant issues. The advantages are: helpful

It is used to stimulate the patient's enthusiasm for conversation and help doctors obtain a large amount of information and clarify the essence of things. If the patient accepts this questioning method and enters into a long answer, then a large amount of confidence can reveal a lot of information to the patient that he may not know clearly;

Another advantage is that such questions are non-threatening and easier to answer.

Although [open-ended questions] have many advantages, the disadvantages are also obvious. Since the patient determines the length and core of each question, a question may take up most of the interview time, or it may only provide unimportant information, forever.

Going around in circles with the doctor.

Therefore, during the questioning process, the doctor needs to guide the patient correctly and control it skillfully to prevent going off topic.

During the [diagnostic interview] at the beginning or during the [talk therapy] after the treatment plan is formulated, the [open-ended questioning] method is also a commonly used method in the treatment process. The counterpart to [open-ended questioning] is [closed-ended]

Question].

In closed questions, the questions asked are usually preset, and the patient does not need to expand on the answer. Closed questions are often used to collect and organize information, usually when doctors want to guide patients to clarify a certain issue.

Used to clarify facts, gain focus, and further narrow the scope of the discussion.

This time, Mu Chun chose a highly closed-ended question. It looked like a multiple-choice question, which meant that the patient had to choose the most appropriate one from all the answers. For example: When in the outpatient clinic, Mu Chun

You don’t ask the patient what to drink. Instead, you ask the patient whether he wants coffee or water?

The advantage of choosing [closed questions] during treatment is that the patient can control the length of the questions through closed questions and guide the patient to provide the required information. It also allows the doctor to ask more questions about more fields in a short period of time.

Increase the efficiency of meetings.

In fact, most questionnaires use closed questions, which facilitates extracting answers and converting them into data, tables, etc. for further analysis.

Correspondingly, the disadvantages of [closed questions] are equally clear. First, it may create a dilemma that the patient does not want to answer at all.

Especially extremely closed-ended questions, such as: Do you support same-sex marriage? This extremely closed-ended question means that the answer to this type of question is either/or, forcing the person who answers to make a choice between two opposite options.

, this kind of questioning can easily arouse the patient's resistance during the treatment process of the psychosomatic department and bring the interview into trouble.

Mu Chun chose [closed question] here because he hoped that Dai Lan could give a clear answer and not lead him and Zhou Ming into detours.

"Me? Okay, can I come to Xiao Ming on Saturday?" Dai Lan smiled and pinched Zhou Ming's face.

Zhou Ming nodded obediently. The slightly fat patient gown looked empty on Zhou Ming's body.

After getting the answer, Zhou Ming felt that nothing in this world was still a problem, so he happily clapped his hands to Muchun.

Muchun also nodded happily to him.

"Classmate Zhou Ming, please go out and change clothes first. The doctor also has something to tell Zhou Ming's parents, okay?" Muchun said gently to Zhou Ming.

"Okay, doctor." Zhou Ming replied.

Zhou Ming was as happy as getting candy when he got his mother's promise.

Seeing Zhou Ming's happy look, Dai Lan also regained his composure a little. He took out a paper towel on the table and wiped the tears from the corner of his eyes, and wiped off some makeup. Then Dai Lan changed his attitude towards Mu Chun.

He cautiously said, "Doctor, has Zhou Ming told you a lot?"

Muchun shook his head, "No, Zhou Ming rarely talks. He is a very introverted child, and this introversion may have gradually developed after you and his father separated."

"Maybe, the three of us used to be very good, but then everything changed. I don't want to talk about those things. People have a lot of helplessness, and I don't want to talk about it." Dai Lan repeatedly said that he didn't want to talk about it, and he didn't want to talk about it.

"I understand that hardship is a word that is not easy to swallow or say. It is true that it is not easy to feel uncomfortable, and the days are always very long. It is not always easy to get better. If you want

Tell me, I'm willing to listen." After speaking, Mu Chun handed Dai Lan another tissue.

"You don't understand, we used to be very happy, but his father drank all day and night, and because he couldn't be promoted at work, he became more and more listless. Later, we were defrauded of the financial products we invested in. How can I put it, everyone

In fact, we later learned that most financial products are unreliable.

We had more than 300,000 yuan in savings at that time, and we thought the interest rate would be 11%. This is such a huge amount. We also planned to go to Hong Kong once we get the interest, and take Zhou Ming to Ocean Park, or

I went to Guangzhou once and visited Chimelong.

All the money we had finally saved was gone, and not a penny could be saved. Zhou Tong and I kept quarreling and quarreling until we got tired of it. I no longer wanted to take care of this family, and I no longer wanted to take care of Zhou Ming.

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I looked at Zhou Ming and felt that my life was completely ruined. I didn't know what was wrong at that time. I just felt like I was possessed by an evil spirit and didn't want to take Zhou Ming with me.
To be continued...