Chapter 107 Rules
When Yang heard this, he hugged his daughter and kissed her, "Thank you for your hard work, I'm going to the Song family tomorrow. You have to find time to release Lingquan. You won't be in a hurry for a while.
I just thought that we should give back to our relatives who are good to us, but you can't get this credit."
It is appropriate to give back to your loved ones with sincerity, but you cannot expose yourself, so you have lost all your credit.
"What does this matter? The elders are so kind to me, and I have never seen everyone come to seek credit. I don't care about this. I just hope that my parents and relatives can be safe and happy. This is my greatest happiness."
Zilan said sincerely that being able to come here to meet relatives who truly love her is her blessing, and she should cherish it even more. It doesn’t matter whether there is any credit or not.
Yang said with a smile: "My baby is the most obedient. Next year, you are one year older. Your uncle and grandma said that you want me to give you an account book and you will start to take the housekeeper when you grow older.
Start with trivial and troublesome things like the warehouse kitchen. When you are ten years old, you will start learning to manage clan affairs and learn how to be a clan wife."
"Did you start learning so early? I think Sister Ruqing and others didn't learn it from Thirteen?"
Zi Lan asked in wonder.
Yang sighed and touched his daughter's delicate little face, "Your father is the eldest son of the eldest son of the eldest son, your brother is the eldest grandson, and you are the eldest daughter of the eldest daughter. It doesn't matter if others can't learn it, it's probably good to learn it.
But you must take it all, because as you are, you may also be a clan wife in the future. If you don’t study early, you will be laughed at by someone after passing the door in the future.”
Yang went out to hang up after getting married, and it was easier to avoid restraint from her parents-in-law, but she was relatively less likely to tell her about the affairs of the clan.
After returning this time, my aunt talked to her a lot about the Song family, especially the upbringing of the children in the clan, which was very strict and orderly.
It was not the same as what she thought about before. It was a big family with a large population. It was a big family with inheritance, family rules and ancestral teachings. After contacting each other, the more lucky she has become.
I feel more and more grateful to my parents for the marriage I chose for me. Such a large family has strict requirements on their children. Men do not allow them to take concubines and marry young people. They are lustful people in the family, and children who do not cultivate moral character are despised.
A man who has no son to adopt forty years does not need to take a concubine to marry a young man to spread his family. The family believes that the concubine's son is the root of cholera because he cannot be fair in nature. No matter how good the child is, he will feel unbalanced. It is better to adopt him and help the poor orphan and widowed mother.
The children of the Hou family do not have this rule. Without a son, it is a serious crime. They want to drag a roomful of women to give birth to a son. Even her father has his own concubine.
After these days of understanding and contact with the Song family, I no longer reject my daughter's marriage into a big clan. Perhaps it is much better to marry into a big clan than to marry a high clan.
At least the big clans absolutely value the family and do not allow their children to learn wrongly. With these strict rules, Lan'er will be happier in the future.
Zi Lan scratched her head and thought for a while and said, "Oh, then just learn it. It's always right to learn more. Don't worry, mom. Grandma taught me that I will definitely study hard and not be lazy and sloppy."
She has always been hardworking and diligent in learning skills and will never take shortcuts. This is also her upbringing since childhood.
Yang smiled gently, "Mom knows that my daughter is the most sensible. The elders praised you for your hard work, diligence and intelligence. I don't know how proud you are. I just worry that you have worked too hard and your future."
"Mom, I am not that weak girl either. I believe I can deal with it no matter what the future is. No matter what situation I encounter, I can be invincible."
Zilan believes that those with abilities will not go too badly anywhere they go.
Seeing that his daughter looked confident, strong and brave, her eyes were bright and lively, and she had more confidence, she smiled, "Good mom believes in you. Go and take a shower, don't play too late."
"knew."
Zilan went to bathe and swim.
She likes the bathroom that her father has created the most. She can swim for half an hour every day to exercise. She is also very comfortable to bathe. The walls of the ear room have also been thickened. It is very warm to have a ground dragon in the room. It is really not cold to take a bath in winter.
After taking a shower, Muxiang and Agarwood rubbed her balm to protect her skin, and applied her hair finely with hair oil to maintain her hair.
Chenxiang and Yunxiang were serving her, and Hongmei brought her a cup of sheep milk, "Girl, it's time to go to bed after drinking, otherwise she won't get up tomorrow morning."
"Well, I got it."
Zilan drank it on Gudong. Although it tasted a little, it was very good for the body. So even though it was hard to drink, you still had to insist on drinking it. You can't feel it when you get used to it.
The hair was dry, and Chenxiang called out to the confused Zilan, "Girl, go to bed on the kang."
"Oh, OK."
Zilan was almost asleep comfortably, and in a daze, the girls put on pajamas and pants and went to bed on the kang.
Hongmei couldn't help frowning when she saw the agarwood scattering her hair, "Comb and braid her hair, don't distant her hair, and get up in the middle of the night to scare the girl. Don't go into the house to serve her next time."
Chenxiang was so scared that she knelt on the ground, "Yes, I know my mistake. I just served the lady and her braids were dispersed. I didn't mean it."
"Forget it, this time, there is no next time. You are the same. You are not allowed to dishevel in the middle of the night. No matter whether it is on the night or not, otherwise you will be driven out of Yilanyuan."
Hongmei whispered a stern scolding the girl. This was the rule given by Madam Qi. Zilan was still young and was easily shocked. The maid should act like serving her master. She was not allowed to wear her hair off in the middle of the night or sleep in the house by herself. She would not be allowed to wear her hair off and braided her hair.
Imagine how it feels like a girl wearing a white underwear and trousers in her middle of the night, standing at the head of your bed with her hair loose, and she is scared. OK.
Zi Lan heard this and ignored it. She let Hongmei teach these little girls the rules, but it is not allowed to be arrogant.
Madam Qi carried a warm bucket under the window. A shallow breeze could keep the warm bucket unextinguished all night. Water is warm and convenient to drink when you are thirsty at night. It will not cause charcoal poisoning if you place it under the window.
After looking at Zi Lan, she tucked her quilt and then she went out quietly.
After being scolded, Chenxiang quietly retreated. Tonight it was Yunxiang on the night, so she would sleep with her.
Zilan was wondering whether to mention two third-class girls to come up. Chenxiang was too clever and smart, so someone needed to suppress her from following the right path.
As I thought about it, I fell asleep in a daze, and it was already dawn after I woke up.
Yunxiang woke her up to wash and dress her, "Would you please wear this red dress today?"
She took a smoked red high-waisted skirt, which was gradually changed in color, and looked lively and pretty.
"Well, just let it go."
"Yes, do you want to wear a palace flower? The weather is getting hotter and hotter."
Yunxiang took a few beautiful palace flowers and gestured on her head. She couldn't carry a hairpin before she was old, but she could carry flowers. There were various palace flowers and velvet flowers, all of which were very beautiful and exquisite.
Chapter completed!