Chapter 470: Violent Dispute
No matter what, I didn't expect that Mr. Hua suddenly came to me and said to me straight to the point, which was like this.
I seemed to vaguely understand why Lu Yating didn't see me for a day.
"Mr. Hua, why?" I asked.
"I've told you the reason before?" Mr. Hua said calmly, "You are not suitable for her."
I was a little angry and said, "Mr. Hua, isn't it our own decision to decide whether the two of us are suitable?"
"Yating is still young, she doesn't understand many principles, and she can't see through many things." Mr. Hua said.
"She is in her twenties, graduated from college, and has worked for several years. What's the reason for not understanding?"
"It has nothing to do with age," Mr. Hua glanced at me and said coldly, "Some truths, for some people, he may not understand until he is old."
I know he's talking about me.
"You are right, but how can she not understand the relationship? Who does she like and who she is happy with?" I asked.
"Of course she understands feelings, but she doesn't understand people's hearts, and even more so, life." Mr. Hua said bluntly, "As a father, I must ensure that my daughter is not hurt."
"Mr. Hua, are you saying this a little too much?" I said angrily, "What does it mean to not understand people's hearts? What's wrong with me? Can I still harm her?"
"If you want to harm her, of course you won't." Mr. Hua said, "But you have to know that most of the harm in this world is unintentional or even helpless. As I said just now, she doesn't understand life, not that she doesn't know how to do housework and cook, but that she doesn't understand the difficulty of life at all. The adult world is difficult and cruel. When two people are together, at least one person must understand it, right? Yating has been having no worries about food and clothing since she was a child, so it would be fine if she didn't understand these principles, but I think you don't seem to understand these principles, or you don't want to understand them at all."
"Why do you say that to me?"
"Why? You don't have any enterprising aspiration!" Mr. Hua suddenly said excitedly, "I have encouraged you countless times, encouraged you, and guided you, hoping that you can understand these things and grow up like a real man, but what about you? Your work ability is good, but apart from this, what about you, besides the so-called justice and kindness that are childish, what else do you have? You don't cherish such a good platform for you. Do you know how many people jump to this height with their necks and want to jump to this height? I give you such good conditions, you don't cherish them yourself. Can you really take good care of my daughter in this world where the strong prey on the weak and give her happiness?"
"Do you think that only material things can bring happiness to a person?" I also asked back angrily, "Yes, I refused to go back to work in the company. That's because I found that my personality is indeed not suitable for that environment, but there are many ways to survive in this society and many careers. Do you have to find a place to make a lot of money and be called career and life? Only then can you be called success? No life except businessmen can succeed?"
"I was wrong?" said Mr. Hua. "What do you think in our country can bring a sense of security besides money and power? What else can success be called? What can make your family feel happy? You can think this is superficial and powerful. Many people also sneer at it and claim to be noble. But I tell you, this is reality, this is the truth of life. Life is not just love. For a man, it is only a small part. The food, food, oil and salt, the future of children, the quality of life of the family, and the health of the elderly are all the whole life. And these, including your love, must be supported by a material foundation! I don't want my daughter to worry about the triviality of life in the future, and I don't want my grandson to worry about his future!"
"These are two extremes! If you don't do what you call a career, if you don't save hundreds of millions in the bank, you will definitely worry about life? If I do other things, I won't make money? I won't bring them a stable life?"
"You don't understand what I mean at all. Of course, you can make money to support them, and even set up street stalls can support the family. There will be no one in this society to starve to death, but what I mean is to ask them to live the best life. Do you understand the best life? It means to want your family to enjoy the best everything and to receive the best education!" Mr. Hua said excitedly, "Do you know that in this society, the class is solidifying, the door of the upper class is closing. If your generation cannot reach it, your children will be more difficult? Now that you are given such an opportunity, you actually choose to retreat. Do you understand that you are a coward?"
Mr. Hua was very excited and the splashing stars flew around!
I was also very excited and nodded violently, "Okay, then I'll ask you, your career is now successful, your annual income is more than 10 million yuan, but is Yating's mother happy?"
Mr. Hua was stunned, "This... these are two different things! Your aunt and I are because of special reasons! It has nothing to do with these."
"I think it's one thing. Since material things can solve all problems in your opinion, what reason does she have to be unhappy?" I said, "You have always said that I don't understand the difficulty of life, but how could I not understand? I am also a person who earns several thousand yuan a month. I have borrowed money everywhere for my friend's usury. How could I not know that life is not easy? But everyone has the right to choose life. How many people in this world can be so-called successful people with an annual income of tens of millions? Are they not happy? I don't want to work in an environment that is contrary to my nature. That's because it is a huge distortion to my psychology. I am no longer the one who just graduated and earned a monthly salary of several thousand yuan. My ability is enough to support me to have a good income in other industries. I don't worry about life, and it's enough to make my family feel stable and happy. Under such conditions, is there anything wrong with my pursuit of my love?"
Mr. Hua shook his head and said helplessly, "Qin Zheng, I really can't communicate with you. Forget it, I don't plan to waste my verbal words. My purpose today is very simple. I warn you, you are not allowed to approach my daughter in any name!"
His last sentence was obviously threatening.
This moment made me feel sad in my heart. The scene of him taking me home and treating me as my son-in-law appeared before my eyes. It was vivid in my mind, but it has not been too long, and everything has changed...
My eyes turned red.
"No, you don't have the right to decide Yating's love, nor do you have the right to decide her life!" I shouted excitedly.
"She is my daughter! Of course I have the right to decide!" Mr. Hua also raised the volume.
Chapter completed!