Feel sorry
It was really uncomfortable to take leave. I went to a small clinic in the afternoon and hang up the water. When I came back, I still retching in the bed for a long time. I went to the county hospital tomorrow, but I couldn’t write it today.
I have written a thought after watching a Japanese show "What's wrong with a little scheming". Many readers have read it, but there are also many who have not seen it. I will post it to apologize and pass the time for readers who have not seen it.
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The behavior of changing hairstyles during the first date is quite interesting, but in my personal opinion, if you have confidence in your neck, wearing an earring that can gently shake it may be more tempting and attracting men's attention.
The one who took out his cell phone to the boy, called "Looking at the puppy" is actually quite distinctive in looking at the legs and showing his behavior. In fact, it is not only looking at the legs, but also taking a cat or dog on his chest to take a photo (of course, it depends on his own hardware level). However, if you feel that the photo placed on the chest is too explicit for the boy you meet for the first time, you can quickly return to the previous one after looking at that photo, which can not only let the boy see it, but also will not make people think that you did it on purpose. It can also make the male protagonist notice that the girl is in a state of almost shyness at this time, creating a slight ambiguous atmosphere.
In addition, when flipping through the photos and sharing them with boys, the woman holds the phone in her hand. This means that the woman takes all the initiative and can use this to do a lot of things.
For example, when a boy is focusing on his cell phone, he will naturally move his cell phone a little to his side every time he flips a photo, inducing his body to unconsciously follow the cell phone to lean towards the woman.
Girls can wear tops with larger necklines in advance. If you are confident about the size of your chest, you can add a pendant to add icing on the cake, and the best skirt can reveal your legs. When the boy's head is coming over, he can see it naturally.
Of course, the most important thing is that after a boy gets closer, he can smell the fragrance of perfume/shampoo/shower gel/cloth softener on the girl's body. Why is this more important? Because some boys may force themselves to stare at their phones, and at most they can take a quick glance with the light, but it is impossible for him not to breathe, as long as he breathes, it will be the fragrance of a girl.
The girl was "unaware" about introducing pets/family/interesting news to the boy, but the boy was already distracted from suppressing his big tail.
There is also a so-called "man bitch" in the show. Girls hate man bitch the most because they like to stumble on others in the name of their true nature, so that other girls will not come to Taiwan.
But the man bitch who pulls other girls is actually very low-end. I think a real man bitch can have more high-end operations. For example, you can actively talk about topics that are more interested in boys, obviously male-oriented and not usually worthy of being a human being.
For example, if a boy likes novels/animation/games, girls can pretend to be curious and ridiculous to ask questions like "Do you boys all like that kind of beautiful (less) girls, and they all like novels/animation/games with the male protagonist alone?", etc., which will make boys feel embarrassed. Then, they should express their understanding as if nothing happened, and sometimes they like to watch such works. Slap a piece of candy and lead the boy's emotions.
Express your agreement with boys' interests, agree with boys' opinions, and be able to discuss a few words with a subtle voice (if it is a public place with a large number of people), which can bring the two sides closer together in an instant. What a man should rely on in the early stage should not be temptation, but to let the boys have a joy of being "identified" and can quickly enter the boy's heart.
Of course, the disadvantage of doing this is that girls with ordinary appearance may be regarded as "good brothers" with higher priority by boys. So you can occasionally be refined, suddenly put on exquisite makeup, find a natural excuse to reveal femininity, and show a different side from usual.
Excuses include not limited to friends/relatives who want to be bridesmaids when they get married (you can highlight your "female" and have high priority), having class reunions after get off work, and having blind dates with your best friend.
In a "feminine" state, you can complain that others are married and you are forced to go on a blind date by your parents. You can deliberately contact and laugh with other men, and you can deliberately mention the handsome guys in the past class.
In addition, since the man bitch usually shows a boy's personality, he can sell benefits carelessly after being familiar with it, especially in the refined period, which also has great lethality.
In short, there is no need for a man to show himself by pulling and stuttering. The means of complaining about a girl’s “shorts” from the perspective of a girl can only be used as icing on the cake. Use a sense of identity to quickly enter the boy’s heart, and occasionally the femininity makes the other party care about it, and because of his “unpreventive” personality, the man feels jealous and a sense of crisis. If there is any revealing in his behavior, he can also use the “boy’s careless personality” to cover it up. This should be the real scheming routine of a “man’s bitch”.
In addition, there are girls wearing V-necks in the show who have a good impression of the boy on the right, and they also have to lean forward to give benefits to the boy on the opposite side. This approach can certainly cast two nets at the same time, but it is not very meaningful. The focus of the chat is still on the boy on the right, so it is difficult to give benefits to the boy on the opposite side to produce corresponding "rewards", and the favorability of the boy on the opposite side is very limited.
Instead of this, it is better to cover it with your hands slightly when leaning forward in front of the boy next to you. If you don’t do anything, the boy next to you may not notice anything, but if you deliberately add this action, the boy next to you will immediately notice it, thinking that the girl is a relatively pure and conservative person and will leave a good impression. Perhaps there are not many impressions, but it is better than nothing.
I can't remember the rest of the content, but I'm not satisfied with the "advanced" method of flirting with men in Tanaka Minashi (who only learned the name of this guest after I came to Baidu).
The performer pretended to be interested in the boy's drinks, and wanted to take a sip, and then return it to create an ambiguous atmosphere. After reviewing the show, Nami Tanaka added a sentence "It will kiss indirectly, so please drink on the other side." After making it clear, you can show that you are not the kind of casual person, and there will be an ambiguous atmosphere.
But in my personal foolish opinion, this may not be a better method. The so-called ambiguity should be the atmosphere of "either you and I don't speak, but your heart is like my heart". It should be silent and sound, and actively provoking with words will lead to a inferiority.
When returning the cup, it is better to gently wipe it with your fingers in the place you have drunk and then smile shyly at the boy, which will surpass all straightforward words.
The four seasons move, and all things come into being. What does the heaven say?
Of course, this behavior applies when two people just met and the woman needs to be proud of themselves. If they have known each other for a while and are familiar with each other and want to get into ambiguous relationship, the girl can save the action of wiping the cup, and even when returning the cup, she can face the boy with the one she has drunk and observe her reaction.
Some people say that the routines in the show seem simple, but what if the boys see through it?
First of all, the bystanders are clear, while the authorities are confused. The feeling of looking at the problem from the perspective of God is completely different from looking at the problem from the first perspective. The audience knows that the other party is scheming, so any action she makes will be enlarged, and the reality will not be like this.
Secondly, some girls have actually discovered that some scheming small moves in the show will be done unintentionally.
This is also the most important point. Some people are born to make cute little moves. Even smart boys are difficult to determine whether this is intentional or unintentional, so the other party is generally not set as a scheming woman.
In addition, the host of the program had a sentence that I thought I would refute. He said, "The scheming that the man can see is very bad, and the scheming that the boy can't see is really great" (this is probably what it means).
But how do you know that the girl's scheming you see is not something that the other party deliberately shows weakness to let you see?
Some tricks are not harmful, but will instead convey the message "I like you very much". After seeing a girl's trick, boys will feel superior in IQ, and at the same time they will think that the girl is a little stupid, cute, and will care about it and increase their favorability.
Do you think you are on the second floor? In fact, the woman is still one level higher than you.
However, although I have complained about Namishi Tanaka, I agree with one of her views very much. I have forgotten the original words. In my own words: scheming can help you get someone, but it cannot stop him from leaving you.
Because after living together, what we have to face together is the trivial matters of life. In life, it is more about love and romance, but about the reality of food, food, food, and salt.
When we spend time together day and night, disguise cannot last long, and scheming will always be exposed one day.
Chapter completed!