Chapter 267 The price of initiative(2/2)
The other five people became even more confused.
Isn't the song quite good, why change it?
...
It was a happy thing for the son and daughter to celebrate their birthdays.
But something was wrong with these two people.
Yang Feng ran to Hua Xiaoqian's house without hesitation, saying that he was helping prepare his birthday party with his sister.
Just go, and took photos of Hua Xiaoqian's house and posted them on WeChat Moments. Not only can they see it, but his roommates and members of the club can see it, leaving a long row of birthday wishes under the dynamics.
It would be fine if it was just like this. Hua Xiaoqian also posted a clarification statement in her circle of friends, saying that she was not married yet, but she already had someone she liked. Today she would celebrate her birthday to the person she liked. Please don’t bother, and attached a photo of her making cakes with two hands together.
It is also visible to everyone, and a group of people leave messages under her dynamics.
Although he did not show his face, he posted updates at the same time and has revealed a lot of information.
This is obviously a prelude to be officially announced, and he has already started to have a headache.
I'm afraid Hua Lei will come to him after this to discuss ways to deal with this matter.
These two children feel uncomfortable all day long.
The matters on her daughter Xiaoyu are even more difficult to handle. Although it has not been shown clearly, they have not changed much in front of them, as if they have something to worry about.
"Xiaoyu If you encounter any trouble at school, tell your mother directly that she is also a person who has experienced it." Yang Yang saw that there was still a while before he reached Hua Xiaoqian's villa and persuaded him.
"Dad, I'm fine, I just feel a little tired." Yang Xiaoyu replied faintly with her eyes looking out the window.
Xu Yan looked at her from the side and felt uncomfortable, "Husband, please stop the car first."
"Okay." Yang Yang turned his head and looked at Xu Yan, and immediately understood what she meant, and parked the car on the side of the road.
Getting off from the passenger seat, Xu Yan took the car directly to the back seat.
In order to give the mother and daughter a privacy space, Yang Yang didn't say a word, and after they were done, he drove directly to the road.
Xu Yan leaned against Yang Xiaoyu, and said without asking:
"You are in love like this."
"Mom, I don't."
"Don't rush to deny it. Mom has been confused at your age, but it's different from your dad's."
Xu Yan leaned against the backrest of the car seat and began to recall those unpleasant pasts in her eyes.
"He doesn't want you to fall in love in college because he is afraid that you will be hurt like your mother in college."
"I thought so at the beginning, but now it's different."
“Why are the difference?”
Yang Xiaoyu felt that her parents had a much simpler person at that time than they are now. At that time, people broke up after graduation at least a while. What she saw now, but they broke up before graduation.
"If I had met your father in college, I probably wouldn't have had those bad experiences."
"I believe that my parents will be together again, but this is not necessarily suitable for everyone."
Yang Xiaoyu said as she took out her cell phone and showed Xu Yan what was on it.
"Some people have chosen different paths and have lived a good life."
"That's it, it depends on who wrote it. If my mother met your father, she would definitely write a book that was more excessive than them." Xu Yan glanced at the one on her daughter's phone and breathed a sigh of relief.
"What would you do if you meet your dad and you take the initiative to chase your dad and your dad ignores you?"
Hearing Xiaoyu say this, Yang Yang's face became awkward and he stopped the car.
"Here, wife, please call Xiao Qian and ask Xiao Yu to open the door. I'll tell Xiao Yu."
"good."
Xu Yan thought about what Yang Xiaoyu said, took out her cell phone to dial Hua Xiaoqian's mobile phone number.
Yang Yang looked at his daughter through the rearview mirror.
"Xiaoyu, did you take the initiative to chase boys in school?"
"No, that's too stupid."
Yang Xiaoyu bulged her face, as if she remembered something that made her angry, turned her head and looked out the car window.
"This behavior is indeed stupid, as long as you didn't do it."
"If your mother chased me when she was in college, I would indeed ignore him." When Yang Yang said this, he felt the cold light from his wife, and he still risked the return home and went home and continued:
"If a boy who is chased by a girl ignores that girl, he will actually have to be divided into the situation."
"In the first case, the boy was so stubborn that he felt that the girl who was chasing him was not reserved. He would chase him when he saw the boy, or he thought she had some other unspeakable intention."
"In the second case, the boy already has someone in his heart. In his eyes, others do not distinguish between men and women, and sometimes they also discriminate against some women. They think that getting along with boys is easier than girls because girls are very artificial."
"The third situation is that the boy has suffered emotional injuries or is very inferior, thinking that he is not good enough and cannot be worthy of the girl. He hopes that she can find a better person and not waste time on himself."
"Don't they consider the feelings of girls?" Yang Xiaoyu looked down on these three types of people and her eyes were filled with anger.
The door of the villa opened and Yang Yang slowly drove the car in.
"In terms of subjective feelings, we cannot use the perspective of others to distinguish right from wrong. If a girl takes the initiative to pursue a boy, it means that the girl takes the initiative and the boy refuses to accept it. That is the boy's own behavior. The proactive party must bear the price of his own initiative. Once he takes the initiative to think from others, from that moment on, the boy has changed from passive to active, and he must pay the price for his own behavior."
“…”
Yang Xiaoyu was silent for a while. When the car stopped, she opened the car door and got out of the car.
"Dad, maybe you're right, but I'm really fine."
This child.
Looking at Xiaoyu walking into the villa, Yang Yang shook his head helplessly.
A girl cannot help her father when she is old.
Yang Yang untied his seat belt and was about to get out of the car, but found that the car door could not be pushed open. He looked up and saw Xu Yan looking at him kindly.
"Husband, now you can talk to me. What does it mean to ignore me just now?"
“…”
Sweat beads slowly emerged from Yang Yang's forehead.
Chapter completed!