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The first thousand four hundred and fifty chapters overcome anger with sorrow(1/2)

Ruan Yunfei stood outside, his legs a little sore.

From childhood to adulthood, Ruan Yunfei has been very outstanding. He is the kind of child from other people's family. He has never been punished by his teacher when he was in school. It is even more impossible when he grows up.

Moreover, Ruan Yunfei is a very pure Chinese medicine practitioner. Unlike Fang Han, he is still proficient in surgery. It is normal to stand for several hours during surgery.

Ruan Yunfei has never stood there for a long time. Even during his internship, he has many conveniences because he is backed by the Ruan family.

Fang Han almost made his mark during the internship and had never experienced the pain of the intern, and Ruan Yunfei was almost the same.

Now that I have been standing outside for almost an hour, Ruan Yunfei really can't stand it anymore, but he still has to stand, after all, it was the old man's order.

The sound insulation effect of Xiao Junqian's office door was quite good. Fang Han and several others were talking inside, but Ruan Yunfei could hardly hear it. That is, when Ruan Shangkun laughed just now, Ruan Yunfei faintly heard it, his grandfather was laughing.

I was punished to stand outside, and my grandfather laughed with Fang Han inside?

This made Ruan Yunfei very uncomfortable again.

A group of people have been talking about it for a long time, but I don’t know what they are talking about. Could it be that they are talking about their own illness?

Fang Han really knows what he is doing?

As the saying goes, the authorities are confused. At this moment, Ruan Yunfei didn't realize that he was actually angry.

...........

"If Mr. Guo hadn't taken the lead, I really wanted to adopt Fang Han as a student."

Ruan Shangkun sighed a little.

Although the Ruan family is a family of traditional Chinese medicine, the Ruan family has such a high status in Yunzhou not because of the family, but because of the Ruan family's disciples.

Not to mention other provinces, just Yunzhou Province, almost all major hospitals have students from the Ruan family, some classrooms and lecturers in the medical school, and many of them are from the Ruan family. If Ruan Shangkun met such an outstanding young man like Fang Han, he would never let him go. If Ruan Shangkun accepted Fang Han as a student, he would never treat Fang Han much worse than Ruan Yunfei.

Ruan Shangkun still has a pattern. The reason why Ruan Yunfei has a high status in the Ruan family is not only because he is Ruan Shangkun's grandson, but because Ruan Yunfei is indeed very talented, which is undeniable.

Ruan Shangkun is not only a relative grandson like Ruan Yunfei, but also a grandson. Including the Ruan family is in Ruan Yunfei's generation, Ruan Yunfei was trained as a successor.

After sighing for a few words, Ruan Shangkun continued to ask Fang Han.

"Fang Han, then how do you think Yun Fei's condition should be cured?"

Fang Han thought for a while and then said: "I used the method of using joy to control anger to treat the same director last time. Director Ruan's words, I think I can overcome anger with sorrow."

As the saying goes, people are not sages, so who can be without fault? Who can still be without a temper? If you reach a certain level of anger, it will actually cause you to be concerned about it.

As the saying goes, it is an aphasia of anger.

There is also saying that if someone is angry and crying, it is actually turning from anger to sadness.

If you are so angry that you have no place to vent, you will feel wronged. The best way to feel wronged is to cry.

According to the principle of the mutual restraint of the five elements, liver wood is overcome by lung metal. The lungs are responsible for sorrow, so sorrow can overcome anger.

Therefore, sometimes when people advise people, they will say that it is really uncomfortable, don’t hold it in, cry when you want to cry, and the liver qi will calm down after crying, so that it will not cause any major harm to the body.

That's the reason.

If a person is too strong, everything is hidden in his heart. Whether it is a happy event or a sad event, it will be affected by the body after hiding it for a long time.

Only by venting can the problem be solved from the source.

Tong Xiaobo was angry at the time and was silent. He went back and made himself angry, resulting in aphasia.

Ruan Yunfei was also angry, but there were still differences between the two.

Tong Xiaobo felt that he went to ask the teacher for advice. He was originally interested in learning, but he was scolded by Tang Yuquan and even cancelled his scientific research funds. He was wronged, angry, and difficult to tell others.

Ruan Yunfei's situation is that he is too competitive and makes him angry.

So at that time, Fang Han gave Tong Xiaobo the plan to control his anger with joy.

And Ruan Yunfei, it would be more difficult to deal with if he is happy.

Fang Han had also considered this issue in the classroom just now. For Ruan Yunfei, there were not many things that could make him happy, and the conditions were too high.

If Ruan Yunfei has a girl he has a crush on, it may be a way to let the other party confess his love. If not, it will be really hard to find a way.

It is useless to give the squad leader to Ruan Yunfei. Now giving the squad leader to Ruan Yunfei is another insult to Ruan Yunfei, which may make Ruan Yunfei even more angry.

As for other things, promotion, wealth, promotion, salary increase?

These may not have much effect on Ruan Yunfei, and if they are too outrageous, Ruan Yunfei may not believe it.

So Fang Han thought of using sorrow to control anger.

If Ruan Yunfei is sad and then vents, this aphasia will actually be fine.

"By sadness and anger?"

Tang Yuquan's eyes lit up and he said, "It's amazing, why didn't I expect it?"

Because Tang Yuquan knew the inside story of Fang Han's treatment for Tong Xiaobo, after learning about Ruan Yunfei's situation, Tang Yuquan also thought of using joy to control anger.

Like Fang Han, Tang Yuquan was also thinking about this method to make Ruan Yunfei happy. But after thinking about it, he didn't expect that it was appropriate. In Tang Yuquan's view, Ruan Yunfei's situation was more difficult to treat than the same as the small waves.

Although Tong Xiaobo is also the deputy director, he has no good background after all. Even Tang Yuquan's students are not the most respected among Tang Yuquan's students. He is not as glorious as Ruan Yunfei, and if he gives a little benefit, he will be unable to find the North.

But Ruan Yunfei is in trouble.

After thinking about it, Tang Yuquan did not think of a good method. He never thought that Fang Han would do the opposite and defeat his anger with sorrow.

"By sadness and anger?"

Shang Wenmin, Mr. Jin and others next to him were also stunned and muttered to themselves, the more they thought about it, the more they made sense.

"Fang Han's method is good."

Ruan Shangkun also practiced and nodded.

It turns out that he is a famous scholar, Fang Han is much better than he thought.

Compared to using joy to control anger, Fang Han’s method of using sorrow to overcome anger is better achieved, and it is also suitable for Ruan Yunfei.

"I'll need a few more people to cooperate later."

Ruan Shangkun told Tang Yuquan and others.

Fang Han said that using sorrow to overcome anger is enough. Ruan Shangkun obviously already had an idea of ​​what method to use.

"Mr. Ruan, are you planning to pretend to be sick?"

Xiao Jun asked with a smile.

"This is the only way to do it today."

Ruan Shangkun sighed and said, "It's not just about pretending to be sick, but about pretending to be dead."

Yes, Ruan Shangkun’s method is to pretend to be dead, critically ill, and suddenly die. Only in this way can Ruan Yunfei feel sad.

"Of course, the premise is that the kid really has a conscience." Ruan Shangkun smiled mockingly.

"Mr. Ruan is joking. Yun Fei is just a little young and energetic, and he still respects you very much." Shang Wenmin said with a smile.

"Okay, we've had a chat for a while."

Ruan Shangkun stood up and said to Fang Han: "Xiao Fang, please open the door and let that kid come in."

Fang Han got up and walked to the door, opened the door, and Ruan Shangkun's voice came out: "Don't you just roll in?"

Ruan Yunfei hurriedly walked in. Because he had been standing for a long time, he was still staggering just now and almost fell.

I have to say that Ruan Yunfei cares about Ruan Shangkun's words very much, and he is indeed motionless when standing outside.

"Do you know you're wrong?" Ruan Shangkun asked.

Ruan Yunfei nodded hurriedly.

"I'm so grown-up, I don't know the depth, I don't know the height of the sky and the earth, I'm far behind Fang Han."

Ruan Yunfei didn't say anything, of course, either, but it could be seen from the inadvertent expression on his face that he was actually dissatisfied.

"Do you have a little repentance for a squad leader who makes you angry like this?"

Ruan Shangkun had a gloomy face and cursed.

Ruan Yunfei was stunned and hurriedly lowered his head.

Ruan Shangkun cursed for a while, then he slowed down and said, "I apologize to Fang Han, and learn more from Fang Han in the future. You must know that there is heaven beyond heaven and there are people beyond heaven."

Ruan Yunfei raised his head, his face full of disbelief.

Let yourself learn from Fang Han?

Although Ruan Yunfei lowered his head when Ruan Shangkun cursed just now, he was indeed a little dissatisfied. He didn't think he would be worse than Fang Han. Besides, he didn't offend Fang Han, so why would he apologize to Fang Han?

"Apologize!"

Ruan Shangkun said angrily.

Ruan Yunfei gritted his teeth, how could he apologize to Fang Han?

Anything else is OK, but apologizing to Fang Han is absolutely not OK.

Just now, Ruan Shangkun said that he was angry for the squad leader. Ruan Yunfei admitted it, but he didn't even deal with Fang Han. Why did he apologize?
To be continued...
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