Chapter 782: An old man like ice, an aunt like water

"What is a flower posture? I have put in my effort to study it. Young man, don't listen to her nonsense. I tell you that Tai Chi is profound and profound. It can not only strengthen the body, but also be used in practical use. Just like when I pushed you just now, I stroked and smoothed the elbow position, and didn't use any force. Don't you almost fall down by yourself? Tai Chi is the least important thing. Sun Tzu said: The soldiers have no constant momentum, water has no constant shape, and the one who can win due to the changes of the enemy is called Lin. The essence of Tai Chi lies in this. I guard my border, neither humble nor arrogant, and the other does not move, I do not move, use stillness to control movement, use softness to overcome hardness, so there is no move, use invisible to guide there, use invisible to guide there, use unchangeable to respond to all changes, and use the power of the person to treat the person's body."

"Young man, don't pay attention to him. He is a Tai Chi fan. He is similar to your young people's obsession with online games. He talks about these things endlessly. In fact, there is no real skill, let alone any practical effect. He is just a bad old man who can't even walk steadily. Haha," the evil aunt was joking on the surface, but anyone could see the disgust of her black-faced old man obsessed with Tai Chi between her eyebrows. She frowned and glanced at the old man, and said, "This time we went to Beijing to accompany him to Jishuitan Hospital for a review. Last time he fooled the neighbor's children to practice Tai Chi with him. When he was posing in the corridor, he fell and rolled down the stairs. His old bones almost broke up. Now it was cloudy and rainy, and the wounds were still painful."

"I've said it more than a hundred times. When the baby and I were pushing hands, he suddenly used a move to steal peaches. If I had hit his move, would I still have the face to go in and out of the community? I was in a hurry to dodge and accidentally rolled down the steps. But a bone was broken. You insisted on forcing me to check and check again." The old man had a black face, and it was not obvious that he was red or not. But Shu Tong, who eavesdropped on our conversation, couldn't help laughing, which made the old man very unhappy. "So I said that nowadays, children and young people are too impetuous, and no matter what they do, they don't have a normal heart."

The evil aunt, who had always been as gentle as water, turned dark and sighed softly: "I feel impetuous and normal... Are you qualified to say these two words?"

The black-faced old man's face changed. I thought he would get angry, but he didn't expect that he just sighed and ignored the demon aunt's obviously stimulating words. He continued to say to me: "Young man, have time to practice Tai Chi, strengthen your body and cultivate your mind..."

The evil aunt was ignorant and ignorant, saying, "You have practiced for forty years, practiced in the morning and at night, but you haven't found any cultivation of your mind..."

The old man finally couldn't help but retort: ​​"I have changed! I practiced when I was young, I practiced to strengthen my body, when I was older, I cultivated my mind. After so many years, I regretted it, let go, accepted it, and became open-minded. What else do you want me to do? I have smoothed out the edges and corners that I have raised for most of my life, but except for endless nagging in my ears, what have you done in the past years?"

I didn't expect that the old couple who was so coordinating didn't say three words and would start arguing. I suddenly felt at a loss and didn't know how to resolve their tension.

Perhaps it is because the men in our old Chu family are relatively humble and give in to women, and family conflicts are not a good match with my family. Even if the old man and his stepmother have any disputes, the old man often takes the initiative to make concessions and is the first to be calm. This is exactly the opposite of the old man's family. When the evil aunt knew that his wife was angry, she immediately stopped and there was no sound. She was not like my precious stepmother, and she could be strong to the end if she had reason or not.

A man is generous, but he also wants to be faced. If the woman argues with reason, he doesn't mind first admitting his mistakes and showing his open-mindedness and the demeanor of a good man not fighting with a woman. But if the woman admits his unreasonable act, few men can do it without taking advantage of it first. After emphasizing that his sacred dignity is inviolable, he will be magnanimous after he hits the woman to the bottom, because there are no men who are not vain in this world. He will enjoy the little pitiful look of a woman who knows her mistakes and repents in front of him and shrinks.

I couldn't help but sigh that the cowardly character of the evil aunt is simply a natural person who is angry...

Fortunately, the old man black-faced just smiled bitterly and shook his head, but did not continue to be strong. Instead, he sighed with emotion: "When the couple lives, they should support each other. Understand each other, they understand that tolerance is important, but they still have to argue, they still have to fight, they still have to persist, but you have to persist in your life. Once you lose your temper, you will stop talking... I wish you could argue with me once and say everything in your heart, tell me, it is far from enough that I have polished the water chestnuts. I have made too many mistakes and too deep mistakes. I should give up the last bit of so-called dignity and really bend down and say 'sorry' to the child..."

"I know you can't do it, and I don't want you to do it. I know you, and the child understands you too, so I forgave you long ago and didn't hate you, because we all know that you have been stubborn all your life and arrogant all your life. If you really bent down, it means denying you for the rest of your life..." The demonic aunt secretly wiped away the tears in the corner of her eyes and said, "If the children hold hatred of you, they will not always force you to go to the hospital for examination. The children don't say it directly, but they are thinking about you in their hearts."

The old man didn't say anything, but there was a rippling light in his muddy eyes. After a while, he said softly, "The children are like you."

"No," a hint of relief and a little proud of the aunt's sad eyes, "Everything is like you."

The old man was stunned and laughed and said, "Stubborn? Stubborn?"

The aunt held one of the old man's hands and smiled, "Who knows?"

Have you made up? I didn't dare to interrupt for a long time. Although I didn't understand it, I also knew that the focus of the dispute was family conflicts, not something outsiders should ask about. Seeing the old couple holding hands, I was worried and laughed foolishly. The old man then remembered that I was still left aside. He felt embarrassed and gently broke away from his wife's hand and returned to his previous excitement, saying, "Young man, I think you have good conditions in all aspects, but your body is a little thin. How about it, do you want to practice Tai Chi?"

"Ah? Me?"

"Yes," the old man pointed to my head and smiled, "It's because I'm wearing a hat on a hot day. Is it because I'm having a head hurt because I'm fighting with someone?"

I subconsciously pulled the brim of my hat, thinking it was not covered, so I heard the old man continue, "Trying to cover it up, it seems that I was right. No wonder I had a little purple and swollen face. It was indeed a fight with someone. Haha, when I got in the car, I thought you were not a righteous child, so I was a little surprised to see you were so polite and humble and polite to me, but now I can be sure that you are not that kind of person. If you fight with someone, you must have been bullied or have any last resort?"

This old man's insight and reasoning ability are not average. Could it be that he was a retired detective? But he was wrong. His buddy's face was bruised and swollen. He was not beaten by outsiders, but pinched by three vinegar jars of Liusu, Murphy and Ziyuan...

"Men should be self-reliant. If others do not offend me, I will not offend others. If others offend me, haha, do you have to be polite? Depending on your current battle, I guess you don't have that kind of magnanimity? That's right, what is a man's true nature? Live with dignity, live with pride, and live with momentum! If someone fights, you should fight back!"

The demonic aunt interrupted, "Hey, it's not appropriate for you to say this? Isn't this teaching young people to make mistakes?"

"You are wrong. You are just tolerating and giving in. It is not demeanor, it is inseparable from good or evil, it is indulgence and encouragement to the real person who makes mistakes! Think about it, if he bullies you today and you endure it, he will think that you are afraid of him, and tomorrow it may not be bullying you alone. Although he is wrong, indulging him and giving him the courage to bully you, isn't it wrong?" The old man said this to me. Although my old man is even more old-fashioned than Shu Tong, he often educates me like this, so he turned a blind eye to me fighting and causing trouble since childhood, otherwise I would have been tortured to death by him.
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