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196, recognize relatives

The custom of southern cities: Before two young men and women get married, they must first recognize their relatives and friends. This means that the man comes to the woman’s house and buys gifts to notify the woman’s relatives and friends. This is based on the customs of each place. In some places, women go to the man’s house to recognize their relatives and friends.

When Wang Zehan and Wu Chunmei heard that they wanted to recognize their relatives, they felt excited. After they recognized their relatives, if there was no change before the wedding banquet, basically the marriage was settled. The two of them were satisfied that their daughter could marry someone like Xie Xiaoke.

Look at this young man, he is young, educated, knowledgeable, rich, house, car, career, responsible, and handsome, and basically has no shortcomings. If he insists on picking out a bone in the egg and finding a shortcoming, he is not very good at speaking and has a little lack of social experience, but this has nothing to do with the marriage between the two.

"I was so surprised!" Wang Zehan was very excited, with no expression on his face: "Then let's follow the customs here, call all the more important relatives and friends in my family, then set up a few tables to hold a simple ceremony. You have such a big career, can you drink well, right?"

"The alcohol tolerance is OK!" Xie Xiaoke is one, two, two, and is about to get married. Of course, he has to show his truest self to his father-in-law. He is not good at lying and will never lie since he was a child, so he has been single for so long.

Fortunately, Wang Xiaochen is a more down-to-earth girl and doesn't like the dog-skin plaster-type suitor. Xie Xiaoke adopts the half-attractive and half-kneeling method of picking up girls, otherwise what would happen to him?

Xie Xiaoke originally thought that he had no hope of getting married in his life. If God hadn't suddenly favored him and given him a system, he would probably not have the courage to flirt with Wang Xiaochen, and he is still a single person.

It seems that things are not absolute. Everyone’s birth cannot change, but we can change our lives by changing many acquired factors in different growth environments.

Three points are destined to be a god, seven points are determined by hard work...

The remaining ninety is up to the system.

At this moment, there were some touching tears in the corner of Xie Xiaoke's eyes, which he secretly wiped off.

This year is the second day of the Lunar New Year. According to the customs of southern cities, some younger relatives want their relatives to pay New Year's greetings to their relatives who were older last year. Wang Zehan and Wu Chunmei are the oldest among their brothers and sisters. Therefore, they don't have to go out to visit other people's houses during the New Year, and just wait for Wang Xiaochen's aunt, aunt, uncle, cousin, cousin, cousin and cousin to come to her house.

As the director of the Human Resources and Social Security Institute, Wang Zehan quickly borrowed a table from several neighbors around him, plus one from his own house, a total of 2, 8 people at a table, which is 16 people.

Children are not allowed to go to the table, at least they have to be eighteen years old.

Wang Xiaochen and Xie Xiaoke also helped to sort out the things at home, and then went to the supermarket to buy a lot of gifts, which would be given to all relatives and friends tomorrow.

After Wang Zehan finished calling and notified all relatives, he called Xie Xiaoke to the gate and took out a red envelope from his pocket, which was 1,000 yuan and thick.

"Xiaoke, take it, this is my little intention!" Wang Zehan handed the red envelope to Xie Xiaoke.

Xie Xiaoke felt very embarrassed. How could he ask for his father-in-law’s red envelope?

However, following the customs is a good quality for a person. Here, the man goes to the woman's house to recognize relatives and friends, and the man must accept it. As for how to deal with it after receiving it, it depends on whether the man is smart or not, such as giving it to his girlfriend, or using the money to buy something for his father-in-law in the future, etc. Any method is fine, as long as you don't hide it in your pocket and are reluctant to take it out.

Wang Zehan was not afraid of Xie Xiao at all. How could a son-in-law like him who was not short of money be so stingy? Moreover, he didn't care about the money. Anyway, whether it was 1,000 or 10,000, it was equivalent to giving it to his daughter in the end.

"Hold it, this is our custom, you must accept it, do you know?"

"How can you be so embarrassed?"

"What's so sorry!" Wang Zehan stuffed the red envelope directly into Xie Xiaoke's hand and reminded: "I'm just such a precious daughter, and I'll entrust it to you in the future!"

Wang Xiaochen stood in the house and eavesdropped. When Wang Zehan turned around, she slipped away.

Xie Xiaoke refused again and again and accepted the red envelope.

The next day was the day to recognize relatives. In the afternoon, Xie Xiaoke asked Wang Xiaochen to go to the Agricultural Bank of the town to get some cash, which would be used as a bride money.

There are usually some considerations about how much money is given to the bride price. Although Xie Xiaoke has never been married, he has checked a lot of information online and has learned it clearly.

Just like Wu Xiubo's mistress said a famous saying: "You group of losers cannot afford luxury goods, but they know more clearly than I do!"

10,001 means one in a million;

21800 represents the two companies to send together;

48000 means stability;

100,000 means perfection;

...

There is only Agricultural Bank in the town, and there is only one, so there is no rest during statutory holidays. Moreover, the bride price prepared by Xie Xiaoke exceeded the withdrawal amount of the ATM machine of 50,000 yuan a day, so he directly transferred it to Wang Xiaochen and asked her to go to the bank counter to collect it.

I prepared 20,000 yuan for 5 yuan, 2,000 yuan for 100 yuan, and 1,200 yuan for 50 yuan, which totaled a total of 360,000 yuan.

After discussing with the bank staff, they finally successfully completed the withdrawal, and then the two of them returned home with a thick stack of banknotes.

During the Chinese New Year, because every household has prepared a lot of dishes, they eat dinner early every day. After eating, they visit each other, play mahjong, play landlords, and chat with each other.

After dinner, there was nothing to visit in this town, so Wang Xiaochen and Xie Xiaoke went to the room.

Wang Xiaochen couldn't sleep all night because he was so excited. The happiest thing for a woman was to marry her beloved, put on a beautiful wedding dress, and put on a ring in her hand, and said to the priest in the church: "I do!"

Marrying the right person means happiness for the rest of your life. Marrying the wrong person means being a nanny for the rest of your life. She believes that Xie Xiaoke will not disappoint her.

Although they had insomnia at night, they still got up very early the next morning, helped their parents clean up, sorted out their home things, set up tables and chairs, and waited for the arrival of their relatives and friends.

Xie Xiaoke was also very excited and was very busy and active. Wang Zehan and Wu Chunmei were very satisfied with the couple. Although the son-in-law was rich, he came from the countryside after all, and he had no stinking airs of a rich man. They had already recognized him in their hearts.

In small towns, most people are poor, and they look down on the rich people at all because they have very bad virtues.

Some rich people marry an ordinary girl, as if he married your daughter, because your family has been blessed for eight lifetimes. I wish you could ask your whole family to carry his shoes.
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