Chapter 160: Patriarchal Thoughts 2
An Xiaohui said with a self-deprecating smile, "My parents are so cruel and heartless to me, but I can't ignore them. Doesn't it sound like a little foolish and filial?"
There will be such a scene on many news or TV online. Many original families are like her birth. Therefore, when those people grow up, have the ability and can make money, they will break off from their original families and have cut off their relationship for 10 or 20 years without any news. Until their parents want to meet them for the last time, they ask for help to find them, and then there will be a big fuss on the Internet.
Some people scold this for being ruthless. No matter how bad the original family treats you, they are your parents, the one you are closest to, and the one you raised since childhood. Oh, now that you have a promising future, you blame your parents or something. You are really a ungrateful wolf.
Some people also say that before others suffer, do not persuade others to be good.
Anyway, there are all things you say.
In situations like An Xiaohui are actually caused by backward rural feudal ideas. But An Xiaohui's parents only have him, and they didn't like her since childhood, but at least they didn't beat and scold her at all. At least they allowed her to eat and wear and wear, so that she could go to school like others.
Although they prevented themselves from taking the college entrance examination, their parents still paid her tuition fees after getting into college, in addition to living expenses, she borrowed them herself or found a way to earn them.
However, An Xiaohui's parents, when they met An Yang, they were angry and even beat and scolded An Xiaohui, their daughter!
Therefore, from the perspective of emotion and reason, An Xiaohui cannot be ruthless and righteous to her parents or break up relations.
Xiao Lingyu shook her head and said, "Oh, I don't think you are a foolish and filial person. After all, they are your biological parents. They have raised you. Although they are emotionally biased or even unfair, they have at least done some of the things their parents should do and fulfilled their obligation to support them. When they get old, you will naturally fulfill your obligation to support them."
"Besides, what is foolish filial piety? Fool filial piety means being considerate to your parents, trying every means to please your parents, and not rejecting any requests from your parents. But you are not. You are very clear. You are filial to your parents when you should be filial, but you are also very clear to reject your parents when you should be rejected. In fact, you have to say that you are filial to your parents, not foolish filial to your parents!" Xiao Lingyu said.
An Xiaohui felt a little more relieved when she heard Xiao Lingyu say this.
In fact, it is indeed the case.
Her current salary is two million a year, but she has not given all the money to her parents. She pays her parents a monthly living expenses, three thousand a month, and then in the season, she will also give her some holiday expenses, two thousand yuan.
His parents have a house in the county town, so they don’t have to pay back loans, and they don’t have any other debts. The living expenses of 3,000 yuan are enough for them.
Of course, her family is not sure how much her salary is.
All they know is that she works in a very famous company with a monthly salary of tens of thousands.
Just because of the tens of thousands of dollars of salary, my parents received three thousand yuan of living expenses. Under the instigation of some people, they asked their parents to keep asking her for money and find various excuses.
But the most excuse is the excuse of getting sick. It costs 2,000 yuan to have a cold today, and it costs 3,000 yuan to make a video tomorrow. In short, she has to get all her salary of 10,000 yuan.
An Xiaohui could not confirm whether her parents were sick, and An Xiaohui could not refuse to ask for money on the excuse of being sick. But An Xiaohui knew very well that her parents were sick and asking for money was real. After she had to get the money, she would definitely turn it over and use it for An Yang.
Otherwise, An Yang has not had a job in the past two years and has played games and slept at home all day, so where can he get the money?
An Xiaohui knew this, but she could do nothing about it.
Because this has been the case since childhood, everything in her hands or in their hands will be in An Yang's hands the next day.
Xiao Lingyu said, "Xiaohui, haven't you ever thought about hiring a nanny to take care of your parents? In this way, you can take care of your parents' health, and secondly, you can also know their situation at any time. It's not a big deal for them to use the excuse of being sick. They don't know that your annual salary is 2 million. If they know, they will definitely find a way to squeeze out all the money in your hands."
Xiao Lingyu, as the person next to her, felt sorry for An Xiaohui. However, when a person was born, he could not choose his own parents.
Even if parents are not, they have the kindness of giving birth to themselves, and they should respect the filial piety that should be respected as children.
But this kind of filial piety cannot be allowed to be obtained endlessly.
An Xiaohui smiled bitterly and said, "I thought about it too, but they refused. They felt that instead of spending money on hiring a nanny, it would be better to save the money and give it to An Yang directly."
Xiao Lingyu was speechless.
An Xiaohui's parents were so dedicated to An Yang. It must be very happy for An Yang, but it was a huge harm for An Xiaohui.
Xiao Lingyu thought for a while and said, "Xiaohui, your parents have always regretted that no one has passed on the family line and inherited the incense. What is even more worried is that they did not fall into the basin after their death. Have you never considered solving the problem fundamentally?"
After hearing this, An Xiaohui asked with confusion and surprise, "Sister Ling Yu, what do you mean?"
"Have you never talked to your parents that if the first boy's surname is An after you get married, as their grandson, they will have grandsons to smash basins for them?" Xiao Lingyu said speechlessly.
"Ha?" An Xiaohui was a little confused.
They had never talked about this before, and since she knew that her parents could not give birth, her grandparents took the initiative and later asked her second uncle's son to throw a basin for his parents.
In the consciousness of An’s father and mother, she realized that Anyang was the one who broke the basin afterwards.
Therefore, I never considered asking An Xiaohui to find a man to be her son-in-law.
As for An Xiaohui, she was deeply influenced by her family since she was a child, and she had never considered this aspect.
Looking at An Xiaohui's expression, Xiao Lingyu immediately confirmed that they must have never thought about this or discussed it.
Xiao Lingyu sighed lightly, patted her hand, and said, "Xiaohui, maybe you can communicate with your parents in this matter. After all, having your own grandson is better than a nephew."
An Xiaohui's expression was obviously a little unimaginable, and she asked, "Sister Ling Yu, is this OK?"
Xiao Lingyu said, "Can you do it? You have to talk about it first, right?"
The problem with An Xiaohui's parents is that there is no one who has passed on the family line and no one who has fallen into the pot after their death.
Perhaps only by solving this crux of the problem can An Xiaohui's life be restored to peace.
Chapter completed!