"Why is it bad to have money?"

"Yes, it's better to have money, but if it's better to have money, then the subconscious mind will tend to choose not to have money. This is actually a simple choice." Chen Kan explained:

"First of all, the era your father was in when he was young was quite special. It was an era where having money means sin, so your father dared not have money."

"Yeah, indeed."

That decade left too many marks on the blood of people at that time. Business and money were considered dirty for a long time, and this idea influenced a long time.

"Secondly, your grandfather is more powerful. You can go back and ask your father to see if part of the money he earns is left to your grandfather to control, or even all of it."

"Yes, my grandfather once told me that the money earned by the family had to be distributed to my grandfather. My father was relatively financially conscious at that time, so my father paid the most money every time. My uncle's tuition and marriage money were large, and my father paid a lot of it."

"You see, this is an extremely unfair way of distribution. Because your father cannot protect his property, his father is unwilling to make too much money and just wants to earn money that can barely support the family's life. In this way, the degree of 'exploitation' will be minimized."

"But, I broke up later."

"Yes, it's already separated, but these consciousnesses have become subconscious when your father was young, and this has always affected his subsequent behavior."

"But, is it really that magical? This..." She still felt a little incredible. She actually agreed with this point of view in her heart, but there was still a hurdle that could not be overcome.

"Actually, your brother's situation is the best proof. Your brother has subconsciously recognized your father's approach."

"Why?"

"Think about it, as a graduate of a prestigious university, he has worked for five years, but he has not made much progress in his salary. According to the income statistics of previous graduates from Renmin University last year, your brother is far behind his classmates at the same level. Why do you think this is?" Chen Kan asked back.

"You mean, my brother and my father are in the same situation. They both have money phobia and dare not make money!"

"Money phobia, this term is well used."

"What should I do if I do this situation?"

"This is a psychological problem. The best way is to find a reliable psychological counselor and let the psychological counselor provide guidance."

"oh."

"Actually, you can think more deeply about what is the real core of money fear?"

“Really core?”

"Well, the expression of fear of money is indeed good, but fear of money is not the most essential, or I would like to put it another way, what corresponding things can you think of when talking about money?"

"Strength." A student next to him immediately said. Every time Chen Kan answered a student's question, he would be surrounded by a large group of students to listen. This time, he was no exception. After hearing the student's answer, other students nodded in agreement.

"Yes, it is power. Perhaps when talking about power, the first thing that comes to mind is power or force, but the problem is that power is difficult to measure. Force is difficult to become a true manifestation of power in modern society. However, money is different. Money can be directly quantified. It is obvious at a glance who has more money and who has less money. More money means more resources that can be mobilized, and it also means that his power is great."

"The essence of strength is to correspond to the status. Some people will care very much about who is higher and lower in the relationship. These people will hope that they will always be superior to others. They will hate those who are higher than themselves, but at the same time they are worried that because they are too strong, they will arouse jealousy and even attack others."

"So this leads to a deep contradiction: I cannot accept that others are taller than me, and I dare not be taller than others, so it is best that we are completely equal."

"There are some students with good academic performance who are unwilling to mention their test scores. Is that the same reason?" said a student next to him.

"You are really fast to learn from one example. What you said does have reasons for this, but this example is not accurate enough." Chen Kan said:

"When you make money in the future, you will meet such people, or even such people. When you talk about your own income, some people may have a low salary, but they will not say how much they have. When they are asked, they will talk about their income based on the other party's income, and make their salary basically the same as what the other party said."

"Yes." Everyone nodded thoughtfully.

"Your father's 'money phobia' may be because he is afraid that he is particularly powerful and will be punished, so he does stupid things first to punish himself."

"This is envy, jealousy and hatred," said a classmate.

Chen Kan smiled at this and said, "I guess there should be a lot of you who like basketball. Do you watch NBA and CBA?"

"Look." Several male classmates nodded.

"I don't know if you have carefully observed that in NBA, players will celebrate after shooting, which is showing their strength. However, in CBA, after shooting, players usually subconsciously shrink their bodies first. This is actually conveying a message, that is, I am not a strong man, I am not strong, so don't attack me, and have similar performances in football."

"this……"

"Is this considered a bad habit of the people?" a classmate asked, his tone was quite harsh.

Chen Kan smiled: "It is actually meaningless to care about 'yes' or 'no'. The more meaningful thing is to find where the source of these manifestations is and how they came from. Maybe you will find that this may not be a bad thing. Don't easily make a conclusion about one thing."

"The so-called 'curse of getting rich' or 'money phobia' is actually a strong fear. There are many cases in this way. In addition to those who win the prize in the United States, such as villagers in a place who got rich because of huge demolition funds, but within six months after receiving the demolition funds, there were as many as 21 people who died of illness and car accidents, and they also attracted more than 100 lawsuits."

"This is amazing, it's really like a curse."

"Yes, that's why there are spiritual magicians and hypnotists. These are all scientifically based."

"How to solve it?"
Chapter completed!