Chapter 971 Looking forward to marriage(1/2)
Xiao Yi stood on the hillside and watched Xiao Guo's family leave.
The son Xiao Yuanchu was by his side, "If the father couldn't bear to leave his uncle's family, his son would ride a horse and chase the people back."
"The forced melon is not sweet, there is no need to chase people back."
Xiao Yi's heart was filled with blood.
He said to his son Xiao Yuanchu: "From now on, we will no longer be from the Dongping Palace. I will establish my own clan. Although there is no clan member in our clan, the benefits of having fewer people and fewer people save a lot of trouble.
There are naturally disadvantages. When encountering difficulties, without the support of the clan members, civil officials and military generals may undermine the imperial power.
Therefore, you must learn to find a balance of power, and not let anyone dominate the dominance, nor do you make any school dominance.
The court is to be inclusive and requires a variety of voices.
Especially the cabinet, they must not be united. The small cabinet must have at least three different forces and voices.
Also, beware of the relatives of the outside world. Do not give the relatives the right to go all the way, so there is no need to worry about whether to kill the entire family of the outside world in the future.”
It was all right before, but when it comes to the relatives of the outside world, Xiao Yuanchu was a little embarrassed.
"The son has not gotten married yet, so how can he get relatives?"
Xiao Yi laughed, "When you capture Jianzhou City, you will get married. Do you have a girl you like? If not, I will make your marriage with your mother."
"What if my son has a girl he likes?"
"If you have a girl you like, your mother and I will have no problem after the inspection, and you can marry her home as a wife."
"If she is a little weak, will I still marry me?"
Xiao Yi shook his head, "That may not work! If you get married, you and your wife will have to take on the heavy responsibility of reproduction of children.
Moreover, your wife has to take on the important task of governing the female family of officials and setting an example in the world.
Without a good body, there will be many and many future problems. For example, the wife dies early and leaves young children.
If you continue to marry, the original wife and the second wife will inevitably have disputes or even killings.
It’s better to marry a healthy woman from the beginning, and couples always accompany you. As the saying goes, young couples will accompany you when they are old. Just like me and your mother, we will grow old together slowly, which is great!”
"oh!"
Xiao Yuanchu was not disappointed.
If his father supports him in marrying a sick woman, he will be surprised and puzzled.
Xiao Yi asked jokingly: "Can you really like someone girl? You are still weak?"
Xiao Yuanchu immediately said, "My father misunderstood, and my son just said it casually, not true. The son has contact with only a limited number of girls. Except for his different appearances, he feels similar in my eyes, and I can't tell who is better or worse.
My marriage is important, and my father and mother need to make the decision. Especially my mother's eyes and golden eyes will definitely find a happy marriage for me."
Xiao Yi seemed a little disappointed, "Is the girl I really didn't like?"
Xiao Yuanchu shook his head, "No!"
He really didn't, he wasn't talking nonsense.
Young people of his age have basically gotten married and had children, and lived a small family life.
He seemed to be a little late in his love life, and he was busy with official duties, so he didn't have much interest in relationships between men and women, and almost no Ye Si dreamed of any girl.
No girl's appearance can make him amazed to the point of thinking day and night.
No matter how beautiful it is, can it be more beautiful than mother?
How can you be as stunning as your mother's beauty?
As for temperament, ability and talent, most girls do not even have the qualifications to carry shoes in front of his mother.
The key is...
My mother never suppressed him with her own talent and insight, but instead encouraged him.
Therefore, he is not rebellious, at least he will not be disgusted with a strong woman as strong as his mother.
Because my mother's strength is to outsiders, not to him.
He did not disgust, but appreciated it.
Many children actually hate the most, their mothers or fathers.
For example, girls will want to never marry someone like their father and never live like their mother.
Boys would also want to never marry a woman like their mother and would never live like their father. That was what he hated the most.
Xiao Yuanchu did not have such a mental journey.
His mother is open-minded and tolerant, but persistent but not tough, and he feels very happy.
so……
He admires a woman like his mother. Perhaps the wife candidate in his mind is a woman with a talented personality similar to her mother.
He never had the idea of his father that he would never live like his father.
Instead, he believed that his father was very capable of marrying his mother.
As for the occasional teasing by my grandfather, it is because of a good relationship, not a bad relationship.
He actually likes such a family atmosphere, not serious, autistic, and open and closed.
so……
He doesn't catch a cold when he abides by the rules, is straightforward and polite, and pays attention to rules everywhere but suppresses his true feelings in his heart.
How can a girl who dares not express her thoughts in truth communicate with him?
He doesn't need to be bored, and his family life is full of rules and regulations. It's good to be casual and comfortable in private.
only……
He may not be able to meet such a girl.
It's really a pity.
Therefore, he has little expectations for his marriage life.
Xiao Yi had a headache.
The ideas of this generation of young people were very different from those when they were young, and he couldn't understand them.
never mind!
Yun Ge still worried about the child's marriage.
It can even make the Supreme Emperor worry.
The Supreme Emperor was idle all day long, so he found something for him to do so as not to harass him from time to time.
The Supreme Emperor Yan Shouzhan was angry and angry.
"A few years ago, I said I would like to see the marriage for the Yuanchu family. I would like to see each other early. If there is a suitable one, I will decide first. So as not to get married. The couple of you are happy, and the children are old, and they are not in a hurry. Do you really have to drag Yuanchu until you are thirty to get married?"
Xiao Yi: “…”
He regretted it, he shouldn't have looked for the Supreme Emperor.
Because the other party talks too much and is too long-winded.
Now, he is a little bit in a hurry.
Yan Shouzhan was still complaining, "Okay, now I'm asking me to see the marriage for Yuanchu, have you made a mistake? I'm now in the military camp, where can I find a girl to see you?
Could it be that you want to find a girl from a southern family for Yuanchu and combine the north and south? This is not possible, it must not be possible.
Yuanchu's wife can only be a girl from a northern family. If you look for a girl from a southern family, the aristocratic families from the north and south will definitely fight.
The Northern Family, as the hardcore of your husband and wife, will be very dissatisfied, which will cause internal strife and even divide!"
Xiao Yi said solemnly: "I didn't say I wanted to find a girl from a southern family. I mean, I'm not busy anyway, so the Supreme Emperor can go back to the capital early to see the marriage for Yuanchu. After several years of marching and fighting, the children's marriage was delayed. It shouldn't be."
It's indeed a bit unreasonable.
The battle between the north and the south has been fought for three years, and it seems that it will continue to fight for three or five years.
Even if Jianzhou City is successfully captured, the subsequent local turmoil and the elimination of Shi La will take several years.
It is not a matter of one day or one night to make a complete peace in the south.
Other things can be delayed, but major events in Xiao Yuanchu’s life cannot be delayed.
Yan Shouzhan was a little moved and found a marriage for his grandson, and he had no choice but to do so.
but……
Why did he realize that Xiao Yi was deliberately confusing her about this matter, with the purpose of driving him out of the military camp.
Humph!
He will not be fooled.
So, he said: "When I take down Jianzhou City, I will bring my two daughters back to the capital."
To be continued...