The two came back at 8 o'clock, and they couldn't see anything on their faces. The key was that Qin Tongtong didn't use perfume, so Lin Manman couldn't see anything at all. He just pulled Qin Tongtong back to the room and asked about what happened today.

"Hu..." Chen Ming was lying in his bedroom, his clothes had been changed. He probably wouldn't wear this style of clothes again in his life, and it really didn't fit his style.

He stroked his lips, and it seemed that Qin Tongtong's temperature remained... He knew that this was his illusion, but his subconscious mind would have such thoughts. Then he understood that after that kiss, something was different.

His bottom line was loosened, which was his first step to compromise. With the first step, there would be countless steps.

"Then..." Chen Ming turned over, "Now there are only two choices in front of me, facing the bottom line of continuous relaxation step by step; or directly set a threshold and reorganize his own views."

Only children can choose all of them, and adults must adjust according to their actual situation. Rebellion and stubbornness are manifestations of childishness. Even if they are not yet adults, they feel that their experience is more than many adults in their lifetime.

"Then, let's start!" Chen Ming didn't plan to relax his bottom line little by little. Every criminal actually relaxed his bottom line little by little.

However, the bottom line actually has a threshold. In different eras, with different values, the lower limit of this threshold is also different. For example, he followed the threshold in the 1960s, so his behavior just now has broken the bottom line.

First, list the values ​​of the 1990s or 1900s, then select some bottom lines that cannot be touched, and then relax the bottom lines that can be relaxed, set three bottom lines of green, yellow and red, and the red line is the threshold that cannot be touched.

Green means that he will not take the initiative to try now, but something that can be tried, such as rock music or heavy metal. Even when necessary, he can try drinking; yellow means that he will passively, as long as the necessary conditions are met, he can do it.

For example, he still sticks to the route of a girlfriend and a wife, but as long as Lin Manman agrees and others agrees, he can date and fall in love with plural women.

In other words, under normal circumstances, he will not do that on his own initiative. He will not do it easily even if others suggest or instigate him. The so-called bottom-line management is actually that.

It is said that the reason why people are human is to learn to restrain themselves, but to what extent they are restrained is the bottom line. If a person doesn’t even know where the bottom line is, then perhaps some things at the red line level will be considered green or yellow, thus making mistakes in the true sense.

Therefore, when you are born, you must first regularly review and organize your bottom line, and then remember where your bottom line is. You cannot say that you can become a successful person. But at least you are a qualified and healthy person!

"It's a bit like extorting myself..." Chen Ming sighed, not even convincing at all.

Anyway, this thing is too subjective, and it depends on yourself whether it can be done. If it depends on your own awareness, it is really useful, so what should the law and the police do? A book called "The Analects of Confucius" is fine.

In fact, many times, this threshold setting is more like a self-deception.

But don't deny that when you keep reminding yourself every day about where these bottom lines are, this language will become a kind of self-hypnosis, and then make yourself believe that this is the bottom line.

The magic of language is actually so magical. Many successful cases of the Finance Sect are to repeat a certain concept to their disciples and eventually implant this concept into their brains.

What is the most terrifying thing about the Rat Club? It is not that it spreads quickly, but that all the members who joined the Rat Club actually saw hope of success in it...

In other fields, such as Baihuamen, they will use this to train girls who have just entered the industry.

A shy little girl who can become the head courtesan can succeed by saying a hundred words to herself every day and then assisting with all other rewards and punishments.

"Okay, it's getting late, it's time to set off." Chen Ming cleaned up, took a simple shower, and then went to school.

They obviously missed the first class of evening self-study, but there are still two classes left, so I can give it a little tutoring. Li Siyuan is a very good vice president. She has been studying with Chen Ming for a year and has probably mastered the tricks of group learning.

Although learning requires interest, it is more mechanical and repeated learning. Examination-oriented education is actually like this. The study group says it is quality education, but itself is more like it was born for exam-oriented education.

"In a beautiful country..." Chen Ming did not intend to teach today. He took the countries on the other side of the ocean as an example. "They have always advocated quality education, believing that this can bring out their nature. This theory has even affected our country, and even the government and education system, and is exploring quality education, which may become a mainstream in the future."

"Isn't there no exam-oriented education?" Zhao Sheng asked excitedly.

"I'm sorry, exam-oriented education will definitely not disappear, because the way to prove what you have learned is the exam." Chen Ming shrugged, "What I want to say is that quality education is actually a scam!"

Elite education and happy quality education in the United States are two different concepts. Rich people go to private schools, where they study more strictly than No. 3 Middle School and have more subjects, including multiple foreign languages.

But for public schools, quality education is basically for you to play, enjoy the college life happily, and then through the club, you can see if you can find a field that can be developed beyond learning.

I don’t deny that some people are naturally not good at learning, but they can enjoy themselves in other fields, but there are actually not many such people.

Without hard work, there will be no reward. Any elite is very clear about this. No matter how genius Chen Ming is, he has been learning hard, and he has achieved what he has today. If he doesn’t learn from the beginning, no matter how good his talent is, it will be useless in the end.

"Then why do we still need quality education?" Zhao Sheng didn't understand.

"Because in recent years, the quality of the people has indeed begun to decline. Materialism, the idea of ​​getting rich, the idea of ​​laziness, and the idea of ​​enjoyment have begun to emerge. If we continue, the foundation of our nation may undergo qualitative changes, and the foundation of our nation, that is, the core idea, has changed, then... the Chinese nation will be gone!" Chen Ming replied.

In fact, there is no need to fight a war when a country is destroyed. In civilization, people are transformed and controlled by others, so that they can slowly forget the original traditions of their nation. Spirit and civilization can also eliminate a nation within.
Chapter completed!