254. struggle
In the car that day, although Du Juan told Yao Yuan that she wanted to part with her Su family, she calmed down afterwards. Under pressure from all sides, she hesitated again.
Later, she enlightened herself that women always want to get married, so who wouldn’t marry? Anyway, this person is quite honest and doesn’t suffer any loss when marrying him, so don’t think about those unrealistic things.
Just like that, she gave up the idea of breaking up with Su's friend.
But I just changed my mind to persuade me. In just one week, Su Jiayou treated her.
This time, Su Jiayou helped her make up her mind. She would rather endure her parents’ blame and would rather not get married for the rest of her life. She would not be wronged by this man!
Du Juan finally decided not to pursue Su Jiayou, but turned around and went home.
Du Juan is a beautiful girl, well-behaved and sensible, and she became the boss's assistant at a young age. Her salary is nearly twice that of Su Jiayou.
Su Jiayou was very satisfied with such a girlfriend, and he even secretly thanked that he had a good life and was favored by Du Juan.
If the relationship between the two parents had not always been good, and hoped that the two families could become in-laws, Du Juan would definitely not look down on him with his own abilities. Su Jiayou himself knew this very well.
But he was the only son at home. He was spoiled by his parents since he was a child. He was very selfish and rarely took Du Juan's perspective to consider her.
Du Juan is also the only daughter in the family, but her parents did not spoil her. Instead, she has been very strict with her since she was a child.
When she was in school, her parents were afraid that she would go out to study bad things, so they always paid attention to her relationships with her classmates. They were fine, so they didn't allow her to go out to play.
So, Du Juan grew up so old that she basically had no friends of the opposite sex except for knowing classmates. She also listened to her parents very much, and basically whatever her parents said was what they said.
Her parents asked her to talk to Su Jiayou, but she didn't know how to resist, so she talked to Su Jiayou. Although she had all kinds of dissatisfaction with Su Jiayou, she had never seen what other men were like. Her parents said that men were like this, just be honest, and she thought that men were like this.
When I work, I work as a receptionist in Yao Yuan's office, which means fetching water and sweeping the floor. When guests come, they pour a glass of water. They don't have much contact with the outside world. They go to and from work at home every day.
Later, Yao Yuan gradually expanded the company. Seeing Du Juan being obedient and well-behaved, he began to train her to be a secretary and sent her out for further studies.
It was not until this time that she began to slowly get to know some other boys who were different from Su's family friend. But at that time, she had already become friends with Su's family friend, and was instinctively influenced by family education, actively avoided suspicion, and did not contact other boys, and was always in line with the rules.
However, in the past two years, as Yao Yuan's company grows bigger and as a secretary, she has come into contact with more men. But these people are also some successful people.
There is no need to say much about the so-called successful people’s virtues. Anyway, in Du Juan’s heart, these people are not as friendly as the Su family. At least Su family is honest and serious. He has been in love with her for so long, but he has never been rude to her.
Contacting the outside world only allowed her to learn how to prevent others from taking advantage of their bad intentions, to make others happy, and to achieve her own goals. As for the others, she still has not made any progress, only knowing that she will marry Su Jiayou in the future and become his wife.
But as her relationship with Yao Yuan gradually became closer and she knew more and more about Yao Yuan, she suddenly realized that her boss and her boyfriend were not the same type of man at all.
Yao Yuan was also polite to her and never bullied her with the power of her boss. He had inappropriate thoughts to her. But Yao Yuan was humorous and happy, and was funny and joked with her, making her feel that being with her boss was very happy, very comfortable, and not awkward at all.
This is something my boyfriend Su Jiayou can't give her. It's too boring to be with Su Jiayou, and there is no fun at all.
What really touched her was that Yao Yuan knew to care about her and always thought about her.
When she is tired, Yao Yuan will take the initiative to share some of her work, and even allow her to take a nap during working hours. What she likes, Yao Yuan also knows, and when she is on a business trip, she will bring it back as a gift. When she has a cold, Yao Yuan will force her to drink more water, and even bring it to her personally, put it in front of her, and force her to drink it. When she is tired, she sits on a chair and falls asleep. Yao Yuan will not scold her with the boss's rack, and will even cover her with a piece of clothing...
These little things made her misunderstand at first, thinking that the boss had liked her and had other ideas about her.
However, her role gradually became more important to Yao Yuan and became familiar with Yao Yuan's family. Only then did she realize that Yao Yuan was much better to her wife than to her.
This is a boss who knows how to care about people. He cares about every employee around him as much as he cares about her. But she has a recent relationship with him, and he cares more about her.
She once used the courage to test Yao Yuan to see if he had any intention of her? As a result, the boss gave her a message that she couldn't understand.
She understood that the boss didn't understand her words, but that they just regarded her as a relatively close person and had no other intentions at all.
One Sunday, when she saw the boss carrying a large bag and working as a free porter behind the boss's wife, she seemed to have completely understood something.
Seeing the boss’s wife walking in front of her empty hands and the smile on her lips, she finally understood what true happiness is as a woman!
Her boss is actually a warm man. A man who knows how to respect women and treats women on a truly equal position with him.
Du Juan finally knew what a good man is, he was well-educated, understood feelings, and understood women.
And her boyfriend Su Jiayou is just a dull personality. He doesn't know what Du Juan needs, and he is too lazy to understand what she needs.
Because in his heart, Du Juan is just a woman, a woman three points shorter than him. Although Du Juan is a beautiful woman and has a higher position and salary than him, Du Juan is still a woman.
In Su Jiayou's heart, I'm afraid that women are men's accessories. They must revolve around him and serve him to be considered a qualified woman, otherwise they will be a water-like poplar flower.
Later Du Juan learned that these ideas probably came from his parents' education since childhood. Because Du Juan's parents also educated her in this way, women must obey men. But now she knows that this is wrong.
Also, when Du Juan guards Su Jiayou’s parents and complains that Su Jiayou’s parents don’t care about her, Su Jiayou’s parents’ faces are extremely ugly. That means telling Du Juan that as a woman, you should first care about men, not ask them to do to you!
Her parents, Su Jiayou's parents, are all like this. They are both born in the 1940s and have a strong feudal concept. In their home, all the housework is done by women, and all the power in the home is in the hands of men. Otherwise, it would be a hen, who is rebellious!
At the beginning, even Du Juan thought this was right, and the world was like this.
However, she met Yao Yuan, a person who comes from the future and has a future concept. Men and women are equal, and even men should respect the concept of women first. For Yao Yuan, it is correct. Because men have more physical advantages than women and have better physical strength. Men should not only respect women, but also protect their women, becoming a safe harbor and a solid wall that can be relied upon.
Du Juan was unwilling to be like her parents, nor could she tolerate that. Therefore, after Su's friend criticized her for no reason, she made up her mind.
In this life, I would rather not marry than a man like my father and Su Jiayou!
Su Jiayou couldn't think of these thoughts in Du Juan. In his opinion, he just expressed his dissatisfaction with Du Juan slightly, and it was no big deal. In the past, such conflicts often arose between them, and Du Juan didn't care too much, so she would be fine the next day.
Once again, he used Du Juan's obedience and kindness to make excuses for himself. But this time, he was wrong.
Obedient and kindness have their limits. This is like a beam, where you keep adding bricks and tiles to it. When one day it can no longer bear the weight of a thousand pounds, the beam will break.
Su Jiayou knew that Du Juan had taken it seriously this time, so he came over to apologize in person. He thought that he would still have a conflict like the past two people. As long as he came to apologize, Du Juan would forgive him as before, as he had been persuaded by his parents.
In fact, he loved Du Juan and didn't really believe that Du Juan would have anything to do with Yao Yuan. He just treated Yao Yuan as a gift to Du Juan as other men to please his girlfriend, and couldn't accept it.
It was useless for Su Jiayou to apologize in person, so he thought of moving his parents and coming with him to apologize. He could only think of this.
Little did he know that his apology, in the eyes of the enlightened Du Juan, was not an apology at all.
Su Jiayou is still Su Jiayou. He never knows how to treat women well, and he never really pleases or coaxs Du Juan. Because in his heart, a man's dignity is far more important than pleasing women.
Similarly, he brought his parents here. In Du Juan's opinion, this was not his real recognition of his mistakes and a real apology. It was not that Su Jiayou knew that he should know how to care for her, love her, and understand her in the future, but that he would use his parents to put pressure on her.
Du Juan did not give Su Jiayou another chance. No matter how the parents of both parties persuaded and coerced, Du Juan only said one thing: I don’t want such a heartless man!
In the end, the father became really anxious. He felt that his daughter had lost face for him, so he raised his hand and gave Du Juan a mouth.
Du Juan, who has been well-behaved and obedient since childhood, has never been beaten by her father in front of others. But she did not cry, but just opened her own door in the surprised eyes of others and walked out calmly.
No one came out to chase her. They thought she had no place to go and would come home sooner or later. They did not care about Du Juan's departure, and they also discussed together how to make this disobedient daughter surrender.
Du Juan had no plans to come back or surrender. She went to her office.
It was another Sunday, and the office was quiet and there was no one. Du Juan closed the door aimlessly, sat behind her desk, dazed intently, and her mind was blank.
She would not think of death because she felt that she had just begun to leave the thinking that her parents had instilled in her before, and she had seen a new world and a beautiful life had just begun.
Chapter completed!