33. Lest the world be in chaos
Yao Yuan looked at Aunt Jiang's face and felt a little sank. What happened again?
Jiang Meimei is more honest with Aunt Jiang’s two children. If something happens, it is usually Jiang Kangkang.
But Jiang Kangkang was still at home just now, and he looked pretty good, not like something happened.
He had to put down his shoulder pole and water bag, and went into the west room where he lived with Aunt Jiang, let Aunt Jiang sit down on the sofa in the outer room, and then asked, "What's the matter?"
Aunt Jiang asked him to sit on the sofa too, and then asked him: "Damn it, you tell Aunt Jiang the truth, do you like to resist?"
Yao Yuan was confused, he had never thought about this problem at all.
After thinking for a long time, I couldn't figure out what Aunt Jiang meant. I asked tentatively, "Aunt Jiang, what do you want to know?" Then I shuddered in my head and immediately argued, "I have always regarded it as my own sister. I have never been rude to her. If you don't believe me, please ask about Kangbang."
Aunt Jiang is a famous guardian in the factory. He doesn't want Aunt Jiang to hate him because of resistance.
Unexpectedly, Aunt Jiang's next words scared him.
Aunt Jiang said: "I am thinking about letting you marry and resist in the future."
Yao Yuan was stunned and said for a long time: "Aunt Jiang, aren't you just making a fool of yourself? Now is a new society. She has to decide on her own to resist her future affairs. You can't make the decision for her!"
Aunt Jiang was so angry that she said louder: "Why can't I go with you? I don't know it's a new society! Kang Kang is my daughter. If I want her to marry you, she has to marry you!"
Yao Yuan couldn't help but laugh and cry: "Aunt Jiang, you're still arranged marriages, this is not OK!"
Aunt Jiang waved her hand and said, "Let you mess up all of it!"
She didn't want Yao Yuan to know that her daughter was already attracted to him. In this case, she was afraid that Yao Yuan would underestimate Kang Kang, so she would naturally speak inconsistently.
After thinking for a long time, Aunt Jiang said, "Let's not care about the resistance, I just ask you, do you like resistance?"
Yao Yuan was in a dilemma.
In his concept, liking a girl is different from loving a girl. Moreover, the girl you like doesn’t have to marry her. The key is whether you love her or not, and whether you are willing to let her be your wife. This is a very complicated question.
But he really couldn't explain this to Aunt Jiang clearly.
After thinking for a long time, he thought carefully: "Resistant and beautiful, and sensible, of course I like her very much. But,"
Before he could finish, Aunt Jiang interrupted his words and said, "Isn't this a knot? Aunt Jiang said modestly, "My daughter, you can't find such a good thing even if you are lanterns in the whole factory. Aunt Jiang gave her to you because Aunt Jiang likes you and hopes that you will be by Aunt Jiang's side in the future and no one will leave me."
Yao Yuan is behind him, and there is actually something else. His original meaning was that, but liking is not love. If these two people like each other, they must be mutual, and then they can get along together. After getting along for a long time and falling in love with each other, they can only talk about marriage.
Now, he likes Kang Kang, and Kang Kang may not like him, and he cannot get along with him. Even if Kang Kang likes him, he still has to get along until he falls in love with each other before he can talk about marriage. Therefore, it is inappropriate for Aunt Jiang to talk about marrying Kang Kang now.
But Aunt Jiang stopped him from saying anything later and refused to say it.
Of course, he understood what Aunt Jiang meant, but he didn't want his children to leave him. Of course, Aunt Jiang said this, so he naturally didn't want him to leave him.
If he explains according to his own ideas, he will hurt Aunt Jiang's heart.
Yao Yuan's actual age is over thirty, and he has had a few girlfriends even if he is not as good as he is, and his understanding of love and marriage may be much more profound than Aunt Jiang's ideas in this era.
Now, he is just thinking and trying his best to get through the current difficult days. When he reaches the reform and opening up, he will have a chance to make a fortune.
Based on the current age, I am not as old as Kang Kang, and it is still early to get married. How will it develop in the future? No one can tell.
After Kang Kang came back from the countryside, he had already matured a lot. However, in Yao Yuan's opinion, Kang Kang was a little impatient and did not have enough cultivation. He was not the kind of docile girl he liked.
The key point is that he really didn't think about it and wanted to marry Kangkang as his wife in the future.
However, if you don’t agree to Aunt Jiang, Aunt Jiang will definitely be sad. Yao Yuan’s advanced view of love is definitely incomprehensible to Aunt Jiang.
He likes Aunt Jiang and really treats her as her mother, and does not want to hurt her heart.
After thinking for a while, he said, "Aunt Jiang, if you want me to marry Kangkang, I promise you, I will do whatever you say. But I have a condition."
Aunt Jiang looked at him and asked, "What are the conditions, you said?"
Yao Yuan said: "The condition is that you can't force Kang Kang to marry me. If Kang Kang likes others, you can't stop her."
Aunt Jiang said, "That's not OK. She is stupid. If she likes Zhang Jianjun again, can I still watch her jump into the fire pit?"
Yao Yuan smiled and said, "You can't look down on Kang Kang too much. Kang Kang has his own thoughts and aesthetic views. Do you think she can like people like Zhang Jianjun?"
Aunt Jiang said: "That might be the case. This girl was shopping when she was in school. She was not at all positive. She was even more beautiful than Meimei!"
Yao Yuan said seriously: "If you have to force you to resist and marry me, I will not agree to you."
After hearing Yao Yuan say this, Aunt Jiang was quite moved. This child was very careful and thought about resistance at this time. He didn't plan for himself at all, just give resistance to him.
She didn't expect that this was another excuse for Yao Yuan to refuse.
So he said, "Don't worry about this, I won't force the resistance." Then he said, "We have agreed. If Kang Kang is willing to marry you in the future, you are not allowed to agree. You also know that Kang Kang must be strong. If you regret it, something may happen to Kang Kang!"
Yao Yuan just perfunctorily said, "Okay, I understand, I won't regret it. I have to carry water."
Aunt Jiang still refused to let him go, muttering, "You are all nineteen years old this year, and you will be twenty next year, and you will be able to get married next year. At this time next year, I have to handle the wedding for you."
Yao Yuan is already big, so how could he get married at the age of 20? Besides, in this era, those who lack clothing and food cannot even guarantee the most basic nutrition. Is it different to get married and have children? He also expects to live this era and make a fortune with his future knowledge to live a good life.
He said to Aunt Jiang, "Aunt Jiang, now we advocate late marriage and late childbirth. How can we get married at 20?"
Aunt Jiang was stunned and asked: "It is recommended to have late marriage and late childbirth? When did I say it above? Why don't I know?"
Yao Yuan was also stunned. Could it be that he had not advocated late marriage and late childbirth at this time? No, he remembered that this slogan was proposed in the 1970s?
He made up his mind and said, "If you don't read books or newspapers all day, you don't even know the national laws. There is a regulation on late marriage and late childbirth. If you don't believe it, please ask others to go."
Aunt Jiang was really a little confused. Maybe the country really has this regulation?
She asked Yao Yuan: "Then what do you think the country stipulates?"
Yao Yuan looked stern and showed a serious attitude and said: "The state stipulates that men have to wait until twenty-five and women have to be allowed to get married until twenty-three."
Aunt Jiang said with a "Oh": "It's going to go back in a few years. Where can this work? I really have to inquire."
As he spoke, he walked out and turned around and said to Yao Yuan: "Even if you have to wait until that age, you are not allowed to regret it!"
Yao Yuan responded to her and said, "Okay, I won't regret it."
Aunt Jiang really went to inquire. She was familiar with Director Yu of the Love Committee. At this time, there was no Family Planning Office, and the Love Committee was also in charge of the fertility issues of employees.
Director Yu knew about these things, so he told Aunt Jiang that the country really proposed late marriage and late childbirth last year, and also advocated family planning and encouraged everyone to have fewer children.
However, Director Yu was familiar with her, so he secretly told her that the country is just advocating and there is no specific legislation yet. It is up to the people to decide how many children they have. As for the marriage age, as long as the woman is over the legal age of getting married at the age of 20, she can still issue her letter of introduction and get her marriage certificate.
Aunt Jiang asked, "Where is the man?"
Director Yu said, "The man has to be twenty-two years old." Then he asked, "What are you asking about this? Is there a partner in the resistance? Where is it? Whose child is it?"
Aunt Jiang said in a careless manner: "How old is the resistance? I asked for my sister's child in my hometown, thinking about telling her a partner in the factory. The countryside is really hard."
Director Yu nodded and said, "That's it. Rural girls can issue letters of introduction locally. Generally, no one will take care of them after 18. Many people don't register yet, and some of them don't get a marriage certificate when the child is old."
After leaving Director Yu's house, Aunt Jiang calculated that Dasha and Kangkang were both nineteen, and then there were three years left until Dasha's twenty-two. In these three years, Dasha's child was obedient and would not have any changes. But there was no qualification for the resistance, and maybe anyone would change their minds when they met.
But it doesn’t matter. As long as you watch it tightly, let them live together sooner or later!
When he got home, Jiang Kangkang had already prepared the rice, and Yao Yuan was still carrying water over there. Jiang Meimei ran over to see him farm.
Aunt Jiang resisted and said, "Go and call you stupid brother for dinner!"
He couldn't resist and said back, "I won't go, I'll call you to call yourself."
Aunt Jiang called Kang Kang over and quietly said to Kang Kang, "I asked Dasha, he promised to marry you in the future."
The face of resistance suddenly turned red and she said to her mother: "What are you doing? You always urge me to do both sides, and you still ask me to make clothes?"
Aunt Jiang laughed and said, "I didn't tell him that you like him, you pretend not to know."
Jiang Kangkang became anxious and said, "When did I say I like him? Don't talk nonsense, okay?"
Aunt Jiang scolded: "Damn girl, I raised you. Can you hide your little thoughts from mom? But I will tell you that this matter is settled. If you dare not listen to mom, let me see how I deal with you!"
That night, after dinner, Jiang Kangkang went to Yao Yuan to make clothes for Shao Ling.
For the first time, Yao Yuan was afraid that Jiang Kangkang would make a mistake, so he followed her and watched her do it.
For some reason, both of them were a little uncomfortable and didn't talk much.
Yao Yuan was so smart that he pushed him to the other side. He suddenly thought that Kang Kang hadn't joked with him recently, and was always lukewarm with him, or even deliberately alienated him. It must be that Aunt Jiang didn't know what she said in it.
Chapter completed!