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149 Psychological counseling

I didn't deliberately arrange for Lan Tian and Li Hua to get along with each other. This is all natural. I just follow her first, so why do I have to pass the New Year first? It's only been more than a month since Lan Tian's accident, so it's definitely not so easy to get out of it. I have to give her patience and time, and Li Hua has to give it too.

Just to make Lan Tian feel more comfortable, Li Hua and I became a little distant, and often looked at each other and smiled. Just keep those gentle and affectionate words in our eyes.

This year, none of us went home, so we made do with Lan Tian’s suite together. We still watched Lan Tian’s New Year’s habits and made dumplings while watching the Spring Festival Gala make.

Li Hua doesn’t know how to make dumplings, so I have to do it. We packed up the coffee table and arranged it. I sat at this end of the coffee table with my back facing the TV. I didn’t know what I was acting. Lan Tian and Li Hua sat opposite each other, Lan Tian smiled and taught Li Hua step by step how to make dumplings she mastered.

Li Hua understood one after a long time, and smiled and said, "It's quite fun," and then handed over, "Youyou, look."

I looked at it and smiled.

Sometimes I even wonder if I am not here at this moment, there will be only Li Hua and Lan Tian. They also live in harmony on the surface. Is it good to be fine? Without me, would Li Hua be able to fall in love with Lan Tian? Then they will be a couple who are ordinary and harmonious with each other.

But just think about it, even if I become the Virgin Mary in a second and want to withdraw from this relationship, it is just my wishful thinking, or if Lan Tian and I are both willing and willing, Li Hua's idea is ultimately the most important.

While wrapping dumplings, they continued to call. First, Lan Tian’s parents called. After greeting Lan Tian, ​​Li Hua and I took the phone number one by one and said a lot. Then Li Hua’s mother called, first looking for Lan Tian directly. Lan Tian called "godmother" and called her very close. Later, she gave Li Hua a call. After they said something, they hung up.

Didn’t Li Hua mean to talk to me? It’s true.

After that, my mother called again. After I talked to her a few words, she asked if she wanted to talk to my boyfriend. She said, "Let's just wait until I take it home before talking."

I'm very disappointed.

After rolling the skin, I wiped my hands and answered another call. This time it was called by Li Baitian. Li Baitian is very enthusiastic and has to talk to me about it during the holidays, but in the end I don’t talk about anything related to the festival, I just talk nonsense, I have nothing to do, so I’ll have to wait.

Since I came back from Beijing last time and sent Zhou Wenxue away, I have not taken time to contact Li Baitian, but he has never looked for me. Today, Li Baitian came up and asked, "What's going on? What's the arrangement after the New Year."

I said, "There is no arrangement..." and said it was a little unconfident because I remember that I promised something Sunday.

He said: "If you don't have any arrangements, come to Beijing."

I said in a negotiated tone: "Brother Tian, ​​I may not be able to go there in a short time, there is something wrong here that I can't leave."

I haven't told Li Baitian that something happened to Lantian. Only the two of us know about this matter, so it's hard to talk nonsense. Li Baitian is so gossipy. He chased me and asked what he was going to have a drink and get married. He also said, "Sister, you are not kind. Are you intentionally letting your brother lose both his wealth?"

I said, "How can you let people and money be lost? You are investing, and you don't just stuff your money into my pocket. I can also run away with the money. The legal procedures are all over. What are you worried about?"

Li Baitian felt that it was not understandable to me, "Oh, come here early, it's not just a year."

I cleared my throat, "That brother Tian, ​​if I don't go..."

"It's nothing, I'm just unhappy." Li Baitian likes to tell the truth.

Actually, I think I should go to Beijing this time, and it’s nothing to go there. I’m going to say I’m separated from Li Hua. But in this society, as long as you don’t have enough money, the distance is not called distance. From two hours to Beijing to Zhejiang, can you still not spend some time every week to meet?

Li Baitian asked me to go to work, but he didn't want to lock me up. There are always weekends for work.

And I think Li Baitian helped Li Hua and me. Although we will pay back the money with interest, some things are not as simple as borrowing as much as possible. His help is about favors and debts for favors, and he has to pay them back.

Even if I can’t pay back the money now, I have to at least give them a happy mood. Don’t make them help us, and it’s like he deserves me.

But I haven't figured out how to mention Li Hua. To be honest, it's not impossible, but I'm a little afraid of hurting him. After all, it was for him that I had such an agreement between Li Baitian. I was afraid of hurting his self-esteem as a man, and I was afraid that he would think more. And the important thing is, if I leave, who will take care of Lan Tian?

Lan Tian is now able to take care of herself completely. I don’t need to do the housework alone. She will give it to her when she wants to. We will also go hand in hand to buy vegetables. For example, Lan Tian wants to cook a big dish today, and she always calls Li Hua to come back from get off work to eat. Sometimes I think it’s like the hostess.

She was still idle and asked me to take Li Hua's suit to iron it for her, but she didn't take the initiative to ask for the keys to the door next door, which was quite sensible.

Anyway, she was immersed in the mood of being kind to Li Hua, and I watched it but couldn't pour her cold water on it. A few days after the Chinese New Year, I decided to go to Lan Tian's psychologist to see it and ask Lan Tian's psychological counseling how it was and where was it going.

She does psychological counseling twice a week, and I follow you every time, waiting outside, not going in to disturb me. The psychologist has just seen me.

Meeting and communicating with the patient's family is also a job under the psychologist. When I met this psychologist, the psychologist asked me how Lan Tian is now in her condition.

I said, "I'm much cheerful than at the beginning and talk more, not only watching idol dramas."

He said: "It seems to be effective, don't worry, take your time."

I nodded and said some questions in my heart, "It's just some things that I personally think are a bit inappropriate."

"What's the matter?"

"She is so nice to a man, but that man has a girlfriend. She has always liked this man before, and because he has a girlfriend, he has not had too much contact, but now he has more contact."

The psychologist said, "This is normal. Miss Lan's current situation is not physical trauma. I feel that her emotional depression is very serious, so I have done more guidance in this regard."

"What kind of guidance?"

"I told her not to suppress her emotions too much, express and release them appropriately, and do whatever she wants. As for her feelings, there is no right or wrong. If she likes, she should show it and give herself the opportunity to seize it."

When I heard this, I became anxious and said casually, "Aren't you causing trouble?"

The psychologist was puzzled and said, "I am the man's girlfriend. The three of us live together now. If you let her do this, how can we get along with each other?"

The psychologist said he knew everything that Lan Tian should tell him, the relationship between the three of us, and even the past, present and the future she expected. From my perspective, I think this psychologist is urging Lan Tian to poach me, but according to the psychologist, there is nothing wrong with Lan Tian poaching him. He is open and upright, and likes someone, and he is not allowed to fight for it.

The psychologist told me that his job is only responsible for the psychological counseling of patients, not to regulate emotional disputes. "I suggest that you do it with your boyfriend. Nowadays, many psychological problems are tutored together with the whole family, which will help patients recover."

Why do I think this psychologist is just a fraud? And Li Hua and I have no mental problems. I didn't adopt his opinion. After I went home, I found that Lan Tian was missing and seemed to have packed up some luggage.

Li Hua and I kept calling her, but she turned off the phone. We drove out to look for it. First, we went to the airport to look for it. I asked Li Hua what happened. Li Hua said: "She called me today and asked me to accompany her to the hospital for a follow-up visit. I told her that my mother wanted to take her back to City W for care. She didn't react at that time."

"Then have you accompanied her to follow up?"

Li Hua turned to look at me, "The next time she followed up will be a week later. You went with her last time. Did you forget?"

"Oh, she might have remembered it wrong." I said.

Li Hua didn't speak. The most worrying thing was that she might have remembered it on purpose.

I said, "Why did you ask your mother to pick her up? We should have taken care of her."

Li Hua glanced at me and turned around, "I just don't want to see you so tired."

"I'm not tired. It's our responsibility to take care of her, we agreed." I said angrily.

He suddenly stopped the brakes, frowned, and said to me in a heavy and pertinent tone, "But I'm tired. Youyou, it's not your responsibility to take care of Tiantian. You did nothing wrong at all. Why did you sacrifice yourself like this? Why did I let you be wronged like this?"

I said, "I don't feel wronged. I am your girlfriend, and Tiantian is also my friend."

He shook his head, frowned deeper, and his tone became heavier, "No one would think about this happening in Tiantian. Even if it is wrong, it is only my fault. It is okay to say that I have no conscience and say I am irresponsible. I don't want you to pay off my debts for me anymore."

Looking at his deep little eyes, my eyes turned red. He closed his eyes and took a breath, "Let's find her first."
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