Until now, I don’t think there is anything wrong with Youyou.

The character Youyou is based on Ashin’s best friend, Sister F. The reality of her family is basically copied.

Now I count it again, why do Youyou have the current mentality and why is he so stubborn?

1. Youyou's parents divorced, and her mother lived a bad life after divorce. Youyou distrusts men and family, fears of being abandoned, and fears that after being abandoned, she will be as miserable as her own mother. So she forces herself to be strong and independent, so that she can not be afraid of abandoning under any circumstances.

Why should Li Hua love Youyou for the rest of his life? Who can guarantee that a man will love a woman for the rest of his life? Youyou has had a broken experience, and she should be afraid.

2. Youyou was bullied by her stepmother since she was a child. She knew that she could not provoke her, but because of this patience, she was unwilling to admit defeat. She always became more and more courageous when she was in a frustration. She refused to cry when she was heartbroken. She was bullied on the crew and just complained, but she still insisted on and worked hard, and grasped her chances. I don’t think this was a bad quality at all.

3. Youyou should not be involved in the entertainment industry. Youyou is a student born in acting and now has the opportunity to act. She has the hobby of acting. Why can't she work hard for this hobby? She sticks to her hobby, does not destroy any principles, and does not harm anyone's interests. Instead, she has to bear more pressure from outsiders to contempt. Just think about it, are all of us persistent and firm when we really face our ideals?

She hasn't graduated yet, maybe one day she found other ideals and hobbies and just changed it. How can a girl in her early twenties refuse the possibility of her ideal?

4. The survival pressure that Youyou faces. Her father may be kicked off by her stepmother at any time, and she doesn’t have a penny in her hands. Her mother is a lunatic and takes her sister to elementary school. If there is any problem with her parents in the future, Youyou is willing to take on these things as a daughter with a sense of family responsibility. So she forces herself to be strong. Only when she is strong can she be ready to take care of her family at all times.

5. Youyou has nothing now. She doesn’t want to simply rely on Li Hua. She doesn’t want to be worthy of Li Hua in the eyes of others.

6. Don’t want this child. I sincerely ask you, if you encounter this situation when you are 21 years old, do you want this child? Do you dare to want this child? 21-year-old girl, who obviously has a bright future in front of her, immediately give up her wish and become a mother. Youyou has no preparation and has no confidence that she can be a good mother now.

7. Youyou loses his temper with Li Hua. This is completely caused by insecurity. A handsome man and beautiful woman have a long-distance relationship. Can you imagine the complexity? Li Hua and Youyou are both tempted by various temptations and endure the intrusion of loneliness. Sometimes they lose their temper just to get more comfort and care. Li Hua is just a person who doesn’t like to express his feelings with his mouth. This is a flaw in his personality. Youyou occasionally explodes, so he is very polite.

8. Youyou helps Lan Tian. Why not help? Lan Tian is like that. Helping her is Youyou's kindness. It is safer to put Lan Tian in an acquaintance company than to put her in other corners of society. What kind of stimulation can Lan Tian be subject to?

Some people say that Youyou clearly knows that Lan Tian is interested in Li Hua, but he still allows them to get closer. I want to say that friends who think this way underestimate Youyou, Li Hua too much, and even more underestimate Lan Tian too!

Youyou doesn't underestimate Lan Tian and Li Hua, so she can accept their contact openly. She doesn't think that her best friend will hurt her once, nor does she think that Li Hua may betray her again. This is her trust in her best friend and lover. In reality, most of us cannot do this.

But if you can't do it, it doesn't mean that this is Youyou's mistake, but I think this is a very good quality!

9. Li Hua's aspects will be explained in the extra chapter.

Finally, how could Li Hua become a best friend? It is impossible for Lan Tian to seduce her. Lan Tian missed it once and had tasted the taste of regret. If she did it again, her regret last time was vain. She wrote her apology specifically, and I also vain!

I was also worried that Li Hua's mother likes Lan Tian, ​​so I would encourage Lan Tian to be with Li Hua. Maybe, with Li Hua's personality, no matter how filial he is, he might be with whoever he likes? Do you look down on Li Hua's mother too much? ***The personality describes so many people indirectly, is he a person who can interfere with his son's feelings? Does it look like it?

This is not a palace fight. Lan Tian doesn't have so many terrible scheming. This is not a palace fight. As the heroine, Youyou can't see through everyone's tricks while the Virgin Mary, and she is as calm as Mount Tai when facing problems in the face of danger. This is not a palace fight. The hero is not the omnipotent emperor. He has a dark mind and a deep affectionate way. This is realistic romance, written according to living people. If you are a human, you will have problems, and if you are a human, you will have conflicts.

How to sing a song, "Lovers always break up and get back together..." A smooth love is of course valuable, but this time, Ashin pursues unforgettable, understanding after twists and turns, pulling fate, and training of emotions. This is not a small romance, definitely not!

I will give Youyou the most beautiful ending among all the heroines. I think she and Li Hua deserve to have.
Chapter completed!