Now I am just familiar with the road. I have experienced many things over and over again. With experience, I will become more familiar with them, and I will know which ones to deal with first and which ones to deal with later.

"Why do I feel that you are so familiar with this matter? You are much more familiar with it than my parents. My mother was not as clear as you when she talked to me." Tong Wangjun looked at Su Xing suspiciously, "If I hadn't known you in high school.

, I really wonder if you have been married once before, so you are so familiar with it."

There are many things that happen only once in a person's life, and the first time is often more profound and sacred. Marriage is one of them.

With an open mind, it is not uncommon for couples to divorce and remarry, but even if they remarry, they will compare the person they marry for the second time with the previous person, and there are not that many people who actually get happiness after remarrying.

Men tolerate women only because the women are beautiful or virtuous, while women tolerate men only because the men are handsome or rich.

The word "well-matched" is despised in history books and political books. When I was young, I hated these four words and thought it was a class concept, wrong and an old idea.

Why can't a prince be with Cinderella? Why can't a man from the countryside marry a man from the city?

But when you really enter the society and grow up, you will find that there is a certain truth in the four words "well-matched". It is a fairy tale for the prince and Cinderella to be together. This is not to say that this phenomenon does not exist. It definitely does exist, but 100

If there is one person among an individual, or even a couple among 10,000 people, then this matter actually has little to do with oneself.

Instead of pinning your hopes on becoming the lucky Cinderella, it is better to find a person who is truly good to you and live your life in a down-to-earth manner.

Most of the time the prince's search for Cinderella is similar to that of Principal Wang's search for an Internet celebrity. He likes her, but it doesn't last long. He will be replaced every few days.

Recognizing reality clearly and living in reality are the rules of survival that everyone should have.

There is a tiger in my heart, and I smell the rose carefully.

It is right to have dreams in your heart. People should have two sides, but these two sides should not be confused. While holding dreams, you should also recognize the reality and walk down the road steadily.

"How is it possible? I just checked some information online and asked some people, so I know it so clearly." Su Xing coughed twice and dropped the topic, "I'll call home first and explain the situation.

When we have free time, let's go to the hospital and take a look."

After Su Xing graduated from high school, he rarely asked his family about his affairs. He just did whatever he wanted. He knew what he should do and what he shouldn't do.

Su Xing will not take the initiative to do things like breaking the law and committing crimes. There is no need to explain other things in detail to his family. Talking too much will only make the elders worry.

I didn't say it before because it wasn't time to get the certificate yet. Tong Wangjun had just taken folic acid. Now I called him because Tong Wangjun might be pregnant. The two of them were about to get the certificate. No matter what, they must tell their families and let them know.

Be prepared.

"By the way, I almost forgot to tell you, what are your plans for the wedding? Should it be held at home or abroad? Do you have any special requirements?" Su Xing thought of this and took out his mobile phone. The number was not dialed.

Go out and ask Tong Wangjun again.

Obtaining the certificate is simple. You can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau to take a few photos, register, and complete the formalities immediately. However, weddings are a more troublesome matter. You must first determine the location, and then you can do the rest of the work based on the location.

Taking wedding photos, sending invitations to guests, decorating the wedding venue, purchasing corresponding items, and preparing a place for guests to stay, etc. These things are relatively tedious and take a long time.

"What do you think? I listen to you." Tong Wangjun still focuses on being awake in this regard.

"What I want is to hold it in the village. Now our village is developing well and the location is sufficient. We can accommodate guests attending the wedding." Su Xing said what he thought, "But if you have other requirements, you don't want to do it in the village."

It’s not impossible to hold it inside, but it’s not impossible to hold it in a hotel or abroad. We are not short of money now. Even if we charter a plane and bring all our relatives and friends there, there will be no problem.”

Su Xing had no special ideas about holding the wedding, as long as it was lively. Of course, the most important thing was to see what Tong Wangjun thought. After all, the wedding was a matter between two people.

You can wake up in the village, in a hotel, or find a place abroad.

Many things that are very important in the eyes of others are not very cold when I wake up.

"Just hold it in the village." Tong Wangjun almost didn't think about it and immediately agreed with Su Xing's idea.

"You don't need to look at my opinion. After all, a wedding is a matter between two people, and it only happens once in a lifetime. I mean it can be done in a village, in a hotel, or abroad. The main thing is that it has to be done according to your wishes." Su Xing was afraid that Tong Wangjun would obey him.

That’s why I felt sorry for myself and agreed to hold it in the village.

Times are developing, and many concepts are changing, especially the concept of women. Compared with a few decades ago, it can be said that there have been earth-shaking changes. In the past, when a woman married a chicken, she followed the chicken, and when she married a dog, she followed the dog. After marrying, basically what should the husband do?

, she will do whatever she wants and obey her husband in everything.

The other is towards her parents-in-law. No matter how they are, as a daughter-in-law, she must be filial to her parents-in-law and take care of her parents-in-law as if they were her biological parents. She must even respect her parents-in-law more than her biological parents and take things from her parents-in-law’s home to supplement her parents’ family.

, this is not allowed. If you are discovered, you will probably be scolded or beaten severely.

This is called turning the arm outward.

There are many things here that are actually excessive, and at that time, many people were relatively poorly educated. The parents-in-law certainly did not treat their daughters-in-law as well as their own biological daughters. They could not even talk about respecting their daughters-in-law, but in turn they asked their daughters-in-law to

It's really unfair to tolerate your parents-in-law as much as your own daughter.

Decades later, with the emancipation of the mind, these original requirements for women were completely overturned and moved to the other extreme. Women who married in the past did not like to live with their parents-in-law most of the time. This is understandable. After all, they are not familiar with their parents-in-law, and they are unfamiliar with each other.

It is indeed easy for people to have friction when they are together. They have different life concepts, living habits, etc. It is better to live separately and be more comfortable. It is also good to get together for dinner occasionally.

However, some women ask their husbands to sever ties with their parents-in-law, and even ask their husbands to compete for family property with their brothers and sisters, scheming at every turn, and finally saying that they are doing all this for the sake of the family.

Neither extreme is good.

"I think the countryside is more lively. Didn't you just say it? It's very convenient to be in the village, and the village is very good. It's open and open, and you can set off firecrackers. It's much more comfortable than in the city." Tong Wangjun had no special ideas.

I do think it is more comfortable and better in rural areas.

From the heart.
Chapter completed!