Chapter 919 What to do now
"Physics, aren't you a liberal arts major?" Su Xing felt strange.
"No, Su Ran and I knew each other before we were divided into classes. The two of us had a relatively good relationship, and we kept in touch later. We were both in the student union, so we became good friends. I chose science, but I didn't
Liberal arts." Dong Xinru felt a little regretful, "I originally
When I came here, I planned to choose liberal arts. I like Chinese very much, and I like to read literary works, Romance of the Three Kingdoms, and Dream of Red Mansions. I especially read Dream of Red Mansions 5 times. But my parents said that there is no future in liberal arts. If you learn mathematics, physics, and chemistry, you will be able to travel all over the world.
, asked me to enroll in science."
"A girl, what kind of science should I study? If I like science, physics, chemistry and biology, it doesn't matter if I choose science. You don't like to choose science, but you just choose it to make it easier to find a job in the future? It's too messy." Su Xing shook his head.
"It's very difficult to improve your performance in the long run if you do something you don't like."
With the development of society, young people are more and more willing to resign. There are many reasons, the main ones are just a few.
One is that there are more jobs and more freedom of choice. They are not afraid that they will starve to death after resigning. The older generation does not dare to resign. If they have a job, they will work hard. Even if it is not an iron rice bowl, as long as it is a job, they will not be picky.
Just take it if you have the money, because they themselves have low academic qualifications, their knowledge is not that broad, and there are not many social jobs. They have been working in the land all their lives.
If they have to work face-to-face, or there are very few job opportunities, they finally get a job opportunity. Even if they work over the weekend and more than 10 hours a day, they will grit their teeth and persevere. After all, if they resign rashly, they cannot guarantee the next job.
Can I find a job? If I can't find a job, what will happen to my children's lives and what will happen to the whole family in the future?
Another reason is that young people live more comfortably and want to live more than live. Therefore, if they feel uncomfortable in a job, they will have the idea of changing jobs.
The last point is that the main reason is that life is too stressful. You have to keep changing jobs and choose suitable jobs to ensure a more comfortable life in the future. At least you have to have a house. If the house price is eight to nine thousand yuan per square meter, but your salary is only three yuan.
Four thousand yuan will make many young people lose hope and increase their pressure. Once they find a suitable opportunity, they will immediately choose to leave.
"I discussed it with my parents, but they disagreed. They said that after graduating from liberal arts, I would not be able to find a job. What should I do at that time? I also said that I have a relative, a distant cousin, who studied science and found a job.
It’s a very good job. Now in a foreign company, you can get five to six thousand yuan a month. His salary in one month is higher than many people’s salary in three or four months.”
Five to six thousand yuan a month is indeed a high salary.
"So your parents saw other people's high wages and thought that studying science would be promising and get a high salary, so they asked you to study science and get a high salary in the future?" Su Xing shook his head and sighed, without waiting for Dong Xinru to speak.
Then he went on to say, "It's just nonsense. As parents, if you don't know what's best for your children, then you should try your best to follow your children's interests.
It’s not a bad habit. Oh, I saw that other people’s salary is five to six thousand yuan a month and they are studying science, so they let their children study science? Even if the children don’t like it. Have you ever seen other people who took the civil service exams studying science?
Liberal arts? Those who are officials all study politics, history, philosophy, law, etc. How come they don’t see these?”
Sometimes parents do not do what is good for their children. They really want to do what is good for their children. They will listen carefully to their children's needs, and then see if the major they choose has a future, and whether it is really impossible to find it.
Work, instead of seeing other people's children earning five or six thousand yuan a month, and immediately asking your children to follow suit, without considering whether the children can learn or not, and whether they like it or not.
What is the purpose of making money and finding a job? It is nothing more than to make life happier.
In the past it was arranged marriage, now it is an arranged ideal.
"Brother Su, are all civil servants really majoring in liberal arts?" Dong Xinru asked Su Xing.
"Although not all of them are, most of them are like this. For example, the majors I mentioned just now include law, politics, history, and literature, including accounting, management, business, and finance. Civil service examinations in these areas will be more relevant.
It will be easier to work in the future. After all, you are dealing with words, and girls have a greater advantage in these aspects." Su Xing nodded, "Although the country has regulations that no unit may discriminate against women based on gender and other conditions, but regulations are regulations.
, it’s another story in actual work, after all, there are many jobs that are not suitable for women.”
Although some people from science and engineering majors will enter research institutes or testing institutions after they graduate, and have a better place to stay, there are also some people who will go to the construction site. At the project site, even if some people enter the research institute,
In fact, you may have to travel frequently for projects, which is not friendly to women.
I only see high wages but fail to consider the actual situation. This is not good for the children. It is obviously good for myself.
"Then what should I do now? I'm so angry. If I had known it was like this, I shouldn't have listened to my parents in the first place. I should have made up my mind to apply for liberal arts. Now I am not happy at all studying. I have a headache when I see the test papers, especially physics.
, how to do the questions, how to take the test, I am not as good as others. My deskmate made a set of test papers, and I was able to get 80 or 90 points during the exam.
, I did four or five sets of test papers, and went to the study room to study by myself every night after evening self-study. The result? I just passed the exam." Dong Xinru was very depressed, "I want to see more of the world.
I read famous books, Tang poetry and Song poetry, but because I was partial to subjects and my physics was too bad, I could only spend a lot of time on physics, and the effect was not good."
"You have to like learning to be able to take the initiative to learn and be efficient." Su Ran said, "If you don't like physics, you won't be able to learn well if you have emotions when studying. Like me, I don't have any emotions. Writing questions makes me feel
Happiness makes me feel satisfied. Now I am even taking college courses, and they are not very difficult. Many things are similar to those in high school. They are so simple and you can learn them in one go."
"Then what should I do now? I can't transfer to liberal arts in my senior year of high school." Dong Xinru said, "I learned useless things, and when I get a job later, I don't think I will be able to do anything in this area. It's not a waste.
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"You can change majors, but it's too late for you now. You only have one year left. It's definitely not possible." Su Xing shook his head, "It's too late, but you don't have to worry too much. Just choose the major you like when you fill out the voluntary application. No.
Chapter completed!