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Just when Ling Tianyu wanted to take care of Xu Yali, Xu Yali suddenly moved. She pulled back the covering clothes on her face, opened her eyes and looked at Ling Tianyu, mumbling something.

This shocked Ling Tianyu. He thought Xu Yali had woken up. If Xu Yali found that she had pushed away her hood and taken off her inner bra and stockings, as a police officer, she would definitely

I won't let myself go.

If he did it to her, maybe she would worry about her reputation and not cause trouble for herself. However, she hasn't done it yet. She only touched her twice. She is a police officer, so she must clean up herself and make herself inconspicuous.

Yes, it made me angry.

In that case, Ling Tianyu would be very ugly.

However, Xu Yali opened her eyes. She just blinked in confusion, and then closed them again. She just said dissatisfiedly: "Well, water, pour me a glass of water. I want to drink water, Ling Tianyu."

Obviously, Xu Yali was still in a drunken state. She didn't know what Ling Tianyu did to her, and she didn't realize that she was almost naked and exposed herself in front of Ling Tianyu.

She is not a frivolous woman. Although she is not disgusted with Ling Tianyu, she does not have the idea of ​​​​love between men and women. If she were sober, she would never be willing to hand herself over to a young student.

Xu Yali’s love dream: Find someone who matches your eyes, and also has some money and status. After marrying him, you can get money from him without working, so that you can cover your daily expenses and repay you.

One's own parents (elderly care).

This idea is not vain, but very real. Compared with some vain women who want cars, houses, entertainment, and fun, it can be said that Xu Yali is definitely a good and intellectual woman.

There is definitely nothing wrong with her wanting to find someone who is compatible with her. For most of the rest of her life, she will live with that person and sleep in the same bed. If she doesn't see eye-to-eye with him, then what will happen?

It's okay to be married even if you don't work. Besides, she just needs to find a man who can support the family and put food on the table when she can't work (for example, if she's pregnant). That's not the case.

That said, she is the kind of woman who loves to eat, is lazy, and doesn't work.

Besides, women are born to stay at home and be raised by men. She only needs to take care of the children, look after the house, cook the food, and honor her parents-in-law;

Of course, it is an obligation for women to do these things, and men must also take responsibility. A family is not a family of one person, and everyone must do their own job well.

A man's responsibility is to at least ensure that the family has something to live on and that both parents have support. This is not asking for money, but a man's responsibility.

Even if a man cannot bear this responsibility, he needs a woman to share it (earn money and work together), which is okay, but the man must be responsible.

What is a man’s sense of responsibility?

That is, a man must clearly realize that it is his responsibility to support his family! Even if there are natural disasters and man-made disasters, a man may not be able to support his family. He needs to rely on his wife to fulfill this responsibility together or for him, but this man must also know

: "This responsibility is a man's responsibility." For his wife's help, a man should be grateful for his wife's kindness. This is called "responsibility."

A responsible man will willingly leave all his property to a woman for safekeeping after marriage, including his salary card and his own life;

In the same way, women must also have a sense of responsibility in marriage.

Before we talk about women's sense of responsibility, of course we must first talk about women's responsibility.

A woman's responsibility is to leave her virginity to a man who is willing to take responsibility for her, or to let the man who gets her virginity be responsible for her, her life and her parents.

If the woman fails to fulfill this responsibility (her virginity is broken, but the man she marries is not the man who broke her virginity), and the man is willing to exempt the woman from this responsibility (having a wrong virginity) and does not care about the woman's past,

If you marry a woman together, then the woman should also be grateful (a clear understanding and self-reflection: this is something that is sorry for her man), and she cannot ask too much of this man to bear the burden of such a fulfilling and heavy marriage.

Responsibility, men have to spend money wherever they want, and women are not allowed to interfere.

Of course, a good-for-nothing and an irresponsible man are equal in marriage (this is not absolute, if a man likes money, money can make up for his lack of character; if a woman likes talent, then a talented man

, wealth can make up for poverty).

The above is about responsible men and responsible women. They at least know their responsibilities. However, in real life, how many people know that they have to bear the responsibilities of marriage?

Men are lustful, and after all the money is spent in whoring, they don’t know how to stop and correct themselves. Instead, they are lazy and do not do their job properly and do not make money;

A woman loves money, but she loses her virginity. After she loses her virginity, she not only refuses to admit her mistake, but breaks the virginity and lets more men use it;

Regardless of men or women, when they understand everything (understand their responsibilities and have a sense of responsibility), they realize that what they have wasted is their youth, and what they have lost (including the physical ability to make love, and the feeling of youthful vitality when making love) is also lost.

There will never be the same thing again.

We can often see or hear some couples quarreling: "I married you, you are really unlucky for eight lifetimes, damn, you are a poor man." "I married you, you are so blind, damn, you are so lazy.

, I want this or that..." and so on.

In fact, from their curse words, we can see what he needs from the other person, his outlook on life, love, values...

So, is this kind of marriage love? Can it be called love? Definitely not. Absolutely: we are bedfellows in normal times, and we fly separately when disaster strikes.

In fact, don't blame this society for favoring boys over girls; because a prodigal son can turn around and make money after losing it; although a chicken girl can be a good person, she will never get it back after losing her virginity.

(People who have endless money to spend, in the same case, women with a lot of money or beautiful women have a harder time getting true love. It is easy for them to get other people's bodies, but it is difficult for them to get other people's hearts.)
Chapter completed!