"The Gu family used to be a prominent family? Are they true or false?" Su Chen asked in surprise.

Gu Qingya casually said, "It should be? I heard my dad say something, but I don't know the specific one. But so what? It's not the past now? It's already a thing of the past for famous families!"

"Yes! Ahem, it's been a long way off. My wife, Xiaoyu is not young anymore, have you never thought about her future?"

Gu Qingyu's pretty face wrinkled slightly. "Xiaoyu is only seventeen? She will take the college entrance examination next year. Is it too early to think about the future now?"

Su Chen shook his head. "It's not too late! The college entrance examination is a major turning point in life, and the grades are the most important, but for a child, there are actually things that are more important than the college entrance examination results!"

"What?" Gu Qingya asked curiously.

"interest!"

"interest?"

"That's right! A child's personal interests determine the direction of filling out his application form after the college entrance examination, and this direction can actually truly determine his life fate.

Nowadays, many parents have the priority of their children's grades. Before the college entrance examination, they do not pay attention to the cultivation of their children's interest in personal skills, so that when children fill out their applications after the college entrance examination, they are like headless flies, without even a basic direction, and can only follow the crowd. When they hear about a major that is easy to find or make money, they blindly fill in, without considering whether they are interested in this major or whether they can study it!

So much so that after entering university, these students find that they have no interest in the major they choose and cannot learn at all. Even if they barely study, they will feel a strong sense of rejection, which will eventually lead to either being mediocre in grades or changing careers after graduation. Once they transfer to college, they will basically be half of their four years in college and will have a bleak future.

It’s not that I’m exaggerating. In fact, there are not only graduates like this in our country, but also account for the majority.

This is the consequence of blindly choosing a major after the college entrance examination.

So I think that for the cultivation of children, academic performance is important, but interest and ideals are the top priority. We do not require her to know how much or make any hopes about her interests. As long as she can recognize her ideals and is willing to work hard for them, our goal will be achieved.

Even after cultivating children's interest and ideals, it will help improve academic performance. Because when a person has no ideals, his learning is blind, passive, and passionless. Even if he works hard, he will get half the result with twice the effort! Once a child has his own goals and his own ideals, then she will work hard for his ideals again, which is equivalent to having subjective intentions. Her learning goals are no longer blind, and they will be full of passion. Such a learning attitude will make reading and learning much easier, and will be more efficient, achieving twice the result with half the effort!"

Su Chen's words are by no means general, but experiences learned from his personal experiences and bloody lessons.

When he was a child, he completed his junior and high school studies with kind-hearted people. However, at that time, he worked to earn money every day, and had no time to think about anything else. This also led to his high grades in the college entrance examination, but he chose the wrong major when filling out his application form. As a result, when he was in college, he found that not only his professional knowledge was super difficult, but also difficult to find a job.

This led to Su Chen being passively lazy when he was in college. He graduated with an ordinary grade. He was lucky to successfully join a company. In the end, he was not interested in the knowledge of this major and spent his work every day in annoyance. In addition, the boss was a vampire, so Su Chen resigned in anger.

Then he was unemployed and was forced to do so. He, a college graduate, finally got a takeaway.

I have to say that it is really a choice, ruining Su Chen's life. If he hadn't encountered the system later, he would have been ruined in this life. Not to mention marrying a wife and having children, it would be great to be able to support himself for the rest of his life!

When Su Chen thinks of this topic, he really has a lot of things to say.

Gu Qingya was also shocked by Su Chen's words. It's not that Su Chen said so amazing. In fact, the truth that Su Chen said is a big deal. Basically, people who have been to college can understand it. However, truth is truth, reality is reality, and not every truth can be integrated into reality.

What surprised Gu Qingya, Su Chen actually said so many big truths today. Is this the first time he has seen Su Chen so sentimental?

"Husband?" Gu Qingya was a little worried, not knowing what Su Chen had experienced.

Su Chen came back to his senses and couldn't help but laugh. "Hey, don't worry about me. No matter what I used to be, you'd better see me now. Do you think I still have these troubles now?"

"Uh..." Gu Qingya came back to her senses and was also happy.

OK, with Su Chen's current conditions, there is no need to worry about anything. It can be said that all Su Chen's sentimentality is pretentious.

"Husband, I thought about it and you were right. But you also know that not every family has the conditions to create ideal conditions for their children!"

Indeed, if you want to have a firm ideal, you must have personal experience. Only after you experience it yourself can you firmly strengthen your heart. Otherwise, if you rely solely on imagination, it will be difficult to cultivate your ideals.

But it is precisely this kind of experience that not every family has the conditions for their children to experience.

For example, a child’s ideal is to be a corporate executive and like to sit in the office to give advice. Unless there is a company at home, children from ordinary families will never be able to personally understand what it feels like to be a company executive.

Maybe he just got the feeling from the Internet that he felt that being a company executive was cool. But if he didn't experience it personally, he would never prove that he really liked it. Because every profession has its pros and cons. Sitting in the office is really cool, but not everyone can adapt to and bear the things like handling business, managing subordinates, and intrigue with his opponents.

Therefore, there is actually no difference between such false ideals and blindly filling out applications.

Su Chen also knew this, so he just lay on the bed and talked to his wife, and did not make this view public.

"I know you have to consider it, but my wife, we can't control other people's children, but Xiaoyu can't ignore them. Others' families don't have the conditions, but our family has whatever they want. No matter what Xiaoyu wants to try, I can find a way to let her take advantage of the summer vacation to experience it myself!
Chapter completed!