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Chapter 465: Children's Education

Wang Yiyuan thought about it and said, "You two are all here too, so I will say a few more things about this child's education."

My younger brother said, it is related to the education of children. Brother, you have been a teacher, read more than us, and have seen more worlds than us. We originally wanted to discuss experience with you, but now we can listen to you more.

Xiao Xiaoxiao smiled and said, "How long has your brother been a teacher for? So many years have passed, and I am afraid that I will forget it."

Wang Yiyuan took a sip of tea and said that children's education is a matter that is highly valued in all aspects. But in fact, children's education includes not only school education, but also family education.

He said that in terms of family education, parents are the best examples for their children. So you two must set a good example in daily life and work, so that your children can have a good example of learning and growth healthy.

The younger brother and Oda sat quietly on the chair and listened to Wang Yiyuan continue to talk.

Wang Yiyuan said that how parents educate and cultivate their children well is actually a focus of today's society. Children from kindergarten to elementary school, from elementary school to junior high school, high school, and finally going to college are all the central topics people talk about. Parents, grandparents and family members often arrange the lives of the whole family around a certain child. This may not be many in our rural hometowns. For the sake of life, many children and parents go out to work, but it is no surprise in the city.

Why? The reason is very simple. Wang Yiyuan said that times have changed and the living environment has become more advanced. In addition to family planning, a big family, including grandparents, grandparents, and parents, usually only one child, who doesn’t care for and who doesn’t love?

Haha, aren’t we all able to have only one child now? Xiao Xiaoxiao said, unless both parents are only children.

Wang Yiyuan said, yes. This also invisibly makes children feel self-superior. Even if some parents do not spoil their children, this phenomenon in society will also affect them, and children are also very clear about their "status" at home.

He said that sometimes I read books or watch news online. Based on these phenomena analysis, I personally think that there are several major problems for children nowadays, such as: there are too many entertainment projects and are not interested in learning; there are better living conditions and are unwilling to endure more hardships; there are too many people I love and cannot listen to the opposite opinions, etc. Therefore, education and raising children are quite a headache, and it feels more stressful than working outside.

Xiao Xiaoxiao said, but no matter what, my brother and Xiaotian, I tell you that children must be well trained. In this society, if you don’t have knowledge and master some basic skills, you may not even be able to eat in the future.

She said that when I have free time now, I am reading some books on how to cultivate and educate children. There are a few things I have experienced. The first is to care for children, not spoil them. Sometimes I only have to let children suffer and receive more education on setbacks. Remember, you must not spoil their children.

The second article is to focus on giving full play to the educational function of the family. The responsibility of educating children must be shared by parents, and neither of them can give up their own responsibilities. At the same time, fathers and mothers must create conditions for each other to assume educational responsibilities, and have division of labor and cooperation in educating children, and should not monopolize the "power". Only when parents share the educational responsibilities and have harmonious and complementary influence on their children's educational responsibilities can they fully exert the educational function of the family.

Oda smiled and said, "There is now the situation at home, and the children are basically just me taking care of the education."

Wang Yiyuan said, I will find a way to make your two of you closer together in the future. Now that the children are still young, they may not feel much. When the children grow up in the future, as a boy's father, their role will only become greater and greater in the process of the children's growth.

My younger brother touched his nose and said, it seems that I need to continue working hard first, otherwise I will not be a role model for children in the future.

Xiao Xiaoxiao smiled and said, "Yes, do you think it's so easy to be a father?"

Wang Yiyuan said, in addition, our child is definitely not used to it now from the countryside to the city, or there are some places that are behind others, such as speaking English, pronunciation of Mandarin, etc. To be honest, where did we come into contact with English when we were young?

We should give children more praise and encouragement, and give them more appreciation, which will help cultivate children's self-confidence, as well as good habits and qualities. Xiao Xiaoxiao said that giving children more appreciation, you will see the children's unique strengths and advantages, see their little progress, affirm him, insist on encouraging him, patiently guide her, look at him peacefully, and support him with practical actions, and the children will carry forward their own strengths, which is very necessary.

Yes, I also think the child’s confidence is particularly important. Oda said that it has been almost a month since now, and I think the child has made great progress.

In addition, the head teacher and the teacher should communicate more and contact more, actively introduce the child’s situation to the head teacher, and often understand the situation with the head teacher and the teacher. Xiao Xiaoxiao said that you should read the contact book more every day and report the child’s progress to the head teacher and the teacher, so as to facilitate timely communication with the head teacher.

Xiao Xiaoxiao said, we said we should pay attention to daily communication with children and help them overcome their shortcomings. But don’t get angry with children easily. Xiaotian is still not doing enough to know how to cut down?

My younger brother looked at Oda. Oda blushed and said embarrassedly, "Sometimes I just can't help but want to get angry, but sometimes I regret it after getting angry."

Wang Yiyuan said that curiosity, rich imagination and competitive strength are the three major elements of children's growth. Because children are still young and are naturally fun, in this regard, we must ensure that children have plenty of mobile time to play and relax and do what they like. We fully respect children's nature, but we must also cultivate them to learn to rest and adjust. This depends on our parents to grasp and adjust.

As he was talking, the cell phone rang. Wang Yiyuan walked over to the desk and picked up the cell phone. He saw that it was the phone call from Mr. Wu. So he signaled to temporarily silence, and he answered the phone.
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