Chapter 219: The vacation is over
It turns out that women in this era pay attention to the three obediences and four virtues, and they must absolutely obey their husbands. They also arranged many rules and regulations to limit them, such as the seven-incidence crimes, which are some crimes that can divorce their wives, one of which is jealousy.
In other words, this crime is that your wife is not allowed to take care of your husband's concubine, otherwise your husband can justify her, and neither the government nor the parents' family will care about it!
This rule made Du Jia sweat a few times on his head, secretly admiring the happiness of men of this era. As long as he can make money, he doesn't have to worry about anything else. Moreover, life is free and easy, and he can get along with whoever he wants.
Of course, as long as you can afford it and have good kidneys, you can theoretically marry several families, but the status of the wife of the main wife is unshakable. She has the right to control the property and the management of the harem. Even the children born from other concubines cannot call her biological mother "mother", but can only call her aunt, and must call her "mother". So while they are oppressed by their husbands, they are oppressing other women, so the famous saying "Why do women make things difficult for women" has been passed down from generation to generation.
Even the ladies like Chai Liya are no exception. They have been instilled with this patriarchal idea since childhood, but the only difference between them and the daughters of poor families is that they are more able to protect their rights and interests.
When I heard Chai Liya Du Jia, I could only persuade: "Liya, I have no meaning, but I am not used to being so ridiculous. You are the only one in my heart."
Chai Liya was secretly happy when she heard this, and she felt that her choice was too correct. Such a good husband was simply one in a million. Even the elder brother Chai Jin, whom she admired and was closest to, could not compare with. However, she was even more cognitive. The more she was moved, the more she felt that she had to consider her husband.
So she leaned her head gently on Du Jia's chest and said quietly: "It's enough to have your husband's intentions, but after all, you are a person who does big things, and this will be even more true after you become successful in the future. You must have more branches and leaves. If you don't have time, I will help you pay attention."
At this time, Du Jia felt a ridiculous feeling in his heart that men did not want to take concubines but women came to persuade them. This was simply unimaginable in his previous life. No wonder men in this era, especially those who were officials, were so proud and so happy!
After silently reciting in his heart, "This era is like this, I want to follow the customs." Du Jia also let himself accept this, but he would definitely not be as fed with the old and fucked with the old like many men. He would forget his old love with a new love. For him, Chai Liya is her wife, and no woman can replace her status.
The two of them went out of the lights and hugged each other, and slept until midnight. In the next few days, Du Jia closed the door to thank the guests. He just accompanied his family to enjoy the joy of family, planted flowers and plants with his wife, played chess and piano, accompanied the old man to fish, and did some carpenter work. He listened to his mother's nagging and eating the hometown dishes she cooked with her own hands. He felt extremely happy.
However, he also understood that he was not a vain after all, and countless people were waiting for him to lead him, and could not enjoy the leisure and freedom all the time. So after ten days of happiness, he called his personal soldiers over and asked them to go to the main camp to inform the leaders that his vacation was over. He would just look for him if he had anything to do, and at the same time he also took off the guest card outside the gate.
Sure enough, someone came to report it like a flying party, saying that the regular meeting of the copycat was about to be held, so I asked the three leaders to go to Juyi Hall to share with everyone. In fact, this meeting should have been held long ago, but according to the mountain rules, the three leaders must decide to pass it unless there are special circumstances. These days, Du Jia and the rest of the leaders who went down the mountain were resting, so we waited until today.
In fact, Song Jiang was already impatient, but he could not disturb Du Jia and the others because of his feelings and reason. After all, there was no urgent matter such as invasion of the enemy or the food and grass being sold out. Du Jia and the others returned with great success and could not let them rest and relax for a while. They had to interrupt others because they were in a hurry to make contributions, which would inevitably arouse public anger.
Besides, he had lost face before, so the loss would be even greater when he came back like this, so he could only wait patiently, and arranged eight times a day to go to Du Jia's mansion to watch, just like a young wife waiting for her husband to come back.
So when he saw Du Jia "out of the pass" Song Jiang was overjoyed. As soon as Du Jia took off the card to avoid the guests, he hurriedly called someone to inform everyone to go to the meeting. When Du Jia walked into the hall, he saw that the rest of the people had already arrived.
After all, most of the leaders in Liangshan were still single at this time. There were still a few people like Du Jialin Chong Shijin who wanted couples to reunite and live a life of x. They had almost gambled after eating and drinking these days. They were bored and wanted to find something to do. When they heard that they were going to hold a general meeting, they must have another task, so they all came excitedly.
After Du Jia came in, he smiled and sang rudely, and then sat down next to Song Jiang. Song Jiang laughed and said, "Young Master Jia has been lingering with his younger brother and sister these days. He is really envious of others, haha."
Du Jia also smiled and said, "Brother Song is polite. We real men are fighting hard outside to make our parents, wife and children live a comfortable and decent life? Isn't Brother Song for the sake of the uncle and the others?"
Song Jiang suddenly stopped. His previous words were quite ridiculed by Du Jia's love for his children and his preference for sex and friends. He had known that many leaders on the mountain were very boyish and thought that women were just playthings. Whoever paid attention to or even treated women would make people laugh at him, so Song Jiang wanted Du Jia to be despised by these people.
But I never thought that Du Jia would refute it immediately. He knew that he was indeed an alien in this era, and that was difficult to explain. Except for a few people who were interested in friendship, such as Lin Chong, who could understand his words, most people would ignore or even laugh at him. Instead of wasting their lips and tongues and playing the piano against them, it would be better to cover it up. So he quietly expanded the "woman" in Song Jiang's mouth to the category of "family".
You can laugh at others for being kind to women, but you can’t laugh at being kind to your parents, right? Filial piety is the most valued in any era. Even if there are many things that have not actually been done, you have to try every means to say how filial you are. Many times, the elderly are actually abused to death in the end, but the funeral is held countless glories. Those unfilial children cry in miserable ways. They do this not because their conscience is revealed, but because they do it for others to see - you see, I spent so much money to hold a funeral, so I am filial to my parents.
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It's heartbreaking, I don't want to say anything, but tears flow thousands of times
Chapter completed!