359 is a question of trade-offs(2/2)
Therefore, Cao Zhiqiang is still very confused about what to do.
In fact, he is more inclined to be a scumbag, but it is easier said than done.
How can the three views and moral concepts formed over decades be so easily changed?
In the end, Cao Zhiqiang sighed, and then subconsciously went to the West Sea, where Hao Shuwen lived.
This was indeed a subconscious reaction, because he subconsciously felt that only a mature woman like Hao Shuwen, who had also been hurt, could soothe his soul.
Moreover, Hao Shuwen is also proficient in music and has the same hobbies as him, so that is a big deal, so it is best to go there.
So he went.
When Cao Zhiqiang went to Hao Shuwen's house, Hao Shuwen was planning to wash her feet and go to bed.
As expected, after seeing Cao Zhiqiang suddenly come to the door and looking unhappy, he started asking for help.
As for Cao Zhiqiang, he was also obsessed at the time and actually told the story in a slightly abridged version.
Well, the slight deletion means mainly deleting some of Cao Zhiqiang’s original thoughts that cannot be explained, but he probably explained the process clearly.
Originally, Cao Zhiqiang thought that after what he said, Hao Shuwen would yell at him and call him a scumbag, and he was even ready to break up with her.
But Cao Zhiqiang couldn't help it and really wanted to find someone to talk to.
But what I didn't expect was that Hao Shuwen, a woman who had clearly hated her husband for finding a mistress, would actually start to have double standards.
She actually understood Cao Zhiqiang very well and felt that Cao Zhiqiang was right and so was Yu Yuanyuan.
Just when Cao Zhiqiang was stunned, Hao Shuwen actually expressed another opinion.
Hao Shuwen told Cao Zhiqiang at that time that for a woman, normally speaking, she would like to live with only one man for the rest of her life.
But that is only a woman's highest dream, and it is often difficult to realize it in reality.
Under normal circumstances, women get married just to make ends meet, without any love at all.
She also said that when she got married to her current husband, it was a marriage between two families. The two parties even didn't look at each other before, so they got together because of their family marriage.
She had accepted her fate at first, but if her husband hadn't gone too far in the end, not only openly living with his mistress, but even wanting to kick her and marry her, she wouldn't be so angry.
In other words, according to Hao Shuwen, of course women hope to grow old together with the man they love most, but most of them can't do it, and most of them can't meet the man of their dreams.
If you can really meet the man you like, even if this man is a bit of a playboy or even has other women.
As long as this man is good enough and can ignore the shortcomings of the other person, then he is the most suitable man.
Women are not as rational as men. They are actually more emotional and more likely to have a spirit of sacrifice. They are not very possessive as often said.
It is men who have a strong desire for exclusivity.
Then Hao Shuwen said that Cao Zhiqiang was young, handsome, wealthy, could write poetry, sing and play the piano, and was excellent in every aspect.
Not only that, Cao Zhiqiang is also very caring and knows how to respect women. When he is with a woman, he sincerely helps each other without asking for anything in return.
How many women wouldn’t love such a good man?
It's okay if you haven't met it, but once you meet it, how can you be willing to let it go?
For this reason, even if she competes with other women, she will not hesitate.
Yes, according to Hao Shuwen's analysis, the reason why sisters Yu Fangfang and Yu Yuanyuan proposed the idea of two women serving one husband together was because they wanted to use this method to compete with Qinghong, a good man like him.
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Because if Yu Yuanyuan doesn't do this, she won't even have a chance to stay with Cao Zhiqiang, so how can she compete?
But once the idea of two women serving one husband was brought up, they would have the opportunity to stay by Cao Zhiqiang's side and compete with that Qing Hong openly.
When the time comes, who wins and who loses will depend on their own methods.
Moreover, even if Yu Yuanyuan fails in the end, at least he will not fail completely, and at least he can still get half of Cao Zhiqiang, which is worth it.
To put it bluntly, if a woman is willing to give up her self-esteem and be willing to be a man's lover, this man must be able to bring her what she wants.
The thing she wants can be money, a job, or a relationship.
In the final analysis, it is because Cao Zhiqiang, as a man, is too good and excellent.
For example, Hao Shuwen never thought that she would take the initiative to hook up with a man other than her husband. After all, she considers herself a traditional good woman.
But after seeing him, Cao Zhiqiang, I was still hopelessly attracted, and then I missed him more and more, and became more and more unable to extricate myself. In the end, I couldn't help but take the initiative, do that kind of thing, and willingly became Cao Zhiqiang's de facto underground.
lover.
Is Hao Shuwen born shameless?
Not really.
Isn’t it because you once had a failed marriage that you really long for a true love?
He, Cao Zhiqiang, is the man that Hao Shuwen really wants. Even though this man is not perfect and has many shortcomings, those shortcomings are insignificant compared to the advantages.
Chapter completed!